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HomeMy WebLinkAboutThe Citizen, 1997-11-19, Page 16PAGE 16. THE CITIZEN, WEDNESDAY, NOVEMBER 19,1997. From the Minister's Stud# Pastor asks, ‘Are you waiting for change?’ Pastor Ben Wiebe Brussels Mennonite Fellowship Are you waiting for something to happen? Waiting for a change in life? The teenager preparing for work, the mother carrying a child, the farmer seeing the corn grow waiting for the rain. Or have there been too many changes? The last child has left home to go to university (a series of changes for child and parents). There is a paradox in this. On the one hand, growth and change is important to life. On the other hand stability is also important. For some life seems like a rut, the same routine, the same faces and places, the same gossip day after day. The sameness is stifling and can form a rut so deep soon it seems we can see nothing else. One young person I know became deeply discouraged. He had worked hard at summer jobs to be able to go to university and worked hard at his studies. He did well and now he was finished. There was no opportunity for work related to his training. He did menial jobs. He borrowed money to do more training and widen his preparation. Still no job. More short-term, minimum wage work. He began to question himself and to wonder if he would ever find work to use his education. People told him things would change, to wait and see. He did odd jobs and kept looking for more suitable work. A job in his field came up but far from home. He was determined, applied and got the job. After a long wait he is surprised and grateful. It is hard work, but he is glad to have it. In the midst of our difficult situation it is hard to see how things can ever be different. But in the midst of waiting we are surprised by goodness. Perhaps in those who hear us and stand with us. Perhaps in the new day that comes and brings new opportunity. We sense that there is a place for us and we are sustained by goodness. Sometimes we take goodness for granted. We fail to see it in the new day that dawns with fresh opportunity. In the health that makes it possible day after day and year after year to participate in the satisfying pattern of life. And if we live with awareness we sense that there is indeed a pattern that underlies our being. That life in accord with this pattern brings fulfillment. But this inevitably opens to humans the contrary possibility as well: they can refuse to acknowledge or respect any good apart from their own ambition and pleasure. This self-absorption can only breed distrust, conflict and destruction. So we see not only good but also evil. The distinctiveness of humans lies not in the supposed power to shape what is otherwise accident and disorder; it is rather to recognize and celebrate the goodness of created order, an order in which we have our life. This underlying pattern of goodness that makes life possible sometimes shines forth with a brightness that cannot be missed. The world is not simply a desert. If we walk with the biologist trained to see with more than simply the eyes of a technician, we see that animals in their behaviour are playful. That birds, as one person has said, "are*'singing much more than Danvin permits." There is not only a bare existence but a display of riches, that even in the desert flowers may bloom. I was travelling in India a year ago. The car on the train was full, a few people were standing up and without a seat. The seller of magazines and books came through. Here and there as he made his way people made purchase of perhaps a magazine or a book. As he came to me I asked for a book that I saw a clean-cut young man standing up ahead of me had purchased. There was none left. Later I looked at the young man's copy of the book. On seeing my interest he told me, "keep it." I was surprised and motioned to hand it back to him. He did not take it. I asked if I could pay him. He said, November 23 ncl>rlttl>nEducatl (Classes Pastor Ben (Mete 887-6388 9:30 a.m. 7:30 p.m. 2:00 p.m. MELVILLE PRESBYTERIAN CHURCH BRUSSELS - Morning Service - Sunday School - Belgrave Service - Evening Bible Study - Wednesday afternoon Bible Study Wheelchair accessible We welcome you to come end worship with us. Rev, Cathrine Campbell - 887-9831 Shopping season Lori Vader was among the large crowd wandering about the craft and baking displays at St. John’s Anglican Church, Brussels, Saturday. Discerning love, church message BRUSSELS - ETHEL PASTORAL CHARGE UNITED CHURCH OF CANADA Rev. Christine Johnson - Minister Church Office 887-6259 Home 887-6540 Sunday, November 23, 1997 Morning Worship Ethel ***** Morning Worship Brussels "Love with Discernment" was the title of the message at Brussels Mennonite Fellowship on Sunday, Nov. 16. Pastor Ben Wiebe chose Mark 14: 3-9 and 1 Corinthians 13: 4-13 as the scripture passages. Love requires trust, faith and hope. Learning to live is learning to love ... but love is often inhibited by fear, - fear of rejection for love makes people vulnerable, he said. Love is often identified as a feeling, and that may be so on a bright day with sunshine and smiles, when things are going well. However, on other days when everything seems to be going wrong (the baby cries, mom has a headache, there are many things to be done) the feelings may be gone, but the love is still there, so love is indeed more than a feeling. Complete or mature love, he said, enables one to "see" what people without love cannot see. For example the woman who anointed Jesus with oil used at burials, sensed that Jesus would face something significant in the near future. Her love enabled her to sense this. "No, it's my gift." We saw each other for a brief time on a train. He is from another culture and I do not know his name or if I will ever see him again. A simple act - I was surprised by goodness. It has caused me to reflect further about goodness. There is a certain goodness all around me, I live within it. So much so that I regularly take this for granted. I go from one day to the next and then I am surprised by a simple act that at the same time is an overwhelming expression of goodness. This points to God the source of goodness, to whom I owe everything and who enables life and well-being. I am invited to participate fully in goodness in a life of response to God. ‘you are ‘Welcome at the BLYTH COMMUNITY CHURCH OF GOD 9:45 a.m. - Sunday School for Children and Adults 11:00 a.m. - Morning Worship Bible Studies - Wednesday 10 a.m. & 7:30 p.m. Phone 523-4590 McConnell St., Blyth THE ANGLICAN CHURCH OF CANADA you are welcome this Sunday NOVEMBER 23 - REIGN OF CHRIST HOLY EUCHARIST Rev. Nancy Beale Trinity, Blyth 9:30 a.m. Wheelchair accessible St. John's, Brussels 11:15 a.m. join us for worship at Brussels Mennonite Fellowship Others, on the other hand saw expensive oil being wasted when it could have been sold and the proceeds used to help the poor. Jesus saw her intent, and thus gave an affirming response to the woman. Love is oriented to truth. If people rest in the love of God, they have security, and can be open to one another. Goodwill lets them understand and be open to one another, but suspicion also has its place, so discernment is necessary, Pastor Wiebe said. "The law of Christ is the law of love. We'll carry one another's burdens and should carry one's own burdens. Caring for someone doesn't mean taking over. We must let others be responsible." In the story of the father and prodigal son, he said, the father lets the son go. Had he prevented him from going the relationship might have been damaged to the extent that the separation would have been permanent. "Remember, "I should not be responsible for what you should carry. I don't help you by Continued on page 21 HURON CHAPEL EVANGELICAL MISSIONARY CHURCH PASTOR JAMES H. CARNE AUBURN 526-7515 ASSOCIATE PASTOR - YOUTH - JEREMY SHUART 523-9788 Sunday Monday Wednesday Friday 8:30 a.m. - Morning Worship Service 10:00 a.m. - Family Bible Hour 11 a.m. - Morning Worship Service 8 p.m. - Evening Service 7:30 p.m. - New Hope Support Group 7:30 p.m. - Prayer & Bible Study 7:30 p.m. - Youth Please join us for worship this Sunday Sunday Morning Service -10 a.m. Evening Service - 7:30 p.m. O JCgrd, God of Israel, there is no God like you in heaven or on earth - you who keep your covenant of love with your servants who continue wholeheartedly in the way. 2 Chronicles 6:14 BLYTH CHRISTIAN REFORMED CHURCH Rev. Adrian A. 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