HomeMy WebLinkAboutThe Brussels Post, 1978-05-10, Page 12POST, MAX 10, 1978 12 THE BRUSSEL,S
YOUNG BOWLERS—These were some of the
champion bowlers who were given their trophies at a
banquet held in the Anglican Church recently. In the
Frontrow froni left are: Leah Kulopj High Single;
Tracey Coulter) High Aggregate; and Chantell
Burnes)High Average. In the second row from left•
are: Catherine Lone,High Double; June Adams1High
Triply; Lesley Ward1High Single; Lesley Matherson,,
High Average; Melody Osbornpigh Aggregate, and
in the back is coach Earlon Osborn.
(Photo by Langlois)
.AWARD WINNERS—Holding some of the trophies
they received at a bowling awards banquet held at
the Anglican Church recently in the front row from
left are: WayneJacklin, most improved; Paul Willie,
High Single; Sherie Ward f Most improved; and
Robert Willie, High Aggregate. Irp the second! row
from left are: LeOna Osborn, Most improved; Kelly
Zuber, Single and Vern Bridge, High Double. In the
third row from left are: Phillip Weber, High
Aggregate; Ken Cousin, High Triple; and Joe
Adams, High Average.
BOWLING CHAMPS—An awards banquet was held at the Anglitan Church
recently for these children who bowled in IViOlesWorth over the winter. Holding
trophieg iri the front row from left are Bantams: TraOey COulter, Bradley Becker an.
Lorrie Anne In the Lac raw from let are Juni& Champs: Jan Adams-,
Gordon Stute,; and Robert Willie. Behind them it math Earlon Osborn,
(Photo by Langlois)
endured when someone import-
ant to our emotional life is
longer' present, This leads to a
feeling of grief because "part of
us lives in each one, of these_
persons". Pain occurs because
we know things can never be the
same again. 'ft is like `suffering
an emotional amputation s % He
expressed regret that the Chris-.
tian church often overstresses the
fact that people should not grieve.
He feels grief should 'never be
hidden and one' should never 'b.,
ashamed to grieve, for "grief is
the flip side of the coin of love".
Grief, if dealt with realistically,
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directions and toward new per-
sons: He listed three emotional
needs, the need to face reality, to
express one's feelings and to
accept help. The importance of
`getting out' our feelings was
stressed, though 'society ap-
plauds us for being tough and
stoic',
There are certain emotional
patterns that scare people • who-
grieve, yet are normal and
BPS exercises_
The grade S students of \ -
Brussels Public Scheel. start off
each • morning with exercises.
Every week two students ar.e,
chosen to make up exercises to
strengthen various parts' of the
body and perform them to the
rhythm O. a song ,they have
.chosen.
They seem to enjoy this new
program and get a great deal out.
of participating,.
Carla iWght
Councils told
be careful
bargaining
A former employee of the
Canadian Union of Public
Employees, who has seen labor
contract bargaining from the
"other 'side': of the table---the
CUPE side---and who is now a
labor relations coordinator with
the Association of Municipalities
of Ontario (AMO), says many
municipal councils enter into
contracts without being aware of
the financial hazards.
Doug W. McEntee; told 350
delegates to the Organization of
Small Urban municipalities here
Fdday that "I am not anti-union,
just anti-stupidity."
He said municipalities should
do the best for their employees
"something you have not been
doing."
But labor contracts include sick
leave clauses that ,could burden
municipalities with mountainous
debt if all employees suddenly
retired at the end of this year.
• Council members seem un-
aware of the financial burden, he
says. Sick leave started away back
in the days when an employee
really needed some help if he was
absent for a few days. But it has
grown like the camel in the fable.
The camel asked permission to
put his head into a -tent to keep
warm. Eventually the ' entire
camel was in leaving no room for
the owner.
Few municipalities have
adequately funded sick leave
systems, he said, and he thought
it was time "sick leav,e was left
out." It was no longer the •
necessity of many years ago when
it was introduced. Other health
plans now give protection. .
healthy, Mr, Ross said. One is
incorporation, when the bereaved
person actually becomes the dead
person and Often exhibits the
same symptoms as those of the
deceased. The second is sub-
stitution, when the bereaved
place much importance on things
belonging to the deceased (a
room is left 'as is'; clothes are not
touched; decisions are made 'as
he would have wished',)
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the patient who did not enjoy life
but' spent all week working, all
weekend cleaning his apartment,
looking forward to 'living a little'
During the afternoon session
the speaker dealt with those who
suffer loss by death of someone
..use to them. He spoke of
by reavement, that experience
Workshop on death held