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Hit the web or wedding tips, advice
When you are planning a
wedding. just about everyone is
there to give a piece of advice. Tired
of getting advice from friends,
family, co-workers or people you
barely know?
Today, you can just turn on your
computer and hop online for articles
on making your wedding day
special.
Here's a rundown of some of the
most popular wedding sites out
there.
The knot (www.theknot.com) —
What started as a website has now
become an enterprise. They still
have a website but now also produce
magazines, books and a television
show on the Oxygen network. The
site contains just about everything
for the bride-to-be from etiquette
advice to local message boards
where brides-to-be can network
with other couples.
Wedding Channel
(www.weddingchannel.com ) — A
broad-based site that includes
advice and info on fashion and
beauty. planning tools and a gift
registry.
It also includes a tool . to help
couples create a wedding website
and a guest list tracker where
couples enter, track and update guest
names, invitations, RSVPs, gift
information and special comments
(such as a guest's dietary
preferences).
Ultimate Wedding
(www.ultimatewedding.com ) —
The best part about this site is the
song planning section. The wedding
song library has more than 3,800
choices for ceremony and reception
tunes. You can also play clips of
many of the songs to make sure the
perfect tune is played while you cut
the cake, toss the garter and darice
with your dad and your spouse.
Wedding links galore
(www.weddingl nksgalore.com ) —
Produced by Ultimate Wedding, this
site can link you to everything from
officiants to photographers to
reception locations.
Modern Bride
(www.modernbride.com ) — Get
planning articles and advice from
this magazine's online companion.
Photo galleries from the magazine
are great for ideas. Dress finders for
bridesmaids, bride and mothers are
also helpful.
Bridalzine (wWw.bridalzine.com)
— This site contains a series of
articles called "Weddings on a
Shoestring" with tips on saving
when planning the big day. You'll
find the tips on budgeting and
cutting corners are useful.
The basics behind a post-wedding brunch
You are finally husband and wife!
If you aren't jetting off to your
honeymoon immediately, some
couples opt to continue the
celebration with a morning-after
brunch. It gives them the
opportunity to thank their guests for
trekking into town and a chance to
say goodbye.
Plus, they'll get to hear about
everything they might have missed
at the wedding while they were
playing hosts — like how Aunt Sue
boogied on the dance floor, or that
their little cousin ate two dozen
shrimp at the cocktail hour.
What kind of brunch you have is
up to you. You can make it an open
house and invite everyone who
attended the wedding, or you can
limit it to guests who spent the night
at a hotel, or invite your wedding
party and a few close friends and
family.
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are seated on the left side, and the
groom's . on the right. If the seats
become full on one side, guests may
be seated on the other side.
A head usher may be designated
to supervise the seating of special
guests. If one of the ushers is the
brother of the bride or groom, he
may escort his own mother to her
seat, otherwise the head user will
assume responsibility for the
Just be sure to get the guest list
approved by whoever is paying for
it. Wedding experts say the bride's
family traditionally pays, but today,
the bride and groom, a friend, or a
family member often will host the
brunch.
There is no established way to
invite guests. For a more formal
invitation, get printed cards and send
them with the wedding invitation.
Casual brunch invites can be sent via
e-mail or over the
phone.
Now it's lime to decide where the
brunch will be. You can do brunch in
that cute little restaurant of the hotel
where everyone is staying. Maybe
you want everyone to come over to
one of your parents' homes, or
perhaps, everyone can picnic at a
park or in someone's backyard. Just
make sure you feel comfortable
wherever it may be held.
mothers.
There also needs to be one usher
for every bridesmaid in the wedding,
since they also act as escorts for the
bridesmaids and it is customary for
them to pair off as the wedding party
leaves the church.
The ushers escort the bridesmaids
to the reception if arrangements
have been made for the wedding
party. If not, ushers help transport
guests to the reception.
If you had a late-night wedding,
guests will likely be tired and have
flights to catch (as might you!). In
that case, schedule the brunch so
that it's early enough for the early
birds in your group, but long enough
for those who may want to sleep in
and arrive a little bit later. That will
give you enough time to eat and say
goodbye to guests without you or
them feeling too rushed.
Keep the meal simple and laid-
back. Serve bagels, breads, muffins,
eggs, French toast, croissants,
waffles, hash browns, pastries, fruit,
pancakes, or other breakfast foods.
For those who prefer lunch-based
foods, you can offer steak, salad,
pasta, fish, or sandwiches. Provide
orange juice, tea and, of course, an
endless pot of coffee.
If you want to get fancy, serve up
some mimosas or Bloody Marys
(whether food is served as a buffet
Ushers are generally brothers,
brothers-in-law, other close relatives
or friends of the groom.
The ushers usually attend all the
pre-wedding parities the groom is
invited to.
Like the bridesmaids, they are
responsible for providing their own
clothing for the wedding. Often this
clothing is rented. The groom
generally provides their
boutonnieres, gloves and neckwear.
or sit-down style is up to you).
After the brunch, you'll leave for
your honeymoon well-fed and, of
course, as newlyweds. Plus, you'll
be armed with some gossip about
your Aunt Sue!
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