The Citizen, 2001-10-17, Page 20BLYTH UNITED CHURCH
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October 21
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7:30 p.m.
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PAGE 20. THE CITIZEN, WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 17, 2001.
From the Minister's Study
About sparing the rod, spoiling the child
By Les Cook, Pastor
Blyth Community
Church of God
I had not followed the media's
reporting on the Church of God,
Aylmer, but I have been in dialogue
with a lot of people on this subject.
There is no connection between the
Church of God in Aylmer and the
Blyth Community Church of God so
this is not about that case or about
who was right or wrong nor is this
about how the court should handle
that particular situation.
This is about Christians and how
we should be careful not to use scrip-
ture to justify actions, behavior or
even attitudes that we know are con-
trary to God's nature.
Proverbs 13 : 24 "He who spares
the rod hates his son and he who
loves him is careful to discipline
him." Of course anyone who has -
already been in the habit of spanking
their children will cling to this scrip-
ture to justify corporal punishment.
However if you take a close look it
does not even suggest hitting with or
without an object in your hand.
Although there are many different
types of rods that this could refer to it
is most likely that Solomon is refer-
ring to the rod that a shepherd would
use to herd sheep. I have never heard
of a shepherd using his rod to strike
his livestock. In fact it would seem to
me to be counterproductive to try to
discipline a sheep by beating it with a
rod.
To the best of my knowledge -the
rod was used to steer the flock, pro-
tect it from wild animals and on occa-
sion retrieve sheep that had strayed
from the flock. I have even heard that
it was a common practice for a shep-
herd to throw the rod along the
ground, in the direction of a straying
sheep and as the rod slithered along
the ground, like a snake, it would
frighten the stray sending it back to
the rest of the flock.
When Solomon wrote " he who
spares the rod hates his son " he was
saying that if we love our children we
will provide boundaries, keep them
close and steer them in the right
direction.
The Bible tells us that we should
"Train up a child in the way he should
go." Prov.22:6 This too has been mis-
used. It simply means we should raise
our children according to their bent
(personality), as individuals.
There is no simple process for rear-
ing children successfully. Each child
deserves to be treated in the way that
best steers the child according to his
own nature. Would it not seem
an e that our heavenly Father, who
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treats each one of us as individuals,
with grace, and forgiveness would
instruct us to treat our children any
differently?
Does this mean I am against corpo-
ral punishment? No. I am against any
government agency telling me how I
can or cannot raise my own children.
We have a guideline to steer us in the
right direction in this regard. This
guideline also tells me how to con-
duct my own life in such a way that I
set a good example for my children in
my daily life.
It tells me I should honour my par-
ents and regard the laws of the land
and how to be responsible and rea-
sonable. It tells me how to have good
relationships with all of mankind and
it explains how to adjust my thinking
when I know my attitude is off track.
And all of this is done in a way that is
consistent with Him who created me.
But when we try to bend God's
word to suit our human understand-
ing, instead of bringing our human
understanding up to the divine way,
we are doomed to live an unfulfilling
life. Jesus said "I have come that they
may have life and have it to the full."
John 10:10 not so that we can contin-
ue on in our human shortcomings arid
justify them by taking scripture out of
context.
More recently all of us here in the
west have been horrified by what
happened on Sept. I I. Here is anoth-
er example of someone using good
teaching to justify demented thinking.
Osama bin Laden, with help of our
media, has taken a beautiful word,
jihad, and turned it into something
much less than what it really means.
Jihad refers to the extra effort that
is needed to put God's will in to prac-
tice at every level,' personal, social as
well as political. It describes the
struggle we must go through to find a
higher purpose for our actions.
Just like the Koran our Holy
Scriptures demand that we always
respond according to God's leading.
This means that we need to struggle
with ourseliies to overcome our
human inclinations and conform to
God's direction. Given that the Koran
and the Holy Bible suggest that there
is only one God, and that he created
the earth and everything on it, how
could God lead anyone in a direction
contrary to his own nature and to
destroy part of his own creation.,
Yes, the whole world should
respond to the call for a "Jihad" and
when we do start to struggle within
ourselves to do the right thing, not
just for ourselves but for all mankind,
the questions of how to raise our chil-
dren, whether to spank or not,
whether to war or not or whether we
should be mistreating Muslims or
anyone else for that matter, these
questions will not even have to be
asked.
I am sure the struggle to do what is
right will leave no time in any of our
lives to do what is wrong. The Bible
tells us that in glory our questions
become like answers. A time of jihad
now could very well give us a
glimpse of things to come.
There have been enough things
done in the past to hurt our fellow
man by terrorists, bad parenting, prej-
udices and our own ignorance. Rather
than doing what satisfies our negative
impulses which serves only us, for
the present, we can change all that by
struggling to discover the right thing
to do for all mankind in the long term.
God bless our home, this world we
live in.
Francis' friends
Rev. Tom Wilson blesses one of the pets brought by con-
gregants to the St. John's Anglican Church service in
recogntion of St. Francis of Assisi Day. (Vicky Bremner photo)
You are Welcome at the
BLYTH COMMUNITY CHURCH OF GOD
9:45 a.m. - Sunday School - for ages 3 to adult
11:00 a.m. - Morning Worship
7:45 p.m. - Evening Worship
Kids' Club - Tuesday - 3:45 - 5 p.m. Ages 6-11 welcome.
Bible Studies - Wednesday morning 10 a.m.
Wednesday evening 7:30 p.m.
Phone 523-4590 308 Blyth Rd., Blyth