The Citizen, 1990-12-18, Page 17From the Minister's Study
THE CITIZEN, TUESDAY, DECEMBER 18, 1990. PAGE 17.
Find time to reflect on the true meaning of Christmas
BY REV. BONNIE COLE ARNAL
WALTON-BLUEVALE
PASTORAL CHARGE
The clock is ticking away and
Christmas will soon be here. In the
church the season of Advent is a
time of spiritual preparation, a time
to get our lives in order so that the
Christ Child can be welcomed into
our midst. But I wonder how many
of us take that seriously.
There isn’t a great deal that
reminds us of the Christ Child in
the busyness in which we find
ourselves at this time of year. Our
time is filled to overflowing with
Katherine and Steven Huether
Newlyweds live in Toronto
LARONE - HUETHER
Friends and family gathered at
St. Thomas’ Anglican Church in
Seaforth on Saturday, June 30,
1990, for the celebration and
blessing of marriage uniting Kath
erine Jane Larone and Steven Ray
Huether.
The- Reverend C. Gregory Gil
son, B.A., M. Div. officiated. The
bride is the daughter of Mr. and
Mrs. Kenneth J. Larone of RR 4,
Seaforth and the groom is the son
of Mr. and Mrs. Ray Huether of RR
3, Walton. Maid of honor was Faye
Carnochan, friend of the bride, and
bridesmaids were Cindy Mordaunt,
sister of the bride, Bonnie Johnston
sister of the bride, Nancy Spittai,
cousin of the bride, and Patty
Spittai, cousin of the bride. Flower
Auxiliary sells tickets
for Christmas draw
Activities for the coming holiday
season were outlined by the presi
dent, to the Auxiliary to Wingham
and District Hospital at the
November meeting.
Members will serve beverages
and squares to the hospital staff at
coffee break time Dec. 7 and the
president Mary Lou Cameron,
Myrla Frank and another appointee
will judge Christmas window paint
ing at the hospital Dec. 14. All
babies born in the hospital during
the Christmas season will be sent
home in hand-made Christmas
stockings and a shawl will be
Christmas parties, concerts, family
get-togethers, shopping, mailing
Christmas letters and cards, clean
ing, baking and entertaining not to
mention the occasional squabble
about who is spending Christmas
with whom. It is little wonder that
many folks heave a sigh of relief on
December 26, very glad that it’s all
over for another year.
If this seems all too familiar
maybe it is time to take a step back
from our busyness and take stock of
what we are doing. At Christmas
we celebrate the mystery of God
taking on human flesh and coming
to the world as a helpless vulner
girl was Jennifer Mordaunt, niece
of the bride.
Best man was Dan Arts, friend of
the groom, and guests were usher
ed by John Huether, brother of the
groom, Craig Merritt, friend of the
groom, Michael Ellis, friend of the
groom and Joe Fleming, friend of
the groom. Ring bearer was Robert
Johnston, nephew of the bride. A
duet was sung by Lucille and Jayne
Delaney, friends of the bride and
groom, with Jayne also playing the
organ for the ceremony.
Readers were Paul Peggy from
Bridge of Allan, Scotland, cousin of
the bride; Teresa Donnolly, friend
of the bride; and Deborah John
ston, friend of the bride. Katherine
and Steve reside in the Beaches
area of Toronto.
--Walden Photography.
presented to the New Year’s baby,
compliments of the Auxiliary.
Approximately 20 tables from
Lucknow, Teeswater and Wingham
will participate in Marathon Hospi
tal Bridge for the winter season.
The Auxiliary will be contributing
to pieces of equipment for hospital
use in 1991.
Ten Teen volunteers are giving
service to the Long Term Unit
mostly and their contribution is
greatly appreciated.
A Christmas draw for a clock and
soap basket will be made. Tickets
are available at the gift case. Next
meeting is January 28, 1991.
able baby. What signs point to the
fact that the Christ Child is near?
We know Christ is near when we
feel God’s unfailing love that
nurtures us and^enables us to grow
in our faith towards a new whole
ness as persons.
We know that Christ is near
when we timidly offer a God and
prayer and it is overwhelmingly
answered.
We know that Christ is near
when we see the face of Christ in
those we meet - perhaps in a warm
smile, an understanding nod or
even a phone call just at the
moment we are feeling terribly
Students present Christmas show
Stormy weather and early dis
missals have already warned us
that winter is here to stay. At
Clinton and District Christian
School many activities have contin
ued to keep students and staff busy
for the month of November.
The parent-teacher interviews
were held successfully the even
ings of Nov. 14 and 15. It was great
to sit down and discuss that which
is important in the learning of our
children. One staff opinion that was
used in describing the interviews
goes as follows: “It is an
inspiration to hear parents voice
their concerns about, not only the
academic, social, and emotional
qualities of their children, but also
Season
stressful
The Holiday Season is coming
and it’s the time of year when all of
us revive memories of season’s
past, be they reflections of warmth
or thoughts of disappointment and
loneliness.
Stress is inevitable at this time of
year, however, the ways in which
we cope and assist others to cope,
allows us to regain control. Setting
priorities, delegating tasks and
keeping the true purpose of the
season in mind will help individuals
contend with the holiday demands.
A shrinking bank account, ex
haustion, over indulgence in foods
and beverages and failed expecta
tions can tarnish the season’s
anticipated joy that can be replete
with stress and escalating de
mands. Sharon Anderson, Public
Education Co-ordinator at the
Ottawa Branch of the Canadian
Mental Health Association, sug
gests, “Make yourself a list, not of
things you have to do or should do,
but things you want to do; and stick
to it!’’
The widespread acceptability of
inter-faith marriages has brought
its share of “holiday conflicts’’ as a
balance is sought to perform cer
tain cultural rituals. Parents must
ensure that their children under
stand the nature of their different
faiths.
For the elderly and homeless
their plight is only magnified. As
the rest of the world carries on at a
frenetic pace, the lonely are forced
to look back at “what was’’ or
“what may have been”. Family
activities and the joy of being with
those we care about is not a reality
for everyone. Anderson adds, “use
the time to share yourself with
others. Be a volunteer at a hospital
or nursing home. Invite another
solitary person to share your holi
day meal; or spend the day helping
an organization that provides
Christmas dinners for people who
are alone.”
lonely or afraid.
Yes, the signs are all around if
we are not too frantic and too busy
to see them. I believe that the
Christ Child will feel welcome
when we begin to take charge of
our own lives and how we prepare
for Christmas. Perhaps it is time to
sift through what we do. The
meaningful traditions we can keep
but the things we do just out of
habit or out of a sense of duty we
discard.
In fact we might even choose to
reach out and share the presence of
the Christ Child with others. Those
who are grieving, those who are ill,
about their spiritual qualities.”
The time was well spent.
Students of grade 5-8 are invited
to stay after school on Wednesdays
until 4:30 to improve and practise
their volleyball skills. Many stu
dents are taking advantage of this
extra-curricular activity under the
supervision of Mrs. Roorda and
Mr. VanLingen. Soon it will be time
to consider making teams for the
upcoming tournaments.
Two collections have been held
to date for the UPC campaign in
connection with Computers for
Kids. The goal is high; the symbols
are slow to come in; however, an
extension of the program has been
announced. The campaign now
runs until the end of May 1990. We
hope parents and friends will
continue to support our cause.
Remembrance Day writings for
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Tuesday, 4:15 ■» Kids’ Klub
Wednesday - Livestyle Evangelism
Friday, 7:30 - Youth
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Dec. 23-11:00 a.m. - Family Service
Choir Cantata: “God’s Perfect Gift”
Dec. 23 - 9:30 a.m. - Belgrave Service
- Sermon: “Christmas Music: Christ’s Song”
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those who live in difficult family
situations and those who are facing
economic hardship may experience
more pain, despair and loneliness
at Christmas time than during the
rest of the year. For them it can
seem like they are forgotten by a
celebrating world. If we so choose,
we can make a difference in the
lives of others by sharing our time,
our love, our presence.
So let us take the time to make
this Advent season reflect the true
meaning of Christmas. And may
the Christ Child find room in our
hearts to let his love and peace and
joy dwell there.
the Royal Canadian Legion contest
were well received. The following
students submitted entries:
Willena Ramaker, Lynda Dykstra,
Rachel Lammers, and Billy Kline in
the senior division; and Jessie
Haak, Frances Reinink, and Colin
Burns in the junior division. Many
of these students placed in the top
positions after the judging.
All fundraising campaigns are
now over for this term; the students
were urged to deliver all their
products and finish turning in the
monies.
With the first term report cards
handed out Friday, Dec. 7, staff
and students are now turning all
their energy into final preparations
for the Christmas program. “A
Christmas Gloria” in music and the
spoken word will be held on
Thursday, Dec. 20 D.V. at 8 p.m.