HomeMy WebLinkAboutThe Citizen, 1997-04-23, Page 5Arthur Black
THE CITIZEN, WEDNESDAY, APRIL 23,1997 PAGE 5.
Rough times
for Samaritans
You cannot do a kindness
too soon, for you cannot know
how soon it will be too late
Ralph Waldo Emerson
We all want to have a
reputation for generosity
And we'd all like to buy it cheap
Anon
I've been thinking what a rough ride we'd
give the Good Samaritan if he was unwise
enough to show up nowadays.
For anyone whose Bible lore is rusty, the
Good Samaritan was the subject of a New
Testament parable. Basically he was the only
guy who bothered to stop and help a man who
had been held up and savagely mugged by
thieves. "Good Samaritan" has come to be a
term that we bestow on anyone who shows
generosity or compassion towards the poor
and downtrodden.
And it's a term that you don't hear a whole
lot these days.
It's certainly not a term that would spring to
the lips of Sylvia Stayton, of Cincinnati,
Ohio. Not if she was looking for ways to
describe municipal court Judge John West.
Ms Stayton, a grandmother, was hauled up in
court before the judge for a pre-trial hearing
recently. Her lawyer was seeking dismissal of
Mlnternational Scene
By Raymond Canon
Some things
never change
I recently had lunch with a good friend of
mine who has spent the better part of a decade
in Saudi Arabia working in a highly
specialized field. Since his time far exceeds
that which I spent there when I was trying to
drum up business for Canadian firms, I was
extremely interested to hear what he had to
say about the Saudi way of life and, more
importantly, if there had been any significant
changes in the wake of the Gulf War. The
thoughts which follow here are his although I
must admit that, based on what I already knew
of the country, I was not really surprised at
what he had to tell me.
To give you a bit of background, Saudi
Arabia is a member of OPEC and currently
the largest producer of oil in the world. It has
a relatively small population and thus has to
depend on outside help for everything from
menial labour to doctors and other specialists.
However, the arrival of hundreds of thousands
of foreign troops to counter the Iraqi invasion
of Kuwait had a profound shock on the
Saudis, especially as the foreign way of life
was remarkably different from the ultra
conservative brand of Islam practiced by the
majority of the Saudi people.
On the one hand the presence of a large
number of troops was necessary to deter
Saddam Hussein from overrunning Saudi
Arabia; on the other hand it was both
disturbing and embarrassing to the Saudis to
have to be subjected to a different way of life.
Perhaps one of the most disturbing aspects
was to see females in foreign military service
since Saudi females are most decidedly not
equal to males. They are not allowed to drive
cars; they must wear veils and black clothing
and are subservient to their husbands. In a
country where even Playboy is banned, you
the charges. The judge said no way. Ms
Stayton will stand trial for obstruction and
disorderly conduct.
And what did this wild-eyed harridan do to
get cited? Lie down in front of the mayor's
limousine? Burn her bra on the Cincinnati
courthouse steps?
Nah. Sylvia Stay ton was charged when she
put 15 cents into two expired parking metres.
She was trying to do a good turn for the
drivers of the cars, neither of whom she
knew. A Cincinnati cop who was writing out
a ticket for one of the cars ordered her to stop
feeding the metre. She refused and I guess
.she might go to jail as a result. The judge will
issue a ruling next week.
Then there's Ron Seaward's tale of woe.
Seaward was driving from Toronto to
London, Ontario recently when she spied a
car in the ditch. Seaward, feeling
conspicuously Good Samaritanish, pulled
over and got out to help. As did an Ontario
Provincial Policeman.
While the cop and Seaward were grunting
and straining at the back bumper of the stuck
car, several other vehicles cranged into
Seaward’s truck and the police cruiser.
Naturally, the officer now has to write out
an accident report. Naturally, he has to see
everybody's license and registration -
including Seaward's.
Which is when the cop notices that
Seaward has been driving with an expired
license.
Well...a violation, to be sure, but under the
circumstances - Seaward being such a decent
can imagine the shock of seeing female
soldiers and flyers for the first time.
There were sighs of relief all round when
the war was won and the soldiers departed.
Those that remained were shunted off as far
away from the Saudis as possible.
One little vignette is worth telling. If there is
a traffic accident between a Saudi and a
foreigner, the latter is almost always in the
wrong, regardless of the real cause. If the
driver of the foreign car is one whose role is
that of menial labourer, he has no chance
whatsoever of being found innocent. If the
foreign driver is in an essential occupation,
some mitigating circumstances may be found
so he is not found totally guilty or, in extreme
cases, not found guilty at all. Since the Saudi
driver is never guilty, it is an Arab example of
no-fault insurance. Needless to say, car
insurance is a rarity for Saudi drivers.
There is no doubt which is the state religion.
The Saudis are totally Moslems and there is
no room whatsoever for other religions such
as Christianity. You will not see a Christian
church since there are none. Any Christian
service must be organized in what can only be
described as a clandestine manner. The word
Christian is not even mentioned on the phone
since it could well be that the phones are
tapped. If you are going to hold any kind of
Christian service or fellowship, invitations
have to be issued to a "coffee party" or
something of that nature.
The death penalty is still very much in
evidence. At periodic intervals it is carried out
in the form of public beheadings. Sentences
for lesser crimes such as theft are also public
with the chopping off of hands. Public
executions run into the high double-digit
figures annually and it could well be that more
are carried out within the confines of the
prisons. Penalties are not arbitrary. It is
written down that crimes such as murder,
rape, and drug trafficking are punishable by
death.
chap and all - undoubtedly the cop will let
Seaward off with a wink and a warning,
right?
Not.
Seaward, who was only acting on an
impulse of kindness and generosity towards a
fellow human being in a jam, finds himself
with a strained back, a banged-up truck and a
$315 traffic ticket.
Guess how fast he'll pull over the next time
he sees a motorist in difficulty.
Sad, but true, the streets are getting meaner.
Still, Ron Seaward can look on the bright
side - at least he didn't have to be helped by a
politician. There's a story going around about
a travelling salesman on a business trip to
Ottawa who one night was robbed, beaten up,
thrown in a ditch, and left for dead.
The first person to come by was a Reform
Party MP. She looked down at the man and
snapped, "Get up on your feet! Stop feeling
sorry for yourself! Be a man!" And she
walked on.
Next came an NDP supporter. He gasped in
dismay at the sight of the poor guy in the
ditch. "This is terrible!" he wailed. "I must
find the people who did this! They need
psychiatric help and career counselling!" And
off he ran.
The next passer-by was a Liberal cabinet
minister. He stopped in front of the injured
man, looked around to make sure no one was
watching, then he knelt down by the side of
the man and whispered, "What did the other
two say?"
With such large oil revenues, the Saudi
government has certainly raised the standard
of living of its citizens over the past 25 years;
perhaps it has raised it too quickly. Many jobs
are considered to be beneath the dignity of the
citizens; such jobs are carried out by foreign
workers. Not surprisingly, there is a bloated
public service; that is, after all, one of the
safest places to find work for Saudis.
If you are looking for an alcoholic drink or
entertainment western style, forget it. In such
an ultra-conservative society, that is most
definitely not on the books. After all, just
consider the role that women play to which I
referred above and you will see why this is a
natural assumption. If you want a "good time",
go elsewhere i.e. to Europe or even Egypt.
That is precisely what affluent Saudis do.
Finally, do not mention the word Israel in
any favourable context when talking with the
Saudis. This word is most definitely taboo.
At the end of our conversation my friend
observed that he certainly appreciated the
opportunity offered him by the Saudi
government to practice his skills. He was
treated fairly; he had the best of equipment
with which to work and it was due to his
reception that he stayed the number of years
that he did. Since all his children live in or
close to London, it is, he admits, nice to be
home.
As for my original question as to changes in
the wake of the Gulf War, he replied that it
did not change anything at all with the
exception of the backlash of the Islamic
fundamentalists, something the Saudis would
like to do without.
A Final Thought
In its concern with left and right the world
has forgotten that there is an above and
below.
The
A chapter in the book
For as far back as I can recall when I first
began thinking of my future, I knew the one
thing I wanted was to work on a community
newspaper. No grandiose ideas or desires for
fame and fortune could inspire me to reach
further, no drive for in-depth investigative
reporting or uncovering the deviant and
mysterious pushed me. International intrigue,
war zones or corrupt corporations didn't, it
seemed to me, have anything to do with my
unadulterated pleasure in writing.
I was an idealistic youth; I wanted to believe
that the world was a better place than the
bigger picture painted. My sense that the
mayhem and sadness I would view through the
lens of a small town reporter's camera would
be less affecting, less intense, was naive.
However, working on a community
newspaper is, like any other medium, about
telling the story. It's about real people and their
lives. This means triumphs and tragedies. It
means winners and losers, good guys and bad
guys. It's about achievements and failures,
about happy endings or mistakes that haunt
you forever.
They are all evident during one of my least
enjoyable tasks, covering court. It is a beat that
has brought conflicting feedback from some of
our readers, as well. There are those who
believe strongly that the public has a right to
know who the lawbreakers are, while the other
faction is equally vehement in its desire to
keep perversity out of our nice' friendly'
community newspaper.
I am a reluctant member of the former group.
Keeping the public informed about the
happenings in court is not, contrary to the
thinking of some, strictly about public
notoriety for the baddies. It is also about
making real people aware of the costs involved
in making mistakes. While obviously there are
those who appear in court on numerous
occasions, the majority are not unlike the rest
of us in most ways except for one simple fact
— bad luck.
Let's face it — many people have driven
with a few more beers under their belt than the
law would allow, but good fortune got them
home uneventfully. Good fortune, too, though
it may not be seen this way so clearly, is the
only difference between a drunk driving charge
and a drunk driving causing death charge.
I have seen lives of otherwise everyday
citizens damaged by one second's poor
judgement. A young man caught necking with
a 14-year-old girl. A sudden burst of temper
that ended a future in law and security for
another. Families ravaged by tragic loss, young
people marked by a moment spent in the
wrong company.
There are those abysmal wretches who keep
showing up in that courtroom time and again.
And on the right side, the lawmakers who
work, often thanklessly, for order and justice.
It was a fascination with people, with what
drives, what molds them, and a desire to write
their stories, that drew me to this job. While
ideally it's nice to hear about those who shape
their lives positively, the sad sagas of court can
be equally compelling. Why do some feel
remorse while others care less? Why do some
easily uncover and utilize their gifts, while
others search aimlessly to find theirs?
To really know our communities we need the
whole story. The courtroom dramas may not be
pleasant, but they have their heroes and their
lessons. They are a chapter in life's book.