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HomeMy WebLinkAboutThe Citizen, 1986-04-23, Page 18PAGE 18. THE CITIZEN, WEDNESDAY, APRIL 23, 1986. From the Minister's Study Dealing with the hard times BY PASTORDOUGZEHR BRUSSELS MENNONITE FELLOWSHIP We do not have to look very far today to see men and women and young people who have lost their sense of self-esteem and personal worth. The signs and statistics of alienation used to be far away in the concrete jungles of the big cities. They were rarely found or experi- enced in the serene countryside of the rural community. It was far enough away at least, or so occasional, that we could hide our heads and say it does not affect me and so it does not matter. A daily newspaper some time ago cited the plight of the unemployed during the past few years. When the unemployment rate goes up one per cent the attempted suicides rise by five per cent, the admissions to mental institutions rise six per cent, child and spouse abuse increase by three to five per cent and crime increases by four to six per cent. The unemployed feel lonely and misunderstood. They feel alienat- ed because in our society our sense of worth is tied very closely to our work. Without a job, unable to contribute, individuals lose their self esteem and sense of value. But we know that it is not just the unemployed. Others, too, have some of those same feelings of worthlessness and poor self- esteem. I would venture that we all experience those feelings at some- time or another, if not regularly. The chronic symptoms of de- pression, constant anxiety, and exhaustion usually come upon us gradually. Rarely does it happen overnight. Individuals who are emotional powder kegs, a bundle of nerves or seem to have smoldering fuses, all suffer from a progressive disorder. We seldom 'blowup' just outof the blue. There is a history behind the moment of outrage that is evident in a temper tantrum, abusive assault or self- destruction. Deadlines, criticism and minor irritations are usually built one upon the other until the individual threads of annoyance become a cord of emotional strangulation. It is a chronic condition. Will we stick our heads in the sand? Will we sit idly by and wait for the next explosion? Is the only thing we can do is to try to pick up the shattered pieces? A mess of questions, yes, and the answers are not easy. How many messed up lives will it take before we get angry enough with the waste of all that human potential and do some- thing? Perhaps you have heard of the twin boys raised by an alcoholic father. Years later a psychologist studying the effect of alcoholic Continued on page 19 Blyth Christian Reformed Church HIGHWAY4, BLYTH Rev. RogerGelwicks Worship Services 10:OOa.m. and 2:30p.m. Sunday School 11:00 a. m. 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