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HomeMy WebLinkAboutThe Citizen, 2004-07-15, Page 5THE CITIZEN, THURSDAY, JULY 15, 2004. PAGE 5. Other Views Come on, this won't hurt a bit All this fuss about sleeping together. For physical pleasure I'd sooner go to my dentist any day. - Evelyn Waugh I 'm not a vengeful man, but I wouldn't mind running into Doctor Goldfarb in a dark alley some evening - preferably with a pair of heavy-duty Vice Grips in my mitt. Goldfarb was my dentist back when I was a kid. Correction: he was my Yanker. "Extractionist" is the term I believe he used. Doctor Goldfarb did not straighten, brace, bridge, drill or fill his customers' teeth, he just pulled them out. It was a dentally-unenlightened era to say the least, and I came from a relatively large family living on a relatively small weekly paycheque. Hence, there was no mollycoddling of cavities. Got a toothache? We know how to deal with that. my lad. Plenty more where that came from (well, a couple of dozen, anyway). Open wide. Hold on. There. Keep that wadding in your mouth until the bleeding stops. Next. Doctor Goldfarb had the forearms of a longshoreman and the- compassion of a Nazi. He instilled in me a mortal fear of reclining chairs, white coats and anyone operating metal paraphernalia anywhere close to my mouth. For a time I couldn't even bear the thought of my own dinner fork touching (what was left of) my teeth. And for about 20 years, I never arrived for a dental appointment without being snookered to the eyeballs with valium, painkillers or at least three and possibly six fingers of Crown Royal. I'm okay with dentists now. I go to my appointments un-self-medicated and clear of eye. Dentists don't scare me anymore. 0 ntario's Progressive Conservatives will choose a new leader in September and they seem about to do something no party has done in half-a-century. That is to pick someone, John Tory (whose name suggests he was destined from birth to lead a Conservative party) who has never been elected to any public office. All parties traditionally have shied from choosing leaders withOut elected experience, because they have not passed the test of showing they can win and perform effectively in a public arena. Parties also have insisted almost invariably on choosing someone who served in the legislature and demonstrated ability there. MPPs who play a large part in the selection also more selfishly want a leader they feel more comfortable with and can influence. Ernie Eves, the Tory premier defeated last October, was not in the legislature when his party picked him as leader in 2002, but had been a minister and MPP for 20 years before quitting briefly for business. The only leader chosen by an Ontario party in decades who had not served first in the legislature was Bob Rae, snapped up by the New Democrats in 1982. But he had spent four years in the Commons and demonstrated there he was-articulate and effective. A party last picked a leader without experience at either elected level in 1953. when the Cooperative -Commonwealth Federation, the NDP's predecessor, had only two MPPs, considered -neither suitable for leader and chose Donald C. MacDonald,who ran hisf tiny caucus from the gallery until he won a seat two years later. - Knowing the overwhelming odds against them, few without elected experience haVe But it's not me that's changed; dentistry has. Consider a Montreal-based business called Galerie Dental — Canada's first combination dental clinic and...art gallery. Galerie Dental is the brainchild of two Montrealers, Jean Fortin and Marc Raper. Monsieur Raper is a dental surgeon; Monsieur Fortin, a general dentist. They've banded together to take the terror out of dentistry. Accordingly, you'll find no hard- backed chairs circling a coffee table piled with furry-paged, 12-year-old copies of Macleans and Reader's Digest in the Galerie Dental waiting room. Instead there are comfy couches and plump arm chairs. For diversion there are glossy art books scattered about and canvases by Quebec artists hanging on the walls. Soft classical music oozes froth the sound system. For the more culturally down-scaled, there's a flat- screened TV showing movies (but not Marathon Man). M. Fortin says the idea was to offer "a peaceful feeling not like a dentist office, not institutional." Why the art work on the walls? "It gives you another reason to go to the dentist," says one patient. "You get there early to look at the art. It's a very, very peaceful place." And for die-hard dentophobes, a relaxing treat awaits even after their chair time is up - a even run for party leader in recent decades. The only one who came close to winning was the rousing evangelist preacher-turned- broadcaster Charles Templeton, who lost for Liberal opposition leader to establishment candidate Andrew Thompson in 1964. Templeton was criticized for not starting at the bottom, not paying his dues and not having an elected record on which he could be judged. But the Liberals continued struggling in opposition for two more two decades and some wondered whether they could have appealed more under Templeton. Tory has another handicap in that he has spent almost all his political career in party back rooms, having been principal secretary to Conservative premier William Davis in the 1980s and a backroom strategist in federal election campaigns. He is even notorious among his peers for a serious gaffe in one, when he co-chaired prime minister Kim Campbell's disastrous 1993 campaign in which his party ran a cruel TV commercial mocking Liberal leader Jean Chretien's facial twist, caused by palsy, and was universally dumped on. Ontario voters have long shown an unwillingness to elect backroom strategists and Hugh Segal, another chief aide to Davis:. Tom Long, who ran and won two elections for massage administered by a registered masseuse who also works out of the gallery. Classical music ... art exhibits...a massage...Doctor Goldfarb, are you listening? And then there's HealOzone. This device is a German invention only now showing up in select dental clinics across Canada. You know that part of the dental duet where the dentist cranks you back in the chair, fixes that Cyclopean hi-beam full in your face and fires up that drill that sounds like a falsetto chain saw? Well, forget it. With HealOzone you get a soft silicone cap snugged over your affected tooth, then a few painless squirts of ozone gas pumped into it. The gas kills cavity-causing bacteria after which the tooth is `remineralized. naturally. Proponents claim that with HealOzone a dentist does 75 per cent less drilling. Small cavities require no anesthetic at all. Does it cost more? Hey, do bears use Delsey? Of Course it costs more. But money has never been the issue with dental work. Pain avoidance is the point. Take my wallet, wife and first-born, Doc, just don't hurt me. Of course there's an inexpensive way to handle the Dental Experience. My pal Mavis has no problem with her dentist. When she sits in the dentist chair she simply relaxes, waits Ill he tells her to open wide and just as the dental probe is about to enter her buccal cavity, she reaches her right hand down, grasps the dentist in what (in other circumstances) would be considered an extremely intimate embrace, • and murmurs. "Now we're not going to hurt each other, are we?" Wish I'd thought of that with Doctor Goldfarb. waters Mike Harris when he was Tory premier; Liberal Jim Coutts, prime minister Pierre Trudeau's anointed chief aide and Tory Dalton Camp, the supreme backroomer, are examples of insiders who were turned down by fellow- citizens. But despite what normally would be handicaps in having no elected experience and a record as a backroom manipulator, Tory is still being described widely as the front-runner and man to beat. This is partly because he exhibited some strengths when he made a first stab at running for election for Toronto mayor last year and was defeated, but by an exceptionally competent candidate with strong roots in municipal politics. Tory also has more publicly acceptable policies nearer the political centre than his rivals for leader, Jim Flaherty and Frank Klees, who both were ministers in the far-right Tory governments of Harris and Eves, as well as an ability to communicate them. But his main asset is he was not part of these Tory governments which cut taxes, weakened public services and diverted many million of dollars to the pockets of politicat•friends. This is one time lack of elected experience is an advantage. Final Thought When you play it too safe, you are taking the biggest risk of your life ... Time is the otwealth we are given. - Barbara Sher Bike safety lesson Summertime has always been such a great time to be a kid. And growing up in a small town allows freedoms that those in the city will never know. However, there are dangers that exist regardless of whether the lifestyle your children enjoy is cosmopolitan or rural. And one of the greatest may possibly be the children themselves. Youthful exuberance does not generally allow for caution. Tender years have yet to experience many harsh realities, thus there is a sense of invincibility which often leads to recklessness and carelessness. This past week, I was cruising down a highway when far ahead I happened to spy something on the road. As I drew closer, however, my view was blocked by an incline in the road. Cresting the hill I found myself within yards of three young boys on bicycles, weaving back and forth across two lanes. Being forewarned that something was lurking I had already slowed my speed. They continued on seemingly unaware of my approach. Never a glance over a shoulder as they straddled then crossed the centre line. So uncertain was I of their next move, that I was reluctant to pass. My speed had slowed to a crawl. Then finally a look and one moved to the shoulder to let me by, while the other two continued their writhing path up the opposite' side of the travelled portion of -road, still apparently oblivious to my presence. I noted with no small amount of irony that each in the trio was decked out according to the rules with a helmut. The sad fact was that had I not seen them prior to the hill, I doubt the head gear would have done them any good, because I couldn't have slowed in time before reaching them. Still shaking my head once I was back up to top speed and on my way again, my thoughts ran to their parents and what the reaction would have been if they could know where their kids were that day and exactly what kind of bike safety they were practising. From the early ages children are taught bike safety by parents, at school and by the OPP. What you can't teach them, though, is that sometimes (life) happens. How can someone so young understand that some people get away their whole lives taking chances, while others will get caught the first time. How can you make someone who knows so little of life realize that sometimes one mistake is one mistake too many. Thinking back, I was never what anyone would call a risk taker. But I recall a decision by my cousin and me, around the age of 10, to walk into town from her farmhouse without a word to her mother. Out on the highway and realizing the trek was much longer than we considered, we innocently accepted a ride from a stranger. Fortunately, in this case he was a decent human being. I know now, he could as easily not have been. I too recall travelling on a bike down the centre lane of a highway, often riding double. I remember crossing the burgeoning dam to take a shortcut to the park. At a very young age I Jhiked back into a bush with my cousin (she seems to have been involved in a lot of my stupidity). In each of these cases my parents found out and punishment followed. I don't doubt for a minute that the same would be true in the case of these young boys. And 1 also don't doubt that just might be the beA bike safety lesson they'd ever get. The Tories testing new