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The Citizen, 1988-02-10, Page 14PAGE 14. THE CITIZEN, WEDNESDAY, FEBRUARY 10, 1988. Wedding traditions differ from culture to culture Every culture has its wedding traditions intended to symbolize the good things marriage means to a couple; happiness, commitment, sharing. Such customs offer a couple the opportunity to person­ alize their celebration, perhaps even with traditions of their ancestors. Following are some ideas from Bride’s magazine. Africa - Some tribes still perform the ancient rite of binding the bride’s and groom’s wrists togeth­ er with plaited grass. Show your new ties by exchanging matching woven bracelets before you walk back up the aisle together as huband and wife. Bermuda - Even today, islanders top off their wedding cakes with tiny tree saplings. Plant your little tree in a place where you can watch it grow along with your marriage. China - Red, the colour of love and joy in China, is the favourite choice for the bride's dress and accessories. Tuck a red rosebud in your husband's lapel or wrap bridesmaid’s gifts and wedding favours in red. Czechoslovakia - Country brides wear wreaths of rosemary woven for them on their wedding eve. Include a sprig in your bouquet to symbolize wisdom, love and loyal­ ty. England - The village bride and her wedding party used to walk togethertothe church, led by a small girl strewing blossoms along the road. Walk to your reception site if it’s nearby. Ifyou have young friends or relatives or are you ng parents marrying again, let the children head the parade. France - Couples drink the reception toast from an engraved two-handled cup, the coupe de marriage, which is passed on to future generations. You might engrave a silver cup with your initials and then use it not only for the champagne toast at your reception but also for all future special occasions. Germany - Both bride and groom hold candles trimmed with flowers and ribbons. A late afternoon or evening wedding is perfect for saying vows by candlelight. And youcansaveoneofthetapersto relight for a romantic first anniver­ sary dinner. Ind ia - To ward off evil, the grooms’ brother sprinkles flower petals on the bridal couple at the end of the ceremony. Afteryour ceremony is over, have a special relative or friend hand a single flower to every guest. Ireland - The traditional wedd­ ing cake of the Emerald Isle is a heavy, rich fruitcake with golden raisins, ground almonds, cherries and spice. In true Irish spirit, lace your reception cake with brandy or bourbon. Russia - Wedding guests not only give presents - they receive them, as well. Favour your guests withtiny picture frames, bud vases or instant photos of themselves. Scotland - Traditionally, a bride­ groom purchased a silver “wedd­ ing spune," engraved with the couple’s initialsand wedding date, to give to his bride. You and your groom might buy something spe­ cial to commemorate the day. Spain-Incertain regions, the brideworeablack silk mantilla and orange blossoms in her hair. The groom wore a tucked shirt hand- embroidered by thebride. Try a lacy white mantilla for your headpiece and give your groom a formal shirt on which you’ve embroidered his initials on the cuff. Wales - The bride gives her attendants cuttings of myrtle from her bouquet. Tell your brides­ maids that if their plants bloom, they’ll soon wed. Italy - For centuries wedding guests have tossed confetti - sugared almonds - at the couple to symbolize the sweet and bitter in life. Decorate reception tables with Be creative with crystal Crystal gifts are ideal for innovative surprises. For instance, your salad bowl can hold more than a salad. It can be a centerpiece, a punch bowl or it can hold a spaghetti dish for a romantic “festa italiana”. Or treat your guests to a delightful shrimp cocktail served in your crystal compote. Make dessert magic by using your stem ware to serve fruits or creamy delights. Turn ashtrays into soap holders, and display flowers in your water pitcher. With crystal, your imagination has no end. pretty boxes or bags brimming with almonds. Japan - Bridal couples take nine sips of sake, becoming husband and wife after the first. The two of wine cup then ask your parents to exchange sips, too. Mexico - Reception guests gath­ er around the couple in a heart- shaped ring. Your friends and whirl through your first dance together as husband and wife. Poland - Guests customarily have pinned money on the bride to “buy” a dance. Collect your pin While the flowing white wedding gown has become part of our North American wedding tradition, various cultures around the world have their own bridal traditions. Why cope with the city's hustle and bustle when we can offer you personalized service at LETTEAU’S? Our experienced staff will help you choose that special gown for your important day. 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