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The Rural Voice, 2004-10, Page 41Home Decorating Good neighbours are a reason to give thanks Patti Robertson operates Classic Interiors in Wingham. By Patti Robertson Ahhh fall once again, with all its bounty and colourful splendour and its premier celebration Thanksgiving, on its way! It's a time for giving thanks for what has been provided through our co-operation with the Divine, Mother Nature, technology, creativity and one another. Many years ago our family started a tradition of "Thanksgiving table conversation", in which each soul at our table takes a turn during the meal to express their gratitude towards all the blessings that have been bestowed upon them or a loved one, or a moving experience, etc. Over the years this chat has provided food for thought, lively and engaging conversation and often includes world current events, trends, techniques, flattery and then more often than not the comedienne at the table pipes up and says "She's thankful for toilet paper" Ya, well ha, ha, ha "so am I". So, here 1 am on a bright Saturday afternoon in my garden, trimming, pruning and getting the flowerbeds ready for their inevitable winter nap. There's a distinct chill in the air and I detect the faint smell of a woodstove, the sky is a startling blue and there is a hustle and bustle about the neighbourhood. Pammy and her dog Allie from across the street drop in for a cheery chat as they head out for a stroll. Later, even bent over in the garden I hear the familiar sound of Connie's front door open and I look up to her friendly wave, a greeting of "nice day for gardening" and she's off down the street in her truck. Another door opens and closes and the chatter of little voices fills the air as Kim and Grant's daughter and grandkids arrive for a visit. All the while I'm trimming and snipping. The sound of two motorcycles approaching grabs my attention and I look up as Glen, Corey and their daughters Em and Lexie round the corner, everyone smiling, waving, -no doubt headed out on a fall excursion. Within a very short time our newest neighbour James is home waving "hello", and moments later our other neighbour Jason arrives in his truck followed by his buddies in their trucks. All of them nod and smile their greetings as I straighten up to ease my back. A few moments later all the fellows are busy hammering away inside Jason's place — he's remodelling the whole ground floor. Now up the street, running comes three little ladies with Dad walking about a block behind. They are racing each other to get to my pond to check out the goldfish. Stopping, I help the kids count the fish and exchange pleasantries with their dad. Wow! What a really busy day in the "hood". A great day. with everyone coming and going, doing his or her own thing. I totally stop working and do a full -360, looking at all the comfortable homes on our street, a street with its share of colourful maples and the leaves on lawns to prove it. It's a street full of creativity and individual expressions in our gardens, the variety of choices of fall decor and colouration of front doors. My mind's eye visualizes each and every neighbour in their respective homes and I realize how truly blessed I am. There is not one home I could not go to in need of assistance and be turned away. We do not sit on each other's doorsteps. we respect each other's privacy but there is a strong silent caring energy force that you can actually feel. I am so overwhelmed by the complex simplicity of the working of the "hood" that I now sit down and let it sweep over me. It's an incredible, humbling experience. Ward and I have now lived on the street longer than anyone. To either side of us are two young men working on their own first homes. They are starting the growth cycle all over again. adding to the pride in ownership, charm and welcoming friendship. Neighbours are continually coming, going. working, caring. sharing, surviving. And the simplistic beauty and sense and logic overcomes me as I realize this year the basis of my Thanksgiving will be that of being a part of my normal. quaint neighbourhood and its people and pets and business. Well, Ward's waiting inside our warm house for me. We've planned a nice dinner, a bottle of wine and a movie and all is truly alright in my corner of the world, thank goodness. To you and yours I wish the same simple, pleasant blessings and feelings of beauty and abundance in your own unique corner of the world ... Happy Thanksgiving.0 PATTI ROBERTSON'S Unique Residential and Commercial Interiors 135 Victoria St., WINGHAM 357-2872 • Custom-made Window Fashions, Bedspreads & Accessories • Fine Domestic & Imported Fabrics • Select Wallcoverings • Furnishings, Lighting & Artwork to suit any interior... OCTOBER 2004 37