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The Citizen, 1991-02-13, Page 12PAGE 12. THE CITIZEN, WEDNESDAY, FEBRUARY 13, 1991. Groom’s mom can play big part in wedding, too A mother of the groom can play a big part in her son’s wedding. It is customary for the groom’s family to call on the bride’s family first. Why not pick up the phone and say how happy you are about the engagement. If possible, in­ vite them for an informal gather­ ing of parents and the bride and groom. If the bride’s parents live away, send a friendly note saying how pleased you are about the engage­ ment. Arrange a pre-wedding visit or arrive at the wedding site a few days early to meet them. Customarily the groom or his parents pay for such items as wedding and engagement rings, marriage license, clergy’s fee, corsages and boutonnieres. If you feel you want to contribute more, The groom of the nineties Here comes the bride ... and the groom. While the day still belongs to the beautiful bride, fashion and tradition are becom­ ing more important to the groom of the 90’s. The social upheaval of the last two decades have changed life­ styles of both men and women. Changing tastes have influenced engagement and wedding gift­ giving among couples. In 1989, over 73 per cent of all brides received diamond engagement rings; women are increasingly choosing to give that moment back to their groom by giving him a man’s diamond wedding band at marriage. The contemporary groom is making a public statement about his personal commitment. Today’s fashions are also helping talk it over with the bride and groom and their family. Be prompt with your guest list. The bride or her mother will let you know how many guests you can invite. Do stick to her guide­ lines as invitations have to be sent six to eight weeks in advance. Give the bride your list quickly and add first and last names as well as zip codes. Get to know your future daugh­ ter-in-law. A dinner party is a pleasant way to introduce her to other close relatives. Spend time alone with her, take her shopping or out to lunch. Choose a suitable wedding dress. Usually the bride’s mother selects her dress first and informs you of her choice. If you don’t hear from her, contact her and ask what she is planning to wear. Your dress should be similar in him make a truly personal state­ ment at the wedding. Some grooms may choose to wear boutonnieres which contain flowers that represent sentiments, such as a sprig of ivy for fidelity. Others are choosing unique acces­ sories when outfitting themselves for their weddings. Ties and cummberbunds in an array of colours and patterns give the groom options for setting himself apart from the rest of the wedding party. Tuxedo diamond stud sets turn a starched white shirt from “plain and simple” to “elegant and classic”, as do diamond cufflinks sparkling at the wrist. Today’s groom is reminiscent of a time centuries ago when fine clothing and accessories including jewellery were the pride and joy of men. length and in a color that will blend with the mother of the bride. Make arrangements for out-of- town guests. Many weddings are held in the bride’s hometown, and a number of the out-of-town guests might be your friends and relatives. You could check into accommodations for guests. Get travel information from the bride and send maps and directions to your friends. Give a rehearsal dinner. In most communities the parents of the groom are expected to hold the rehearsal dinner. The choice is up to you. It doesn’t even have to be a dinner, cocktails or coffee and dessert can be just as much fun. 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Your first official duty is the receiving line. Stand between the bride and her mother and warmly welcome the guests. If fathers decided to stand in the receiving line, you will stand between them. Mingle but pay attendance to the bride and groom and take your cues from them. Give the couple a gift they’ll cherish. This is your opportunity to give your son a gift he’ll use in setting up his new home. It could be as big as a car or as small and sentimental as an old family photograph. You may want to pass on a family heirloom such as a silver tea set at this time. You may also wish to purchase some­ thing brand new for the couple. It is always nice to keep in touch with the bride’s parents, arrange a get-together to compare memor­ ies of the big day. 291-1706 FAX 291-1914 308 Main St. E., LISTOWEL |(next to New Orleans Pizza) I’d POWELL PRINTING Planning^^^dding ? 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