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HomeMy WebLinkAboutThe Brussels Post, 1959-01-08, Page 6TOWERING TRIBUTE - Towering 101 feet above ground near the U.S.A. Capitol is the Taft Memorial Bell Tower. Construct- ed of marble, it was erected in memory of the -late Sen. Robert A. Taft. Cost of some $900,000 was met with voluntary con- tributions. --""`' • (.1:-.4*-Tr-fe "'Arise:v.4w_ HRONICLE i1NGERFARM "Dear Anne Hirst: I wish you would write a piece straight from the horse's mouth about those Mothers who insist on living with their Chil- dren when they marry. It may clear the way for an engaged couple I know who foresee trouble with a capital T. fear for the poor man. His fiancee's mother, who is wells off, is planning to live with them!" "Even now, he and she don't get along too well. She is with ihem every chance she gets; she tries to go along every time they leave the house, and when they don't, she sits in the parlor until he leaves. Besides, she talks too much, "She lavishes expensive gifts on the girl, who dares not de- cline them. It makes her fiance furious; he takes it as a personal reflection on his slim income. "Another couple, married nine months, live with his mother, but if they stay there they won't be married long. They are in their late 20's, and both want a family. His mother is literal] a appalled at the idea, but if they suggest leaving she throws a dramatic scene, "We all need our mothers, their affection, their advice, of- ten their help; but most of the mothers I've observed are born bosses, they stick their noses (and their tongues) in where they're not wanted, and only make trouble. Why don't they stay in the background where they belong? INDIGNANT" * Here is a true story: * A dear friend of mine lost * her husband two years ago. * Their only son had been mar- e ried less than a year After 4` the funeral my friend Ind me 4' excitedly that she was going * "They really want me, Anne, * to move in with the children: * and they mean it. I can do the * marketing and have dinner ready (the wife still teaches) and relieve them in so many * ways. Aren't they wonder, * ful?" And tears ran down her * cheeks, * I was appalled, I slipped * into another room where the e son and his wife were. "You * two can talk to me, you know. * Now, the truth!" They looked * at each other, and the boy * said, "We do want Mom, of * course, but you know we'd * rather be alone," * Mom and I had a long talk. * I recalled the trouble her own * mother - in - law had caused, * and I knew my friend's tern- Chef's Favorite PRINTED PATTERN SIZES S-10-12 M-14-16 1.-18-20 I .e•eseere Plenty of protective cover for kitchen chores makes this a fa- vorite apron. roe bathing baby, sew apron hi splash-proof terry cloth. A 'sew-easy Pattern. Printed Pattern 4760:' Misses' Sizes Small (10,12); Medium (14, 16); Large (i8, 20). Medium tine takes 21/s ,yards 35-inch, Printed directions on each pat- ter n part, Easier, accurate, Sand FORTY CENTS (stamps tannot be accepted; use postal note for safety) for this pattern. Please print plainly, the SIZA, rour NAME, ADDRESS and the STYLE NUMBER. Send order to ANNE ADAMS, of I, 123 Eighteenth St., New Yorento, Dot, ISSUE 1 1959 perament. I left her with, * "You'll decide for yourself, of * course." - Some weeks later * she was sharing her apartment $ with a woman friend and had $ got herself a good position that * employs her many talents, The * children come to dinnee once 4' a week, she visits them now * and then, Meantime, she lets * them alone. A few months later she told * how beautfiully things were * working out: "I'm so relieved * that I decided to stay here, 1 just bet I couldn't help trYinit • to boss thorn:" r. What a pity more mothers 4` are not as wise. Children do * need their mothers, as you s say, but they are the ones to * decide when. "Dear Aene Hirst: Congratulations on tat article you wrote about grandmothers- in-law. Everything you said is so true! It would be well it young mothers would read it more than once, "I am happy to say that t does not reflect on me; the grandchildren really love and trust me, and I am grateful to be just a good friend they can turn to when things go wrong. but I have seen and heard so much about the other kind that 1 must thank you again for giv- ing the topic space "So often it seems to me that the only time in-laws are want- ed is when the youngsters need money, or a babysitter for free. ADMIRER" * * * If children. are old enough to marry they are old enough .to run their own lives. Don't move in unless you must - and then don't dominate them . . . Anne Hirst's counsel is at your service Write her at Box1, 123 Eighteenth St., N e w Toronto, Ontario. Problem Drivers Americans tend to seek simple answers to complex social prob- lems on the basis of merely pass- ing a law . . This tendency was plainly at work the other day when a group of members of a special committee of the Utah Safety Council, meeting at the Capitol. recommended a number of changes in Utah's driver license laws „ • These are all questionable re- visions of Utah's driver license laws for the simple reason that they do not get at the heart of the problem. • The essence of the driver con- trol problem is not the great mass of good drivers. Most drivers are responeible. Mpst usually obey traffic laws and follow sound driving prac- tices. They make mistakes, of course. They are guilty of some violations. They do have acci- dents. But they are not dangerous, problem drivers, and they do not need specialized enforcement and 'control. Problem drivers, on the other hand, do need special.attention. And they're not getting it-or not getting enough of it-in Utah today. Far too many of them are get- ting slap-of-the-wrist punish- ment for frequent misdeeds be- cause of police or prosecutorial or judicial laxity. Far too many, despite sus- pension or revocation of the?r licenses after serious tnolatione, are receiving "reetricsed" driv- ing privileges, Far too many, despite loss of license, continue -to drive,- ttOtE. BOWL t)titEN Panted Elaine .Prather, 1 theiefete the tent. right Off the ea nerd' to .show you how _pledged. she was to be named Queen of the. tournament of loses, Find:ng -$nomp. On the g9.;4141pr It (Mount .Kilimanjaro) has been climbed many times by a large _variety of people and is no mountaineering feat, but it has its own fascination, not least of which is to find snow on the Equator, It is perhaps surprising to find this phenomenon in all three East African 'equatorial territoes les, Tanganyika Territory, Kenya and Uganda, Tanganyika takes the honour of having the high-, est mountain in Africa .and the fourteenth highest in the world„ Mount Kilimanjaro, it was first sighted by Euro- pean eyes when seen by John. Rebmann, a Church Missionary Society missionary, in 1.8.48, Next year, his more famous col- league, Ludwig Krapf, visited, what he called his "East African Alpine land." He was fascinated by its deep green forests, snow- cooled rushing streams and clear sparkling air,. It was on 3rd De- cember 1849 that he "observed two large horns or pillars, as it were, rising over an enormous mountain to the 'north-west of Kilimanjaro, covered with a white substance," These were the snow-capped peaks of Mellon and Batian of Mount Kenya, ris- ing to a height of 17,040 feet in the intense blue sky. It is strange to find that these discoveries were received with incredulity and even abuse by English geographers! It was contrary to prevailing theory to find snow-capped mountains on the Equator. Kropf and Bele., mann were discredited in many quarters even by Livingstone. They were believed in France COVERING UP - In contrast to the Bikini, this swimsuit does a good job of covering the subject - in this care, Sara Brockett, who is sampling the surf at Miami Beach. and awarded a medal by the Paris Geographical Society, for their stories renewed those strange legends which had drift- ed through the centuries con- cerning the existence of the Mountains cf the Moon, whence the River Nile was reputed to have its source. . In the tropics you get used to odd and strange things. Mount Kilimanjaro is ceretainly rio ex- ception. It is a very unusual mountain altogether, To begin with it is just below the Equator where you would least expect to find snow, ice and all the accom- panying freezing process. Yet here is the highest mountain in Africa and one of the highest in the world (19,700 ft,), And you do not have to climb in the strict eense of the word at all. True mountaineers scoff at this noble mountain mass which looks from a distance like a Christmas pud- ding with white sauce on the -top. But its strangeness is uri- (tenably fascinating, The ascent of a snow-capped mountain in the tropics is like a journey in miniature from the Equator to the pole, Front the banana groves and dense lush rein forests at the base you pase, through the various belts of vegetation until you reach the eternal snows, It should be added by way of explanation that Kilirhanjaro has two peaks, the taller Otte Mount Klbo, the lesser one Mount Mawetiti. rt IS Mount Kiho whose majestic snow-cap- ped dente arrests the eye for hundreds Of Miles around. !'suti, sand and Safari," by I. 13, Carson, The old year is practically gone; 'the New Year is almost .with us and so it is time to ex- tend to you my very best wishes of sthe season. I hope, too, that you had a most enjoyable Christmas; that it will be one more happy memory to carry .long into the new year. December 31 and January 1 are two days close together in time but worlds apart in sig- nificance. At the end of the old year inevitably we realise that a lot of things we worried about never really happened. We tried to cross many bridges before we came to them. Looking back we see how foolish we were. But, by and large, it wasn't such a bad old year, was it? But we naturally hope the New. Year will be even better. To the old year belong whatever there was of good and bad; to the New Year belon, as yet, only hope, determination and opportunities. For what? That depends on our- selves, doesn't ,it? We don't all hope for the same things; we don't all recognise opportunities,, when they arise, but we all have a certain amount of determina- tion. Oh, yes, the New Year is a wonderful time so let's greet the little fellow with a cheerful grin and make, him as welcome as we can, Might as• well, he'e going to be around for another twelve months anyway. Of course I am of necessity ahead of time in my writing. This column has to sort of pro- ject itself into space for pub- lishing requirements. So, as I write we haven't even had our Christmas and that makes- it a little awkward - in more ways than one. But we're getting there and no doubt when the New Year dawns I, too, shall be able to look back with a spirit of thankfulness for a Christmas of ' joy and gladness and look forward to a New Year that could quite easily be better than the last. As I write I know it is going to be an eventful year. In fact it is a safe bet that an years from now on in this nuclear age ore bound to be- eventful. Quite apart from world affairs we may see a lot of changes in various localities. There are bound to be, with so much road work in progress, mushroom towns, sub- divisions and shopping centres. Time was when a faxen\ was a farm and likely to be for years to come. It might change owner- ship but it still remained a farm, Fields were ploughed; cattle pas- tured, pigs bred and raised, chickens up With the sun, dili- gently laying eggs as their share in Providing a living for the farmer and his family. Prides were rarely what they should be but there was a permanence about the old farm that gave the family a feeling of security, Now in the more populated areas that permatienee has all but disap- peared, Many a hundred-acre farm, which, likely as not dates back to the Crown, has now an uncertain future. In a few years time it could be e cloverleaf, gas stt,tion or maybe the site of a new factory, dbpcnding On itir location. Old buildings disap- pear, new ones come into being and each time that happens something very precious is often comple.ely lost. By that I mean the early history. Nothing is left to remind those who come 'after that they are travelling roads that were once Indian trails, and later the early roads of the pioneers - those valiant souls who braved wind, weather. and sickness to wrest a living from the soil and to pave the way for generations to come. Progress is desirable and inevitable but it seems to me every township should do something to nreserve its own history. There should be a printed pamphlet available at cost to all those who are interested - and certainly for ' use in the schools. It need not be elaborate - just an outline of the district, the names of its first settlers;s the location of old mills, churches, taverns and pioneer industries. So much is being lost. Even now construction has al- ready started on a new bridge on No. 5 Highway in Trafalgar Township - at one time called Dundas Street, or sometimes Governor's Road, as it was originally intended as a military road by Governor John Graves Simcoe. The bridge ,will span a huge ravine. Motorists will S LLY'S SALLIES "I'm going honie to Mother to learn how to cook." Land of Potriqr;hs . If we draw a line from EgYpt through the Mediterranean lands of Palestine and Syria, the; following the Tigris and Euph- rates, through Mesopotamia to the Persian gulf, the result is an unmistakable crescent, Four thousand years ago this mighty semicircle around the Arabian Desert, which is called the ".Fertile Crescent", embraced a multiplicity of civilizations ly- ing side by side like a lustrous string of pearls, Rays of light streamed out from, them into the surrounding darkness of mankind, Here lay the center of civilization from the Stone Age tight up to the golden age of Greco-Roman culture. About 2000 B.C., the farther we look beyond the ,Fertile Crescent, the deeper grows the darkness, and signs of civiliza- tion and: culture decrease. But over the eastern Mediterranean, already a light is shining. It is the heyday of the Minoan kings of Crete, founders of the first sea power known to history In the Fertile Crescent and to Egypt . . cultured and highly developed civilizations jostled each other in colorful and be- wildered array, Peace and .prosperity must have reigned in this world of Nile, Euphrates, and Tigris, for we have never yet discovered an inscription dating from this period that records any lieges' scale warlike activities. Then suddenly from the heart of this great Fertile Crescent, from the sandy sterile wastes, of the Arabian desert whose shores are lashed by the waters of the Indian Ocean, there burst in violent assaults on the north, on the northwest, on Mesopo- tamia, Syria, and Palestine a horde of nomadic tribes ,of Semitic stock. In endless waves these Amorites, 'Westerners" as their name implies, surged against the kingdoms of the Fertile Cerscent. The empire of the kings of Sumer and Akkad collapsed in 1960 B.C, under their irre- sistible attack . . Meanwhile one of these tribes of Semitic nomads was destined 'to be of fateful' significance for millions upon millions througe- out the world tip to the , present day. It veep a little grbup, per- haps onlifea: family,, as unknown and unireportant as a tiny grain of sand in a desert storm: the family of:Abraham, forefather of the patriarchs . . .- "Now the Lord had said unto Abram, get thee outof thy country, and from thy icindred, and from thy father's house, unto a land that I will shew thee. (Gen. 12;1.)" The' country of which the Bible is speaking in this case is Haran. Terah, his son Abram, his daughter in law Satai, and' drive over it, as they do over the present bridge, and few will lrnow that down in the ravine there was once a thriving pioneer village called "Proud- foot s Hollow", Heye William Lyon Mackenzie is said to have hidden and evaded his pursuers after the disastrous Battle of Montgomery's Tavern. The Tril- ler residence where he once lay hidden in the attic while soldiers played cards on the ground floor, still stands overlooking the ravine. Dundas Street is steeped in history and Proudfoot Hollow ehould certainly be given recog- nition as, an historic site before its history is completely for- gotten, Already much has been lost. One of the earliest post offices - "Postville" was re- cently demolished and a gas sta- tion erected on the site. Cars are now serviced where the Stage Coach changed horses be- fore making the, perilous journey through ProudfoOt Modern' progress speaks for it- self; History depends •upon • us for its preservation. Shall we sit back - and let the past be mote • and more obliterated? Surely riot: his grandson Lot 11*d there, Sien, 1.1:31,) What was actually meant by Horan was until recently almost .entirely unknown, We knew nothing of its eary history, All the old Babylonian docurneots. were silent about the middle reaches of the Euphrates, 'Mese, pctainia, the land between the rivers, where Baran once stood, A chance find led to eXcaYa, tions in. 1903„ which here also. gave rise to a great and exciting discoyery end added consider- ably to our knowledge, They brought the Haran of the Bible and the kind of life lived by the patriarchs quite unexpected- ly into .a historical context, .-.From "The Bible as History," by Werner Keller, translated by William Neil, Bonus For Weight The eldest of the 12 regular sediarii, the plodding men who bear 'the Pope in his portable throne, is Pio D'Eusebics a gray- ing, 52-year-oId Romans One of the great honors which came re- cently to Signor D'Ensebio and leis colleagues' was to- carry Pope John XXIII from the Sistine' Chapel to St. Peter's and back again,. a circuitous trip' of nearly une-half mile, on the occasion of the coronation. 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