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HomeMy WebLinkAboutThe Citizen, 1998-02-04, Page 6Vincent's Country Market We can make your trip to Wingham worth the while Frozen Foods You can have the meal you want at the price you will like at the convenience of your own freezer week Pre-Cooked Italian Style Meatballs 3 lbs. $9.99 reg. $10.99 Prince Edward Medley Nice blend of green & yellow beans & carrots 2 lb. $3.29 reg. $3.89 Phone 357-4499 Josephine St., Wingham Drop in and see our country craft line Walk down aisle a triumph for heart transplant patient By Bonnie Gropp Citizen staff Every bridal couple is thrilled to be standing together on their wedding day, but none more so than Michael and Nancy Hak of Seaforth. Just over three months before their May 20 wedding, Nancy, now 37, received a new heart. The problems began for this previously healthy mother of two, (Jason now 16 and Marissa, 12) some years ago. She recalls awakening one night in July 1992 with what she suspected was a case of heartburn. Halfway to the hospital, she said, the pressure was so intense she was struck with the frighteningly surreal idea she may be having a heart attack. "She had no previous history," says Mike. "It was something you would never think about happening." Nancy, who had enjoyed a fairly active life, says that day had been spent quietly, babysitting for friends. In addition to discovering a thyroid problem which was treated, the doctors told Nancy she would have to change her lifestyle, coping with stress, improving her diet and exercising in moderation. "Basically, they said just listen to my body. If I'm tired, go lie down." While Nancy and Mike resumed a HeartSmart cooking tips • Reduce total fat intake, particularly saturated fat • Of the fat you do eat favour unsaturated fat • Increase dietary fibre • Instead of butter and shor- tening choose a vegetable oil or a soft, non-hydrogenated margarine that is low in saturated fat • • Use yogurt or low-fat mayonnaise instead of regular mayonnaise. Even making it a half and half mixture reduces the amount of fat. • Try substituting lower-fat meat alternatives, such as legumes and tofu, for some of the meat in family favourites. • Choose whole grain breads and rolls, whole wheat pasta, whole grain cereals, brown and wild rice. • For recipes with cheese, select one that is less than 15 per cent milk fat. Substitute skim or one per cent in milk recipes. • Use leaner cuts of meat and remove skin from poultry and fish. • Replace up to 1/3 of the oil called for in salad dressings or marinades with an equal amount of broth, frozen juice concentrate, vegetable purées or strong teas. • Instead of frying grill, roast or bake. Ridged grill pans and roasting racks allow excess fat to drain away. To get a free copy of Now You're Cooking HeartSmart Everyday Favourites!, write: Becel Heart Health Information Bureau, PO Box 9521, 661 Millidge Ave., St. John, NB E2L 4N6 - fairly trouble-free life for a time, Nancy did begin suffering from asthma-like symptoms about a year- and-a-half later. On Jan. 22, 1995 and now living in Seaforth, Mike took Nancy to the hospital with suspected bronchitis, but two days later she was found collapsed on the floor of her hospital room, a result of cardiac failure. The story very much becomes Mike's from this point, as Nancy says she has very few memories of that time, even back to the Christmas before. Mike recalls the shock and disbelief. "There were all kinds of things rolling through my head," he says. That morning he had just picked up the couple's wedding invitations. That evening for an uncertain length of time the heart of the woman he planned to marry had stopped beating. After being revived and stablized, Nancy was transported to Stratford hospital where she underwent a number of tests, yet, by the next day there was still little explanation, he says. Doctors didn't know if there would be brain damage, nor did they really know what had happened. "Information was sporadic. They told us they were still doing tests and that she had suffered heart failure, but that was about it." Nancy finally gained consciousness on Thursday morning and by that afternoon "was asking for cheeseburgers," Mike smiles. The recovery was unfortunately short-lived, as by Friday afternoon Nancy had taken a turn for the worse. "Her heart was just not pumping hard enough to circulate oxygen through the system. By Sunday you could literally see how far she had gone downhill in those three days." Mike, who is an accountant, got a call at work on Monday morning saying that Nancy had had massive heart failure and was being taken to University Hospital in London. That she would make it, however, was not certain. She arrived there about-10 a.m., and for Mike the certainty that she was getting the best care possible was some relief. "They still didn't know the history and had to do their own battery of tests, but they moved very fast. She was in good hands, but it was still a waiting game." That time may not be on their side was the harsh reality presented to them that afternoon. "The doctor called the whole family into the waiting room and said they were putting Nancy on a waiting list for a donor heart. They were giving her 48 hours." "We never imagined it would be this extreme," Mike adds. Often people whose condition is not as critical, can wait on a transplant list for a year. One became available for Nancy by Wednesday evening. Ideally a donated organ should be a perfect match; anything less must fit a special criteria, such as blood type and proper size. Even in the best cases there is always a risk of rejection, however. The organ found for Nancy wasn't the ideal, but she couldn't wait for a 100 per cent match. The heart was flown from Vancouver then given a police escort to the hospital. Six hours after surgery began it was pumping blood and oxygen through Nancy. While her condition was critical, the surgery went well and after two more days Nancy was on the mend. "It was a long week," says Mike. Moved out of intensive care by the end of February to the multiple organ transplant unit, then later to a regular hospital ward, Nancy was shown how to live again. "I had to learn to walk. I even had to prepare a meal for Mike. You have to do everyday tasks using the least amount of energy." May 18, she was released front the hospital, two days before her walk down the aisle. Saying that the weddingchelped inspire her recovery, she adds, "I had to work extra hard so I could keep the Joy Kelly Reflexology (Certified) Deep Muscle Therapy Ear Candling original wedding date. The nurses would always remind me when I got frustrated that I had something to look forward to, to get ready for." Since then, life has pretty much returned to normal. Though Nancy has problems remembering, though she had seven toes amputated because of the circulation lost, and has some side effects as a result of the anti-rejection medication she must take for the rest of her life, she recognizes their insignifance. Mike says, "Our wedding was more special because of what she went through to get there." That Mike's support has been crucial to her recovery is something Nancy makes a point of acknowledging. "He did a lot of things that not too many guys would do." For Nancy, there has been adjustment. Waking to find she had someone else's heart, was strange, she says, adding that she has occasionally had some guilt. "For a time, I was upset that this person died and I'm living, but most times because I woke up and it was all over, it's not real to me, it's a fairy tale." One with a happy ending for this family. "If someone hadn't signed their donor card or made their family aware of their wishes, I wouldn't have my mother today," said Marissa in her school speech last year. Nancy stresses that even if the donor card is signed families should be told if an individual is interested in donating their organs. That it is one of the most selfless acts a person can do is obvious. "One person's death can save six people's lives," Nancy says. "As our slogan states, 'Please don't take your organs to heaven. Heaven knows we need them.— Nelda McEwen Health Kinesiology Allergy Testing • Herbology Nutrition * Iridology Iry vvvvvvvvvvvivvy BUY THE POUND/MERCANTILE For your Sweetheart we've got... ...,Valentine Candies ..."Valentine gift baskets filled with special treats Open Tues. - Sat. 10-5 Queen St., Blyth 523-9825 is pleased to announce the opening of its Upstairs Healthcare Co-operative Presently two practitioners are available to help you achieve and maintain your health Practitioners interested in sharing space please call Sue or Beth at 357-3466 222 Josephine St., Wingham Matters of the heart The idea of two hearts beating as one had special significance for Nancy and Mike Hak seen here at their May 20, 1995 nuptials, with her children Marissa and Jason. Two days before Nancy had been released from the hospital with a new heart. Today they are captains for the February Heart and Stroke campaign. PAGE 6. 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