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The Brussels Post, 1958-03-05, Page 6Modern ,:y .., tte erva Lee . „. oi • • .. Q. What' amount o tilt to it etotontary to. gtve to A .J)011107' 1.q11.111:::111110 .R. SIT.A.41111.4 to opep hotel plena A.. Not lees than twenty-five Q, Is there any 5peciat molting customary on a crake to he weed et en engagesuent party? A, A traditionally favorite. decoration Is the first names of the bride-elect and her fiance_ enclosed in a heart, Q. When a girl 35 with her escort at a table in a nightclub, and site wishes to leave to go to the powder room, what is the proper thing for her to sgy? A. "Will you excuse me," is sufficient, Q. I know it .is not is "roost," but If a girl -wishes to give her fiance an. engagement gift, what should it be? - A. Usually some piece of jewellery — cuff links, key chain, tie clasp, cigarette case, or lighter, Four-Season Style PRINTED PATI'ERN Pep up your wardrobe and your spirits with 'this ,pretty, easy-sew style that has a sweet- heart neck in front,' V - back. Choose a drip - dry cotton that doesn't need ironing—enjoer this. Printed Pattern all year around. Printed Pattern 4730: Misses' Seles .12ee14, 16, 18, 20. Size .16 takes 5% yards 35-inch. Printed directions 'on each pattern part. Easier, accurate. Send FORTY CENTS (400 (stanips cannot be accepted, use postal note for safety) for this pattern. Please print plainly SIZE, NAME, ADDRESS, STYLE NUMBER. Send order to ANNE ADAMS, Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St., Neee Toronto, Ont. tee :mg..- • 4730 SIZES 12-20 AN NE 141 ?OWL Foorati Colbul4e1" F. Kick. fro. The. Panto Saved fling's Life • a; eonse.. k. w. .. . ,, ... .. IT'S THE SAME SUN-.-Establishing their own beachheads, Kay Kayse, left, and Pat Johnson indicate a difference of opinion with regard to headgear at Cyprus Gardens. Kay, a Florida girl, prefers a sweeping sombrero to keep the sun away. While Pat, from California, wears practically no hat at all, "Doe Anne West: I am a very confused woman of 51, who for three years has been a dicontent- ed widow, feeling that life wee ill behind are. Then I met a man my own age, and. it is really like a dream come true, We have been seeing each other censtant- ly for over a year, and our love end compatibility increase all the time. He never goes anywhere without me, and we are so con- tented just to be together that that is all we ask , "So, you answer, why don't you get married? "No money, "He is a bachelor, with a small laconic that isn't enough to sup- pert the two of us. For three Years he hasn't been able to continue his profession (a chem- ist) because he cannot be on his feet so constantly; otherwise his health is perfect, as is mine, He owns his mother's home, and is reluctant to sell. (I have my own house.) I can get along on the pension my husband left, but if ply emergency came along we vniuld be in a bad spot. "We are both church members (that is where we met) and have a lot, of good friends, but we should not like to confide our circumstances to anybody. "Shall we chance getting mar- ried? Or try to forget? MISERABLE" ALWAYS A WAY * I prefer always to advise * readers to do what they want * to do — but one must be prac- * tical, Have you ever worked? " Had any business training? * Many a woman your age is Levey Centrepiece People have .beetCpaying tent .eheee time immeriffkial. But in. the past $01ne tenants were. lucky; they didn't have to pay , cash. 'Por 'example, the ancient family of de la- 'tare received an estate from the king on con- dition that they _Supervised the large hand of women camp fol- lowers who always accompanied the king's retainers when. the court travelled about the coun- tryside, Even stranger was the French knight who fought beside his king in a battle against . the Turks, The king was" unhorsed and lay on the ground, help- less in his heavy armour. At that iminent, an .enemy trooper aimed a spear at the monarch. The knight saw the danger. He gave the king a tre mendous kick from behind which. rolled him clear of the spear. After the battle, the king re- warded the knight with .a sum of money and an estate in La Vendee rent free. .Once a year, the knight used to held a feast at * which he solemnly went through the motions of kicking, to show his gratitude to the revel landlord. Actually, there are still some strange rents paid, even in 1958. Down in Cornwall, for example, ene'old woman lives in a cottage in return for cleaning her land- lord's windows once.a week, The agreement was formally drawn up by a solicitor near Falmouth, and the clauses included one whereby the windows must be cleaned after every south-east- erly gale becaues then the spray comes oven' the cliff. 1 In the same county, 'a retired sailor occupies a one-roomed shack in return for. a very strange rent indeed. His job is to awake his landlord — who lives across the way by- ring- ing the front door bell at five o'clock every morning. . No agreement was signed for this deal which was made at the village pub, in the presence of witnesses. They Go For Pins in A Big Way The Japanese are a highly emotional people, they love to take pills, and they like to tate Western customs, Those factors create a rich market for tranquilizers, Last week Tolgo'a Welfare lqinistry reported that 1 111957tle Japanese wept . V0,tralicv,odcutyeti the tune of $3,5 million for meprobamate alone. They were buying tranki without prescrip- tion at any handy drugstore, and swallowing them under the nerve-racking prodding of a hypertonic advertising campaign,. The trahki rage struck Japan with typhoon force in the fall of 1056, when the U.S 's Lederle Laboratories j o i n e d Takeda Pharmaceutical in a fifty-fifty deal to set up Lederle Ltd. a5 an outlet for rneprobarnate (best known in the U.S. by its orig. inal brand name, Miltown). But no patent claim had been filed, and the vacuum was quickly filled by ,Tapares highly competi- tiye drugmakers — concentrated on a narrow street called. Dosho- machl in Osaka, around a shrine of Yakuoshin (an ancient god of drugs). By December, Daiichi Seiyaku was on the market with its own brand of meprobamate, called Atraxin. Lederle Ltd. put out Miltown. Takeda competed with its owe corporate offshoot by pushing Harmonin, Daiichi Se.iyaku (meaning No, 1 drug company) ran half-page ads showing men and women with agonized faces, clutching swollen heads and moaning for Atraxin. Daiichi and competitors put up billboards at Tokyo's busiest intersections, where-stall- ed motorists and scared-running pedestrians were urged to help themselves to "cope" by_ taking a pill. There was even a sugges- tion (eventually dropped) that similar ads 'be placed at railroad crossings, bridges and yokel-JO craters, the meccas of the sui- cide-minded, (Several attempts to commit suicide with overdoses of eranteuilizers have failed.) Tranki pills "have proved espe- cially popular with students cramming to pass the tough ex- ams for government jobs. There are already 15 brand names under which meproba- mate is being sold, ,with appli- cations pending for 65 more. Atraxin, leads the field with 1957 sales of $1,230,000; next comes Harmonin, then Equanil;' the old original Miltown is 'fourth. It is priced at ten tablets for 83c:, most home-grown Japanese brands are twelve tablets for 56c, but they are only half as potent. Osaka manufacturers have tried to convince consumers that "because Japanese a r e entailer and weigh less than Westerners, they need only a half-size traelei.e. Then, working both sides el, the street, they bland, urge buyets to take two tabletS, three or fi3tir 'times -a' day. Some-go so" fares to say, "Take' as many 'as you, want, any time. you .haveeworriee." —FrOtn Time, Give a woman an inch and she'll immediately start re- ducing. '0 holding down a job to who * never believed :she could find • one, Why don't you try? Visit * a few employment agencies' * and ask their advice; they may * have ideas that have not Oc- * curved to you. Also, follow the 4' newspaper want acts daily. * Are you a good cook? Is * there a neighborhood demand * for homemade cakes, desserts, * and other ready-to-serve dishes * you can prepare? Your Wo- * Man's Exchange, or a similar * group, can tell you. * Perhaps this good man can * find a part-time job that will * not overtax his strength, (A * talk with his physician will be * helpful.) More and more ern- * players nowadays are conscious * of the needs of the partially * disabled, and more willing to * try them out. If you decide' * to marry, the sale of his home * or yours would provide a nest- * egg against the future. * Don't be'self-conscious about * money. Let all your friends * know you want to augment * your income. (The lack of * money is one of the most popu- * lac conversation topics every- * where today.) Many couples * are living on an income they * would have laughed at a dec- * ade ago, They have lowered * their standards, true; but they * believe in themselves and * each other and have enough * love and understanding to be, * as you two .are, happy in just * being together, * Attack the problem with all * your energies, and leave no * field unexplored. With courage * and your, native intelligence, * you' may' be amazed how soon * you both succeed. I hope so. It * is a shame that two nice people * so well suited should not be * together. Good luck! * GOSSIP HURTS "Dear Anne Hirst: For four years I've had two girl friends who kthought were as loyal as I've been. Now they are telling a cockeyed story pf my dating a married man, and they have some other pupils believing it, As though I would stoop to such a thing! "I am 16, and boys have always liked me, too. This is hurting me badly. Nothing I can say has any effect. "I want and I need the friend- ship of my classmates. How can I regain it? Forget these false friends, and try to find others I can trust? NETTIE" * It is usually wise to ignore * jealous gossip and show by * your discreet manner that you * are above such conduct. But * this tale could affect your repu- * tation among too many other * girls. I think you should tell * your parents. * If the girls have no basis for * the story, they should be made * to admit it, and apologize to * all those who have heard it. * I suggest that your mother * call on their parents and see * that justice is done. When two compatible people have faith in each other, there is almost no limit to what they can accomplish together. If you are concerned about Your future, ask Ann Hirst's oeinion. Address her at Box 1, le3 Eiehteenth St. New Toronto, Ont, reafte,Whibaa PAPER MATE In Columbus, Ohio, Gertrude Hill asked the Citizen and the Dispatch to withhold, listing of her filing for divorce, because she was eeheduled to deliver a lecture to a church group on "Family 'Life." • weather too, with a mild earth- quake thrown in for geed mea- sure. On 'gee whole, heme seems a pretty good place° to' us,What do you thilikf hard it Was' to keep the house warm 'without a ,furnace, and concluded by saying they were expecting baby chicks early in March! The roughest month of the winter in our estimation. In summer - we know the air and scenery is lovely in Dufferin county and it is probably a good place 'to be` in •winter too—on farms where the owners are in their prime and possibly have every convenience, but we can- not see that it is a favourable location for a couple getting on in years. We certainly couldn't take it. Yesterday was quite a happy occasion for us. Our children and grandchildren had a dinner for us in honour of our 40th Wedding Anniversary. Just a family affair but quite a cele- bration. Forty years ago we couldn't foresee that a day would come when we would have the joy of celebrating our marriage with a married daugh- ter and her lensband and a mar- ried son and his wife, plus four small grandsons . . . three walk- ing and one only four months old. Dee had gone to a lot of trouble—there was a nice din- ner, anniversary cake and a bou- quet of lovely red carnations —carnations like Partner gave me forty years ago, The little boys couldn't quite understand what the party was all about but they were all well and en- joying it anyway. Eddie is the star performer when it comes to mischief but he has such a roguish way with him that ev- eryone loves him. Ross is run- ning a close second for getting into things. Dave, of course, it quite a little man—after all he is four years- old ,and goes to nursery school! Jerry is the "good" baby---laughs and coos at everyone who comes around, It was a.very cold day—zero arouhd here—but the roads were good and the car warm so it didn't seehi to matter. We cer- tainly don't envy our friends in Florida. Some people have al-. ready borne home but we haere neighbours who rented their house furnished fee four months, They are really stud', whether they like it Or not. And Parte ner's brother flew to England last Sunday for' a couple of weeks. He' landed into rough Whatever the weather in our particular locality — yours and mine — there is no reason to assume it will be the same twenty miles away. Or even less. One day Partner and I went to see Johnny, whose farm is only ten miles from here, It might have been fifty. Far more snow and icy roads. We found Johnny very busy — and very glad to be alive. He almost wasn't. It's the same old story. He had a registered Holstein bull. "No need to be afraid of him," John- ny used to say, "he'll never hurt anyone. He's,:eo quiet I can clean out his stale and work around him like he was an old cow." Than came a day when it was necessary to let the bull out into the barnyard, Suddenly, without warning, the bull turn- ed on him. It was only because Johnny . was able to get behind a huge post in the • barnyard that the bull missed .him on the, first lunge, Fortunately an iron crowbar was within reach and Johnny used it to beat the bull over the head, and then, some- how or other, he managed to get back to the safety of the cow stable. Johnny.. is young and strong and by good luck was able to deal with the situation. But what chance would an older, less agile man have had under similar circumstances? Farmers have been warned time and time again never to trust a bull. But in many cases the bull has been raised from a calf and the farmer and his son, or hired help, think they know all the animal's moods and fancies. The outcome isn't always as fortu- nate ,as it was in Johnny's ease. Johnny, thanks be, is still alive —it's the bull that's dead. Al- though he was a registered, well-bred animal he was sent to the stockyards, Well, I visited in quite a dif- ferent locality than this last week. I spent two days with friends in Newmarket. I went by bus, It was fine when I left here, and in Toronto. *But by the time the bus reached Rich- mond Hill it was storming like a young blizzard, The same at Newmarket. Next morning there was a four-foot snowdrift cov- ering people's lawns and every- one was out shovelling a path for the postman. My friends used to be farmers but now they have a small' store and a nice little five-roomed house, cosy,• compact and convenient, They used to hanker for a Stone house in the country, with a small acreage but now, being past middle life, they are -content with a house and busi4ess that givee them niaXiinuen rettune With a minimum of effort, That is their choice, Here le a horse Of another 'dolour. When I got home I found a letter foe tie from, Deffethe county—Otitetio't snowbelt It told of huge delete; of shcieellirig h path, to the barn every enorninge-and then haV- ing the path 1111 in within an hour of two; of how glad they'll be When winter is over; he* Elegant centrepiece for a din- ner table 1 A graceful swan crocheted in pineapple design — fill it with fruit or flowers. Pattern 581: Crochet directions for swan centrepiece; body about 12x61/2 inches, Use heavy jiffy cotton — starch stiffly. Send THIRTY - FIVE CENTS) ',stamps cannot be accepted, use postal note for safety) for this pattern to Laura Wheeler, Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St., New Tor- onto, Ont. Print plainly PAT- TERN NUMBER, your NAME and ADDRESS. As a bonus, TWO complete patterns are printed right in our LeeURA WHEELER Needlecraft Hoek. Dozens of other designs you'll want to order — easy, fas- cinating handwork for yourselti, your home, gifts, bazaar items, Send 25 cents for your copy to thee book today! ISSUE 10 1958. CELL OUT Three white men serving long- term sentences in the 13wana Mkubwa prison in Northern Rhodesia used the prison as a base for operations while they went out at night, breaking into jewellery stores and other bus- iness premises. They were each sentenced to two years' additional imprison- ment after the judge was told that one forgot the key to the prison front door one night and so they were locked out and couldn't get back to their cells If it were not for this momentary lapse they might still have been at it, the court was told. AMBITIOUS-Rita Hayworth, for many years the most glamoroui of Hollywood's glamor queens, is hoping to start a whole new career as a serious dramatic actress. The "Love Goddess" of the 1 9 40's takes off for the new stardom in a highly emo- tional role in the forthcoming screen version of the stage hit "Separate Tables", Photo shows her as "Salome" in 1953, tt-.1tM OF A kif46,--Ceteloratirig their 1 Sth hirt:hday, the -KIffers quadruplets ate till eitillee at Mei, 'heeled Zwolle„ Holland. The qyads, from lefto, ctre Rini, Dorothee, Elly arid Hence Pooch's 'hafted', is Jacky. • 'We need itiore There's no :room In theaii to Sae iriy libitorial -Math" FACES Alt) ItEt—Abpropilute ly past as rritieli a part of the the way -Abbe Lune 'and Pahl relic sing for rum in u ritiVe facial expr'ess'ions are cippardel'1, fcloiWork, lud.jind ValentIne go at it. They were retieieel, "Obi topiciin"4 • , S eeeeesee''-fee4s„<4.--eeerese4.4 FAR Gweacl..ottryz P. Cl.exice seeeeeaeNee a. 0a3e"'!!! 1•".7 is