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The Citizen, 2007-12-20, Page 34“It used to be a pretty normal day. We’d get up, do the chores, come in and have breakfast and then we’d get to open a present, but then we’d have to go out and do more chores,” said Paul Nichol, economic development manager with the Huron Business Development Corporation. “It wasn’t really until I married that it became a big deal.” Nichol’s wife, Kathy, grew up in a household where Christmas was a big event and family members would come from as far as Orillia and Quebec to be with the rest of their family to celebrate. Nichol confessed that celebrating Christmas in a big way quickly became contagious. Now, Nichol says, he has experienced the holidays with 18 people in a house and waking up with just his wife and two sons, Seth and Ethan. He says that both are good, but that there’s just something old-fashioned about a big, family Christmas. Much of what Nichol calls tradition in his house as far as Christmas is concerned is like a journey through the past, start- ing with the very house he calls home. Nichol lives in a beautiful old home just north of Brussels and he prides himself on preserving as much of its history as he can. Each room greets like a themed museum room, but slightly adapted for functionality. The kitchen features a wood stove, while living rooms and offices house antique violins and guitars, desks and leather chairs. Nichol says preserving the historic integrity of his home is important to him and that he wishes others would do it more often. This brings him to one of his favourite Christmas traditions stemming from an old legend he once heard when he was a child. After being told that the animals out in the barn would talk atmidnight on Christmas, he wouldmake his way out to the barn, alone,every Christmas and wait to strikeup conversation with the animals.This never happened, but it led him to a tradition that he holds dear to his heart with his wife and sons, a tradition that he says brings him closer to the true meaning of the holiday. Every Christmas, Nichol collects his Bible, bundles up his family and takes a walk out to the barn. Setting up hay to sit on, out in the cold with the animals, Nichol reads the Christmas story to his family. He says it gives him a true understanding of the nature of the Christmas story, out in a barn, in the cold on Christmas night. In addition to keeping the religious aspect of Christmas intact, one that seems to fade steadily every year, he says it keeps him grounded and helps him to channel his ancestors. Nichol says he has always been interested in pioneers and how they did things, hence his old-fashioned home, and doing this, he says is celebrating the way that those before him might have. Taking it one step further this year, but met with mixed reactions, Nichol hopes to start a new tradition. This year, he hopes to temporarily move the family out to a small one- room cabin just beside his house to sleep Christmas night. Again, channeling his ancestors, he says itfeels like the way families beforehim would have done it, not tomention bringing a sense of familythat can only come by spendingsuch a solemn occasion together in such tight quarters. While Nichol and one of his sons are on-board (before they’ve tried it, Kathy notes) his other son and his wife are unsure if they want this new tradition to be a staple of their holidays. With both traditions firmly scheduled for Christmas Eve and Christmas Day, one tradition that takes place a few weeks before was in full swing. Kathy and a friend of theirs from University, Dave Stinson, collaborate each year to make Christmas cake (that people seem to like, Nichol says). Joking that “it makes a good gift, or a good doorstop”, Stinson stood by his recipe, saying that he rarely gets a response other than positive. The secret, he says, is none of the things that people don’t like, and more of the things that people do. While Nichol has come a long way from the days of doing chores before breakfast and presents on his family’s farm just outside of Brussels, his fusion of his old- fashioned Christmas and Kathy’s big celebration seem to be working together to form a strong family foundation based in history, albeit a possibly cold, outdoor foundation. PAGE B2. THE CITIZEN, THURSDAY, DECEMBER 20, 2007.A Christmas tradition recalls true meaning Away in a manger Paul Nichol likes to channel his ancestors when the holiday season rolls around. Stemming from his childhood tradition of heading out to his barn at midnight on Christmas, when as legend goes, the animals would talk, he now shares Christmas night with his family out in his barn, reading the Christmas story from the Bible. From left: Nichol, his nine-year-old son Seth, his 12-year-old son Ethan, his wife Kathy, his father-in-law Leo MacNeil, and close friend Dave Stinson. Front: Ed Davies, Nichol’s close friend. (Shawn Loughlin photo) MM ee rr rr yy CC hh rr ii ss tt mm aa ss Wishing you and your family peace & happiness Throughout this Holiday Season! Seated(L to R): Larry McGrath, Deputy Mayor Bernie MacLellan, Mayor Joe Seili, Alvin McLellan, Joe Steffler Standing(L to R): Bill Siemon, Frank Stretton, Orval Bauer, Bob Fisher, David Blaney, Andrew Flowers, Les Falconer from the council and staff of Municipality of Huron East By Shawn Loughlin The Citizen