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The Citizen, 1989-02-08, Page 16PAGE 16. THE CITIZEN, WEDNESDAY, FEBRUARY 8, 1989. 10 things to know about tuxedos Personalizing a tuxedo with accessories can tell something about the groom even if he is wearing rented formalwear. Advice for older brides Telegraphing a bold message through subtlety of detail, quality of fabric and streamlined design, a man in a tuxedo reflects a part of his personality that others don’t see every day. Personalized with accessories in bold or subdued patterns, in solids or in textured designs, this year’s formal wear offering allows the groom to ex­ press his taste and his individual­ ity. He has nothing to worry about, especially if he lets others help him with what they do best. “Prospective brides and grooms often feel intimidated by the wide variety of styles available and are often unsure of how they should be worn,” says Joseph Hecht, presi­ dent of Classy Formal Wear. “Because very few people wear formal wear regularly, they worry that they will wear it incorrectly or even wear an entirely inappropriate outfit. There’s really nothing to worry about,” says Hecht. “At Classy, for example, our sales staff has been trained to give the right advice and to make customers look the should. The tuxedo is not mysterious as it looks.” Hecht responds to the most frequently asked questions: •Both tuxedos and tailcoats in any colour are appropriate for any time of day or evening. Lighter colours are more popular in spring and summer, and tails are the more formal alternative. •Shirts come in two basic varie­ ties - with wing collars and with turned down collars. Both are appropriate. If you have a very short or thick neck, the turned down collar will look best on you. •When wearing a wing collar shirt, the bow tie is worn in front of the collar wings. The only excep­ tion to this is at weddings, where the bow tie can be worn either in front or behind the wings. •Single breasted jackets are always worn open; double-breasted jackets are always worn closed. •A cummerbund or vest is always worn with a single breasted jacket. Cummerbunds are more popular today. Because it is always worn closed, a double-breasted jacket needs no vest or cummer­ bund. •Cummerbunds are always worn with the pleats facing up­ wards. •Patent shoes are the most appropriate foot wear. •Socks should match the colour of the shoes. •A pocket square is worn in the breast pocket of the jacket. •If the groom wears tails, his attendants have the option of wearing tails or matching tuxedos. By following these simple guide­ lines, Classy’s president says that the wedding party can relax, knowing they are looking their best. sure that way they really as Words of love My heart is like a singing bird Whose nest is in a watered shoot; My heart is like an apple tree Whose boughs are bent with thickset fruit; My heart is like a rainbow shell That paddles in a halcyon sea; My heart is gladder than all these Because my love is come to me. -Christina Rossetti Remember when the wedding's over send in your report to The Citizen Anyone who believes that all brides are young and blushing should consider these facts: Today, one fifth of all women getting married for the first time are over 25. Of these, one third are in their thirties, forties, or older. “Bride’s Magazine’’ has some advice for this group of brides: •Many older brides prefer small ceremonies with only family and close friends attending, but it’s perfectly okay to choose any size ceremony you like. •What about the question of being “given away?’’ This ritual can easily be omitted if it makes you feel uncomfortable. •Whatever size your ceremony, your reception may be as large and lavish as you wish. Invite friends, relatives, business associates. If certain reception customs such as throwing the bouquet or tossing rice seem a little “young” to you, leave them out. •Feel perfectly free to wear a long, lacy white wedding dress if this is what you’ve always imagin­ ed you’d do. TOKEN TREASURES YOU DESERVE OUR EULL ATTENTION! Have your names to us by April 29, 1989 withyour FULL WEDDING ORDER andyouwillreceiveaFREE Throw-away Bouquet! DenommeFlowersareSpecialists in both Fresh & Silk Wedding Bouquets Evening consulting can be arranged by calling Chris or Jo-Anne... 524-8132 Of course we have wicker standards and candelabras available Denomme Flower Shop Inc 140THESQUARE GODERICH it For all your gift giving needs.. • Leave it all to Jeanne? Jeanne McDonald loves ihe work she’s in. She sur­ rounds herself daily with the beautiful things she selects for the store called Token Treasures. Hers is a world of brides and grooms, birthday wishes and tokens of love and affection. choice of a gift for their money and it answers the age old question "What can I buy that will be re­ ally enjoyed?" The bride-to-bc is en­ couraged to drop into the store, alone or with her Mom, to consult with Jeanne about her personal tastes and those of her husband-to-be. Within ten or fifteen minutes Jeanne has an idea of the colours the bride plans for her first home and the accessories she enjoys (brass, wicker, silver, copper, etc.) Jeanne’s job is to assist customers in choosing that gift which says "I care". Jeanne does this well. When it comes • to brides and grooms, Jeanne relies on a bridal registry. For many, the idea of a bridal registry is a mys­ tery and therefore an un­ comfortable experience. Jeanne explains that it is really neither of these things; it is a way for buy­ ers to make the wisest Jeanne records these facts and refers to them from time to time as shop­ pers arrive to choose a special gift for the young couple (or not-so-young couple). Buyers have the knowledge of choosing gifts of the taste and style they know will please. They are happy they are not buying something the couple has already received. What it amounts to for the shopper is that it is the wisest use of money spent It is a choice of pre­ sent which is going to say "I care". A few minutes of the bride’s time, plus the gra­ cious assistance of a man­ ager like Jeanne, and the gift becomes a treasured token of affection. Token Treasures Wingham 357-2993