HomeMy WebLinkAboutThe Citizen, 1992-08-26, Page 7THE CITIZEN, WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 26,1992. PAGE 7.
Sisters reunite after 53 years of separation
Blyth resident Ruth Pilgrim will
never forget August 20, 1992. That
was the day that she and her sister
Katherine Hartley of Wingham
were reunited with their sister, Lois
Inglis for the first time in 53 years.
"We just spent the day crying and
laughing," said Lois, who now
resides near Stroud, just south of
Barrie.
As is often the case personal
tragedy was the reason the sisters
were separated a half century ago.
Lois, the eldest of the three, said
that there were 13 children in the
Hartley family, which resided in
Owen Sound. When their mother
passed away, it was during the first
World War. Their father was leav
ing with the navy and the oldest
children still living at home were
taken to live with the grandparents.
Ruth and Katherine at four and
three were placed in a foster home.
"Together", said Ruth. "He would
n’t let us be separated."
"Thankfully," said Katherine,
emotionally.
Lois said that though her sisters
were never far from her thoughts,
as she grew older her life as a wife
and mother of two took precedence.
Two years ago, however, the
passing of time made her take stock
and she set out on a mission to find
her siblings. A letter found among
her father's things led her to the
area where the foster parents had
lived. She discovered Ruth's mar
ried name and in a surprisingly
short time her search had ended. As
the other two sisters were living
just 10 miles apart the last piece to
the puzzle was easy to fit in. "I had
been so worried that one or the
other might be gone to the other
side of the country or ocean. Here
they were living right by each
other," she said.
Though contact was made it
wasn't until this past weekend that
the trio actually reunited. One of
Lois's two grandchildren, Lorice
Begin was competing in the
National Motocross Champi
onships in Walton on the weekend
so Lois called her sisters to tell
them she was coming to the area.
The reunion has proven to be a
bigger thrill than anticipated. "We
have family that we had no idea we
had," said Lois. Though Katherine
has no children, Ruth has four chil
dren and seven grandchildren. On
Thursday evening for the first time
ever, 12 members of the family sat
down to dinner together.
Of the other siblings, which were
all boys, only one, John, is still
alive. Lois noted that her younger
sisters had never even met some of
their brothers as they had moved
away from home by the time the
girls were bom. She hopes that in
the future the trio may get together
with John, who lives in Toronto. .
Remarking on the effort spent in
finding her sisters, Lois said it was
really quite simple and she is
thrilled with the way things came
together. "Sometimes it seemed
like it might be impossible, but you
just persevere and it will happen."
As expressions of sympathy,
donations may be made to the
Stratford General Hospital
building fund or the charity of one's
choice.
Happy together
It’s been 53 years since these three sisters have been together so their reunion in Blyth this
past week was a time for much crying and laughing. Ruth Pilgrim, left, of Blyth and Katherine
Hartley, right, were separated from their older sister Lois Inglis when they were very young.
Two years ago, Lois, who now resides south of Barrie, embarked on a search to find them,
only to find her quest was easier then she had anticipated as Katherine lived just 10 miles
from Ruth in Wingham.
E.S. CLAIR CAMPBELL
Mr. E.S. Clair Campbell of Lon
don passed away on August 14,
1992.
A one-time bank manager in
Blyth, Mr. Campbell was a member
of the United Church. He was the
beloved husband of the former Lila
McCallum. Also left to mourn his
passing is his daughter Jean and her
husband Ray Lassaline of London.
He will also be dearly missed by
his grandson Justin.
Funeral services were held on
Aug. 17 at the A. Millard George
Funeral Home. Rev. Calvin Lewis
was the officiating clergy.
Interment was at Fairview Ceme
tery, Dutton.
HELEN RITCHIE
Mrs. Helen Margaret Ritchie, 76,
of 305 Albert St., Stratford, died
Tuesday at the Stratford General
Hospital.
Born at Stratford, she was a
daughter of the late George Young
and the former Emma Huether. She
had lived in Stratford all her life.
Her husband, James Frederick
Ritchie, died May 29, 1987.
She was a member of St.
Andrew's Presbyterian Church.
Surviving are a son, Robert, of
305 Albert St.; a daughter, Jane
Abra and husband John, of
Toronto; grandchildren, Jim, Mark
and Mary Abra; brothers Stuart
Young and wife Dorothy, of
Georgetown, and William Young
and wife Joyce, of Thorold; a sister,
Muriel Steenson and husband
Richard, of Toronto; a sister-in-
law, Ethel Young, of St.
Catharines; and brother-in-law,
Jack Swift and wife Joan, of Barrie.
She was predeceased by a brother,
Jack Young, and a sister, Jean
Swift.
Friends were received at the
W. G. Young Funeral Home, 430
Huron St., Stratford, on Saturday
from 12 noon until time of service
at 1:30 p.m. Rev. James Ross
Dickey officiated. Cremation and
burial will be in Avondale
Cemetery.
Letters
THE EDITOR,
The recent editorial that
fulminated against the North
American Free Trade Agreement
(NAFTA) keeps bothering me. It
bothers me because it is not
thought through. For one thing, no
one knows if the US/Canada Free
Trade Agreement (USTA) is the
only, or even the major cause of
present day unemployment. The
whole industrialized world has
experienced increased job losses
due to competition from high
technology, and because the whole
world, including Canada, is in the
midst of a ‘recession’, which to me
is more reminiscent of the great
depression of my youth.
But that aside, the concerns
expressed in the editorial and in
any number of government bashing
columns and letters to the editor in
the daily papers, are that Canadian
jobs will flow to a low wage
country, like Mexico. This is
shortsighted and selfish thinking. It
is shortsighted because if jobs go to
Mexico the buying power of
Mexicans will increase and they
will be able to buy Canadian made
products. Yes, that will take time,
but our children and grandchildren
will receive the benefits. Mexico
has at present some 80 million
people. At its present rate of
growth, this increases by 2 million
people a year, or 2 million new
potential customers. Economists
agree that within 15 to 20 years
Mexico will catch up to us in
income and standard of living. That
means that 20 years from now a
prosperous market of some 120
million people will have opened for
our industries and farmers.
Continued on page 19
Letter
to the
editor
Continued from page 6
a great supporter of both the town
and the festival, it is thrilling for
me to feel the continuing strength
and growth of this theatre.
I am writing this letter because
there has been much concern about
an anticipated operating deficit this
summer and I would like to try to
put this into perspective and to
caution against an over-reaction.
The Festival since its inception has
incurred a deficit twice before. In
1976 the deficit represented about
eight per cent of the total budget.
This was erased the following
season. Again in 1978 there was a
deficit representing about 17 per
cent of the budget. This was erased
in 1979. If there is a deficit this
year, it will probably represent nine
to 10 per cent of the total budget
which, while significant, is
certainly not a catastrophe.
The really exciting thing to note
has been the extremely imaginative
response of the staff and the board
of directors to the problem. The
current budget has been slashed
and there has been an immediate
emergency fundraising campaign
started. The response by our
audience has literally brought tears
to my eyes. It shows that many,
many people love and support the
Blyth Festival and what it stands
for. This support together with the
box-office success of "Midnight"
will probably mean that any short
fall will be very small indeed.
Blyth is a high-risk theatre. A
good new play is hard to find and
hard to produce. No one can predict
success until it opens before an
audience. The adventure of going
to a Blyth season has been to
discover which new plays are the
best or the worst. Peter Smith has
done a great job this season. Where
else in Canada can you see a great
international success like
"Kanashibetso" , a new Ted
Johns’ comedy in a garage, a
terrific historical drama by Anne
Chislett, and an outdoor environ
mental presentation by a group of
local young people? Nowhere!
Let's keep the adventure in the
Blyth Festival.
Janet Amos
Toronto.
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