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MISS AMERICA 1959 — Mary Ann Mobley, relaxes in Atlantic
City after winning the Miss America title. The 21-year-old
college senior, who wowed contest judges the' night of the'
final judging with a jazzy dance routine, hopes• to be -in a
Broadway musical comedy some day.
"Pear Anne Hirst; After wait-
ing three long years my VatIO0
and I planned to marry at
Christmas, but two months ago
his father died, leaving A.
Meager provision for his
which surprised them •all—they
had .thou,ght, him comfortably
off, His 'y011ilger brothers and.
his sisters are still in school',
What a blow to our plans!
"My fiance feels his first ob,
ligation is to take care of his
mother and the family, and I
have to agree. He makes a very
good s.alany which would have
been adequate for us, but of
course they will need most of it
now,
"We have talked everything
over—and he thinks we should.
break our engagement, but still
see each other. •
"If we break up I do not
think I could bear seeing him,
knowing it may be several years
before' we can merry. I have
held a good position for seven
years, and I wouldn't mind
keeping it; but I am not getting
any younger, and we both want
children.
"I .applaud his loyalty, but
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when I think of my own future
wonder whether I should wait
indefinitely? DISTRESSIW"
* Unless you are prepared to
* live with your fiance's family
* (and no matter how much
* you like them, it would pre-
* sent Problems) I agree with.
* you.
* What other solution is
* there? If you saw him reg-
* ularly you would wear your
* heart out with longing, and
* the strain could result in
* emotional collapse. You have
* to earn your own living, and
* must not take chances with
* your health. No matter how
* cruel the wrench, I think your
4` decision is the only practical
* one you can make.
* You emphasize that his bre-
* tilers and sisters are devoted
* to him. When they learn he
* has had, to break the engage-
* ment, the older boy may want
• to start helping out earlier
* than he expected. This, how-
* ever, you cannot count on.
* Don't sit back sand resign
* youself to maidenhood, though.
* Look up your former friends,
* cultivate 'them, Dating the
* men you used to know will
* divert you and keep your so-
* cial life refreshing. This you
* need to carry you on, so don't
* let any false sense of loyalty
* deter you.
* One cannot, thank goodness,
* anticipate the future. Marry-
* Mg your fiancee may be pos-
* sible earlier than you think
* today. Meantime, refuse to
* bury yourself and mourn your
* fate. * *
SOLDIER'S LETTERS STOP
"Dear Anne Hirst: My boy
friend and I had an understand-
ing that when he comes back
from his service we would be
married. But he has been gone
four months, and seems to have
stopped writing me altogether.
"I am sick from worrying.
"Shall I keep on writing? Do
you suppose he has found some-
one else he's fallen in love with?
LOVING AND WORRIED"
Many a soldier cannot find
* time to write his girl as often
* as he'd like to. Besides, sol-
• diers are frequently moved
* from place to place without
* notice, and letters are some-
* times lost in the mail or late
* reaching their destination.
• You do not say how often
o your young man wrote be-
* fore he ceased to; wait a bit
* longer, but send your own
* letters through. Mention that
* his are not coming as they
* did, but'you are trying not to
* worry.
* Even when he is in love,
• many a young man dislikes.
o writing to his girl and is apt
• to postpone it unduly.
* Some men in service do
o meet other girls at service
* dances and other affairs, but •-
•,,dotti cotasider this idea un-
*4' less you find, later that it, is .
• true.
o Cheer up! Leis "of other
* girls are wondering these
* days, too, but this is all a part
* of loving a soldier.'
• e •
llf your plans for the fu-
ture must be postponed, be
a good sport. about it and
adjust youiself as best yOu
can. Telling Anne Hirst
about it can relieve the
burden, and often she can
suggest practical ideas to
light the way. . . Write her
at Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St.,
New Toronto, Ont.
Wonders will never cease. We
actually f ound a repair 'man
who was willing to work on a
Saturday , . . and a plumber at
that. We were having trouble
with our kitchen sink.. The wa-
ter became slower and slower in'
draining away and , finally quit
running' entirely. Partner un-
screwed goose necks and T-
pipes, worried away with wire
cleaners and solvents. but with-
out any appreciable, improve-
ment. Finally he said, 'You'd
better look through the phone
book and see if you can locate
a plumber. If we contact some-
one today maybe we can gpt
him to come first thing Monday':
morning." Not haying ,,been in
this district Very long we natur-,
ally don't know whom to con-
tact when it comes to repair
men. The best. thing. I could do
was thumb through the. "yellow
pages" and pick 'out names at
random. The first one didn't•an-
swer; the second had had his,
phone disconnected; the third
was answered by a woman who
said she would have, her broL
ther call when came But
we were not too hopeful. The
best we could "do was wait. The
man didn't 'phone at all — he
came instead, ready and willing
to get on with the job: The
trouble was soon located and
thirty feet of 'straight pipe
cleaned out; He told us we had
probably been too' sparing with
the water, not letting.enough go,
down the sink_to ,keep
ed. We knew he was 'right be-
cause every day we Put the dish
water in a pail and used it to
water the garden to"" sava
drawing fresh, water from the
well. So naturally the sink
wasn't •getting properly flushed.
To prevent further trouble the
dumber told us to close the sink
trap once a week, fill the sink
-full of water, clean and hot,
Then open the trap, and let the
water go suddenly, He said
force, combined with the hot
vtater, should carry away any
deposits left in the .pipe. It
sounds like good advice so
am passing the 'infOrmation
along for what it may be worth.
But' pliirribing trouble wasn't
our worst experience last week.
No, indeed. I was On my way
down to Port Credit, tried to
stop at the first stop sign and
my brake went right to the
floor. J had often
this
I'd of
brakes falling but this Was My
first eXperiepcd. It gives one a
'horrible; helpless and terrifying
feelleg, I hope to heaven it
never happens again. Fortirti-
attly "I was on a quiet read:
Even ph I had to driVe with one
hand on the emergencY brake
Ana the,, 'Other on the wheel. I
wouldn't have had tee much
tremble ekcept that the children
were just pining out or Scheel
and, the road seethed to be teeth,
frig' with, bikers and, first grad-
ers, wandering front bile side ot,
the road to the other. By the
time I got to the garage near
home, I was in. a bath of pers-
piration. Incidentally I met a
police cruiser, on, the way but
apparently 'my, predicament ;was
not obvious to II i m. It was,
ironic I should run into serious
trouble on the very eve of the
n e w traffic' law enforcements
for the prevention of highway
'accidents.
Now what else happened last
week? Oh yes, .Partner e n,t
twice to the Exhibition. I didn't
go any more I was getting
all, the excitement I 'wanted at
home. One day Partner went
down on the bus; .the next time
,* 'with Bob arid Joy to -see the
air show. They specially wanted
to see the -Arrow but as yeti
probably know the Arrow did
not appear. They were so dis-
appointed. While they • were
' away I, took care of Ross who
wasn't too happy when he saw
Mummy and.Daddy drive ,away
„without 'hirri. Happily_ baby fears
and tears are soon -forgotten and
ir a , little while "lie was playing
around 'With Ditto and the
puppy.
That same puppy giveS me
plenty of exercise around the
block twice a day and then
walking over our acre lot in
search of Mushropms.
We generally get enough for
supper every day — and, we're
still alive to tell the tale.
In between sessions with the
car, plumbing, h'ea't and humi-
dity -- and the puppy.— I haire
been trying-to houseclean, ready
"for a W.I. .meeting that. is to
be held here next week. We
have also been refiniShini some
of our old furniture but 'if we
'hadn't' had 'a deadline for the
meeting it probably wouldn't
have been, done yet. Partner
made two, night tables from odds
and en& of furniture and for
one dresser 'he took the mirror
cut of the fram'e and hung it on
the' walk -Then I -enamelled the
dresser to blend in with the
Vilas beds. The drester in our
Mom is solid oak so on pit 1
did a refinishing job with flat
varnish stain and h a v'e been
quite pleased with. the result.
Honest to ,goodness it. is,. much
More fun making over what
ou've got around than it is
going out and btlYing- new 'stuff
=just for the sake of being
Modern. Why net date to be dif,
ferent't I find it very, very bor-
ing to go into One hOuSe after
another and find 'So many of
them' with- the same type of fur-,
titure; window drapes froin core
her to corner and broadloom
from wall to wall. Like that old
English music hall song about
the whole family Sleeping in One
bed "end when Father said
'Turn' we all hated.°
iSSLIE 10Mi,
Groom, Forgot
Wedding Ring
shone hi' the eyes 01
the lovely Italian girl as, helped
by her two bridesmaids, she put
on her smart wedding costume,
them adc ed the .finishing_ touches
to her make-up.
She looked exquisite, and her
bridesmaids told her so,
Pr/on't forget your key. You'll
be coining back.tes•tiles%11,0,14.Se to,-.ti
change before going away,"' onp'
of them reminded her, She pick-
ed up the key and slipped it in-
to her pocket
As 'they drove to the chureh,
the bride's- heart-beat-faster In
a very short time now, she and
the young professor she loved
would be uttering their vows,
and he would slip on to -her
.finger the ring they had chosen
with-so much care hi- a _Milan
jeweller's shop some weeks
earlier. -•
"Hope Luigi hasn't forgotten
the date,"'she said 'to her com-
panions when they neared the
church. It was a joking refer-
ence to her young man's occa-
sional absent-mindedness. She
did not really believe he would
forget.
She was right. He was there,
looking spruce, but a little har-
assed, because he had got up
rather later than he intended
and had had to dash to the
church.
A "stag party" the preyious
night had made him sleep late.
All went well until the priest
asked the bridegroom to place
the ring on the girl's finger. He
fumbled in his waistcoat pocket
for it, for he had no best man
to carry it ' for him.
It was not there! He felt in
the other pocket—all his pock-
ets. Still no ring. Like a' flash,
she thought of the key in her
pocket and took 'it out unob-
trustively. and gave it to him.
"Use this," she whispered.
,"It's all right, dear. Don't
worry."
Using the loOp of the key as
a ring, he slid it'on to her fin-
ger < under the astonished- eyes
of the priest. Nobody elsein the
church' was near enough to see
what was happening.
But the bride well knew that
anything in the form of a circle
is legal' 'substitute for a wedding
ring in most countries — and her
presence of mind prevented an
$AA-BER — PrePiaring for' the .
Fair, pretty Anila' Solite', 16,
giVes this'Dorsef sheep 'the latest
:coiffure.
embarrassing situation from de,
veloping.
As they were signing the reg-
ister—the bride having, slipped
the key back into her pocket
the bridegroom had an inspire,
tion. He felt in, the turn-ups of
his trousers and found the miss-
ing ring. It must have fallen
there before he got his taxi to
the church,
There are many people like
that resourceful bride who
know how to keep cool in a sud-
,"den emergency. ,prQs0wq of
A• mind is a most valuable asset
when things go wrong.
Consider the dilemma of an-
other wedding couple, in Lon,
don not long ago. Guests turned
up for their wedding at a fash-
ionable London church — she
was a beautiful air hostess, be
a U.S. airline supervisor, But
they were told at the door by
ushers: "Sorry the wedding has
been cancelled. There was a
lost-minute hitch."
Yet, although the ceremony
was OFF, the wedding reception
went ON as planned—thanks to
the couple's swift decision not
to disappoint their friends.
, The hitch had been a technical
one over residential qualifice-t,
tions, so the couple at once
made alternative plans to be
wed by special licence at a reg-
ister office next day.
'Then they went to the hotel
reception, where a hundred
guests toasted them, although
they were not yet married. The
bride wore her bridal gown,
stood on tip-toe to kiss her fi-
ance and posed for pictures
with her maid of honour and
four little pink-sashed brides-
. maids.
After the reception, the
groom-to-be went to stay the
night at the home of his best
man, while his bride remained
in her room at the hotel.
But it isn't only at weddings
that awkward situations calling
for quick decisions arise.
A rumour once circulated a
town that a bank had gone
broke. Hundreds of anxious de-
positors flocked to the bank's
head office. It seemed that seri-
ous trouble was coming, for the
crowd began to get out of hand.
The manager kept his head.
He knew that something' had to
be done at once to restore confi-
dence in the bank,
Stopped A Riot
Hurriedly, he instructed his
staff to have all available money
in the bank.brought up and de-
posited in the windows. The
sight of so many banknotes,
such great piles of coins, had an
immediate quietening effect on
the people. -They dispersed in
orderly fashion.
The manager sighed with re-
lief. His presence of mind, the
police told him, had saved What
might have been 'an ugly riot.
Every actor can tell a story
of an aWkWard moment on the
stage. One Who, was playing in
'a melodrama some years ago
told me: - '
"Therlieroihe and myself were
supposed td be trapped, in a tur-
ret chan3ber, with every door
locked and barred on the out-
side," an a bOmb underneath
whier. WAS ""thiled- to eXplhde 'in
five minutes.
"The audiende were breath-
less with exeiteinent." I made a
dash, towards one.'of the doors
to try to break it down.. To my
annoyance, I found it wide
open, owing, to p =mistake by, a
stage-hand.. I had to 'think fast.
Then I had an inspiration:
"Seizing- my sweetheart bythe
arm, I dragged her througk;the
'open door Shouting, ."Thank
Heavens! A'way of escape!'
"Then I dashed back on stage
• with her, crying with a wail of
agony: 'No,- the, outer door is
fastened. We are "
Another man's ability to. make
a,split-second decision saved his
life recently. He fell acciden-
tally between the lines at a
London Underground Station.
A train- WO alineit on .him, so
he calmly folded his arms
above his head, „tucked his feet
in, and• kept quite still. The
train passed ,over, him, leaving
him unhurt.
Ostrich Waltz
Amazes. Ohserver
"I liked the clean sparkle -of
the morning air just outside 4.0,
hannesburg and often got up
early to take walks, On one of
these walks when. I was Some
distance from my hotel, I no,
ticed a movement far away on
the veld;" writes Cecile de
in her autobiography,.
"Bright Weft," ''from a distanee
it appeared to be blown grass.
But as I got nearer, I saw 04
there were two, long lines, run-
ning parallel to each other, of
what I thought were tall animals.
jumping up and, down,"
As Miss de Banke got closer.
she saw that the "animals" were,
ostriches. The birds were (Irasin
up in two long lines facing each.
other,, those on one side being
light in colour and those facing
them. dark, with red markings
down the front of their legs.
Both lines danced up and
down, the dark birds occasion-
ally jostling one another and
changing places, as though they
wished to get opposite one par-
ticular bird. When this was ac,
complished„ the pair would move
round each other with a waltz-
ing movement and then go off
together across the veld..
"Later I was told that I had
seen the mating . dance of the
ostriches and that no one else
who had' gone near enough to
see the sight had ever lived to
describe' it, He explained that.
with one powerful kick the red,
marked male ostriches had been
known to disembowel horses and
to kill men with one blow," says
the author.
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