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The Rural Voice, 1985-11, Page 22THE WAY WE WERE "Why the Hens don't Fav" from the collection of the late R.R. Sallows, courtesy Huron County Pioneer Museum, Goderich, Ontario Remembering leisure time by Andrew Dixon Looking back on childhood, 1 realize that 1 see the long - distant past through the eyes of the child I was, not those of an adult. But it does seem to me that there is more loneliness now in spite of our telephone, our T.V. and radios, in spite of our easy, rapid, and comfortable travel. But again, 1 see that time as a child when today is forever and everything encountered is very, very new. It is possible that my mother, with her husband working on the neighbouring farm, with me tuck- ed in for an afternoon nap, with the horse at the back of the farm, with no telephone and no radio or T.V., found the day tedious. But the farms were close, you could see the neighbours' buildings, and it was an 20 THE RUR t1_ VOICE easy walk. What is more to the point — people had time to be friendly. When driving down the road you would see men working in the fields. It was customary to stop and wait till the team reached the fence. Then you would exchange the time of day, discuss weather and crops, and learn the local gossip, possibly discussing local problems involving school, council work, or government. There always seemed to be time, and anyway the horses had to have rest. Today with the motor car and the tractor to speed us on our way, we never think of stopping either the car or the tractor and the interchange of ideas and mutual solving of problems are gone. Church and school were two focal points for entertainment. Every Sun- day people went to church, I think not so much from the urge for religion as for the relief of monotony. All week men had worked long hours and the day of rest was just that, and indeed necessary. People usually slept in a little on Sundays, maybe till 7 a.m. Farm work consisted of feeding and milking in winter and milking in the summer. Then a whole long day was ahead of you. Many farmers took a morning nap for church, which was usually in the afternoon. In the afternoon the horse was harnessed and hitched to the buggy and the farmer donned his Sunday suit which included a starched shirt and celluloid collar with snap -on tie. The wife put on her best hat and dress