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County Federation of Agriculture NEWSLETTER
OPINION
THE FARM FAMILY UNDER STRESS
Farm families have been the back-
bone of Canadian agriculture since the
first settlement on Canadian soil. They
form our rural communities and are the
basis for their economy. Farm families
are the life -blood of rural life as we
know it today.
If the mother is the heart, the father is
the cornerstone of the family. Tradi-
tionally, he is the head and the provider
for family needs. He is generally por-
trayed as a stable, authoritative figure,
but can be a loving, gentle teacher,
guide, and leader. A conscientious fa-
ther shows a good example through his
faith, beliefs, morals, values, and espe-
cially honest hard work.
Let's look at a farmer under stress.
He or she tends to take the burden upon
himself or herself. Because men tend to
identify themselves in relation to their
vocation and work, they may begin to
doubt their ability to continue this way
of life. Immediately, irrational deci-
sions may be made. Communication
difficulties and withdrawal from rela-
tionships may follow. Because women
generally identify themselves with the
relationship with their husbands, irrita-
bility, short temperedness, and depres-
sion may easily lead to marital prob-
lems. Some secondary signs may in-
clude alcohol abuse, gambling, heavy
smoking, or other disruptive habits.
According to the Queen's Bush
Rural Ministry, more than 75 per cent of
calls received have financial stress to
blame as the culprit. The fact is that
present-day farming tends to compound
even small problems. Adverse weather,
diseases, floating interest rates, com-
modity prices, or equipment failure can
drive a stressed farmer over the edge.
Does society really care?
Maybe not, but you and I do! How-
ever, we must be willing to extend a
warm, helping hand to our suffering
neighbours. While debt review boards
ponder mortgages and land ownership,
you and I must comfort the broken
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families, cheer unhappy spouses, and
love the hurting children.
What we really need is "price for
product." A fair price. A profit. We all
have the right to be paid a fair price for
spent labour.
Until farmers are paid fairly for
family labour, the farm family is
doomed to suffer much. And you and I
suffer with them.
Together, we must rally to action.
Action to save the farm, and by so doing,
the foundation of our communities —
the family!O
Respectfully submitted,
Bruce Federation of Agriculture
Public Relations Committee
Note
Each month this page will contain an
opinion on some current farm issue. We
would like to know what YOU think. If
your opinion differs from the one you
have read here, or if you support our
view, call the office at 364-3050.
The Bruce federation at the OFA convention in November.
BCFA DIRECTORS MEETING
October 24, 1988
A press conference was scheduled
for November 15 at Belmore to deal
with the farm credit situation. The
Queen's Bush Rural Ministry and sev-
eral professionals were invited to share
experiences.
A motion was passed to help fund the
Queen's Bush Rural Ministry.
An enthusiastic committee was in-
vited to set long-term policies and goals
for Ontario agriculture.
All present were encouraged to seek
concrete solutions from electoral candi-
dates.
The next meeting is to be held on
December 8.
EXECUTIVE
The annual meeting
was held November 4 at the
Ripley Community Centre.
President: Ron Garland
1st Vice -President: Bill Davis
2nd Vice -Pres.: Ted Zettel
Regional Directors:
Bruce North, Ken Kelly
Bruce West, Grant Collins
Bruce South, Byron Monk.