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The Citizen, 1992-02-12, Page 20PAGE 20. THE CITIZEN, WEDNESDAY, FEBRUARY 12,1992. Bridal fashions celebrate style, tradition Brides this season can have it all - the understated elegance of pure lines, luxe fabrics, and discreet details; the fantasy of a garden neckline of colourful silk flowers; the insouciance of a short, flared skirt. Colour emerges like never before with all-over pastels; tinted overlays and underlays; head-to-toe embroidery; and flecks of gold, sil ver, and platinum. Yet, every new design captures the ageless romance and charm of the bride. Bride's magazine presents the Understanding love’s intricacies As Valentine's Day approaches on February 14, thoughts of love are on more and more minds. But love is no simple matter to under­ stand. There are two kinds of love, according to Richard Wessler, chairman of the Psychology Department at Pace University in Pleasantville, N.Y. One type is called, “mature love.” This is when two people share similar goals, responsibilities and interests, such as reading, trav­ elling and raising children. A variation of mature love is a person's affinity for popular fig­ ures, such as a movie star or rock musician, and sports teams like the New York Giants. SUSTAINING ROMANCE The second kind of love, often associated with Valentine's Day, Dr. Wessler continued, is the romantic type. Romantic love is a feeling between two people fueled by pas­ sion and sexual attraction. The big problem with romantic love is that it fizzles out quickly. So to help keep these special feelings alive, people give each other gifts or romantic products. The products bought by these romantic consumers range from sexy lingerie to heart-speckled underwear. There are some very serious rea­ sons for giving silly gifts like these, according to Dr. Wessler. One rea­ son a person may give a romantic gift is to sustain the romantic love that could be disappearing between a newly-paired couple. Another reason is to revive the romantic love that might be waning between a couple in a long-stand­ ing relationship. “A partner may also give a romantic gift to communicate his or her feelings and send an unmistak­ able symbol of passion,” said Dr. Wessler. hottest trends and most alluring looks for brides, maids, mothers, grooms, ushers and more. Fabulous Fabrics • Crisp transparencies - organza, silk gazer, a profusion of tulle lay­ ers, point d’esprit. • Frosted effects - iridescent hues, pearlized fabric. • Matte mixed with shiny, such as satin with lightweight taffeta. • Fluid, two-ply crepe. • Rich textures - floral jacquard, ottoman, silk shantung, faille, silk He explained that people find written and verbal expression diffi­ cult so they head to upscale stores to buy professionally designed products. These products, which include everything from heart-covered socks and neckties to jewellery, crystal and china, look attractive, are usually higher in quality than what an individual can create by him or herself, and take less time to make. The Pace University psychology professor went on to explain that many years ago his grandfather would have written a letter or love poem to reveal his innermost thoughts to a special person. Today, however, writing an expensive note or poem is viewed as odd and takes up too much of a person's time. SYMBOLS OF LOVE One way romantic lovers imply the thought of love, without having to say or write it and make any commitment, is by using the heart as a symbol. The symbol allows people in the stage of romantic love to express what's on their minds without mak­ ing any long-term promises, Dr. Wessler said. The final point he made about romantic love is that if it doesn't lead into a mature phase, it will eventually bum itself out. Marriage. The beginning and the end are wonderful. But the middle part is hell. -Enid Bagnold By the time you swear you're his, Shivering and sighing, And he vows his passion is Infinite, undying - Lady, make a note of this: One of you is lying. - Dorothy Parker doupioni, panne velvet. • Laces - guipure, re-embroi­ dered, Alencon, Venetian, Chantil­ ly, eyelet. • Dimensional surfaces - pique, quilted fabrics. • Sheer shades - whitened pastels (mint, pink, yellow, lavender) add a pearlized look to white or ivory. • Metallics - gold or silver threads, beads, plain or crepe. • Embellishments - dimensional flowers of silk or self-fabrics blooming around the neckline, strewed about the skirt, hem bor­ der, and train; coloured embroi­ dery; pastel beading; trellis ribboning; jewelling and/or pearls concentrated on collar, cuffs, hem­ line; a soft bow gracing the neck­ line, waist, bustle. Shapely Silhouettes • Pure lines - elongated bell­ shaped skirts gathered at the hips A-lines. • Necklines - open, rounded square; scoop; bateau; fichu collars; high wedding-band collars. • The waist as a focal point - nipped and cinched with a sash. • Silk columns with narrow fish­ tail bottoms or flyaway trains sweeping down from the back of the shoulders. • Trains - the extra-long monarch length; a soft, oversized bustle bow. A Short Story Short dresses are a growing option for the sophisticated bride or an encore wedding. Shapes are bor­ rowed from the most elegant evening wear, reinterpreted with a bridal influence. New lengths: • Above-the-knee and flared; short bell shapes. • A short dress with a detachable ball-gown overskirt that can be removed after the ceremony. • The high-low hemline - above- the-knee length in front, flowing to a dramatic sweep train in back. • A play on separates - a short slip dress paired with a matching coat; tunic top over a short, slim skirt. • The softly tailored above-the- knee coatdress; buttons, lapels, and cuffs are embellished with pearls, jewels or lace. Necessary Accessories Accessories are uncluttered, dimensional, and designed to com­ plement the sculpted floral detail­ ing and colour accents of the new gowns. The hottest headpieces: • Embellished headbands - with silk flowers, allover pearls, silk cording, accents that mimic dress details. • Soft bows worn at the back of the head. • Tiaras made of crystals or pearls - sized small enough to wear with hair up or large enough to sit on the crown of the head. • Veils - circular veils with pearl,, crystal, or metallic embellishments; heirloom lace made into a veil. • Hoods with long, flowing attached trains. • Softly tailored, raised pillboxes wrapped with tulle that trails down in back. Shoe Shapes High heels are still high on the list, but new shapes offer sophisti­ cated style - and comfort, to boot. Stepping out on the scene: • Elongated fronts with square toes and elaborate embellishment; chiseled, curved, or skinny heels. • Ribbon treatment on ankles and shoe fronts. • Jeweled satin shoes. Luxe Legs • Colours - white, off white, or ivory for the bride; pastels (match­ ing dresses and shoes) for maids. • Thigh-highs and stockings with garters. S'.I Vprsmitu jp\/\/ELI PRY DESIGNER Cct •• One of a kind Designer 14 K i^Gold and Sterling Silver Jewellery your day special •Elegant designs to fit your budget •Fresh or silk flowers •View our FTD Wedding Video for creative ideas at no charge •We rent candelabras, white wicker stands, baskets, bud vases, brandy snifters and hurricane lamps. There’s a Wedding in your future J Flowers say it all! M at Country Garden Flowers^ FREE "Throwaway bouquet" Country Garden Flowers 887-6900 or 887-6351 |S|KSSa|z X \] | JyWe deliver We are your full service florist in Brussels. Evening appointments available - Complete repairs to all Jewellery & Holloware. also Diamond and Semi-Precious Stone repair •• Pearl Restringing 72 THE SQUARE . 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