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The Citizen, 1991-02-13, Page 18PAGE 18. THE CITIZEN, WEDNESDAY, FEBRUARY 13, 1991. Diamonds inspire romance, magic and mystique Since the first diamond was uncovered more than 2,800 years ago, it has inspired legends and symbolized romance. The mystique arose from the inherent beauty of diamonds and ancient beliefs in their magical properties. Fasincation with diamonds has evolved over the centuries and they continue to capture the imagination of the modern world. Today’s custom of presenting a diamond engagement ring stems from a tradition established in the fifteenth century. Archduke Maxi- millian of Austria proposed to Mary of Burgundy, heeding the words of a trusted advisor who wrote: “At the betrothal your grace must have a ring set with a diamond ...” Today over 70 per cent of all brides receive a diamond engagement ring. Wearing a diamond engage­ ment ring on the fourth finger of the left hand dates far back to ancient Egypt, where it was believed that the vein of love ran from that finger directly to the heart. A ring represented a circle which symbolized eternity and the heavenly decree that life, happi­ ness and love have no beginning New book gives practical advice on marriage Of the three million young women who will walk the aisle this year, more than half of them will do so with little or no preparation. “A successful marriage is not an accident,” declares Dorothy Freeman, author of the bride’s guide, Making It Last: Love and Marriage. “Boundless love for each other is not enough to sustain it. It is necessary for the bride to learn all she can about what will be required to develop and maintain a happy, long-lasting marriage relationship; then, after she has learned how to do it, she must apply what she has learned.” Making It Last: Love and Marr­ iage is a comprehensive guide that will benefit all wives and about-to-be-wives from courtship to retirement. This book covers virtually every aspect of marriage, including insights on managing money, the house or apartment, buying food and housewares, advice on how best to keep house, how to go about selecting a place to live, and straight talk on how to turn bedroom experiences into happy, lifetime memories. or end. THE MYSTIQUE OF DIAMONDS Diamonds have always been more highly valued than other gems because of their rarity and unique genesis. Diamonds were formed under immense heat and pressure at depths of more than one hundred miles beneath the earth’s surface. Although dia­ mond crystals were forced upward by volcanic explosions more than 70 million years ago, it was not until the 4th century B.C. that diamonds were first traded. Although currently mined in twenty countries, India was the only known source of diamonds until the 18th century. It was in India that legends surrounding the power of diamonds originated. Indians found that rough uncut diamonds shaped in an octahe­ dron dispersed light in a rainbow of colour unlike any other stone. The diamond became a symbol of power and status and people believed that diamonds held mystical qualities. It was written that “He who wears a diamond will see dangers recede from him, whether he be threatened by serpents, fire, poison, sickness, thieves, flood, or evil spirits”. In Europe, diamonds became valued as talismans. Diamonds were sought after because of their durable qualities, hence the Greek name for diamond “adamas”, meaning unconquerable. The an­ cient Greeks believed diamonds to be the tears of the gods and likened the diamond to love’s passion. Over the centuries, the dia­ mond evolved as a symbol of the impenetrable and enduring bond of love. In the first and second centuries, Romans wore diamonds to ward off illness, evil spirits and other hazards. An unknown poet wrote, in 2 A.D., “The evil eye shall have no power to harm Him who shall wear the diamond as a charm”. Because of diamonds’ natural durability, they came to symbolize courage and invincibil­ ity, and Romans wore them against their skin believing diamonds would increase their bravery and daring in battle. Some believed that diamonds were splinters from falling stars; others believed that diamonds tipped Ero’s arrows. DIAMONDS AND ROMANCE “Two torches in one ring of burning fire Two wills, two hearts, two pas­ sions are bonded in marriage by a diamond.” -The Marriage of Constanzo Sforza and Camilla D’Aragona According to Diana Scaribrick, a noted jewellery historian, the marriage of Constanzo Sforza and Camilla D’Aragona in 1475 was one of the first occasions associat­ ing diamonds with love and marriage. The ceremony was re­ corded in a series of illustrations found in a manuscript currently in the Vatican. The illustration de­ picts the god of marriage in a tunic painted with diamond rings, standing near an altar on which a diamond ring unites two blazing torches. Then, in 1477, the first polished diamond ring was used to seal the engagement of Arch­ duke Maximilian and Mary of Burgundy. By the sixteenth century, dia­ monds became an integral part of royal weddings. A diamond ring was placed on the finger of Mary Tudor, an infant at the time of her marriage by proxy to the Dauphin of France in 1518. Marguerite d'Angouleme was given a dia­ mond ring by Henry Navarre when they married, symbolizing a king and queen bound together in everlasting love. DIAMONDS IN THE 20TH CENTURY Today, people no longer believe diamonds to be imbued with magical powers, but the diamonds seductive brilliance continues to intrigue and mesmerize men and women around the globe. The gift of a diamond engagement ring to iwWwiw one’s fiance is one of the strongest traditions thriving in today’s modern world. New customs have continued to evolve including the men’s diamond wedding band, a return gift from the bride, and the diamond anniversary band, given on the first through tenth wedding anniversaries. 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