The Brussels Post, 1957-10-09, Page 6GETTING' AR'EA:RLY STAR-gtister Gidlund, 14, seems to be
qUite:'pleated'v:rifh the unusual position he enjoys pt the Black -
beg Seccincl'ary ,Sweden. He's the only
boy in 'his-claa.tiKiliter, ;who plops to become a diplomat when
he grows up, will .Probaloly have an opportunity to utilize hit'
n diplorntic". talents when dealing with 30. girl classmates. •
Gwen-clol-inz P. Ctaxice.
Modern i .
.atiquette . .
•
A. Certainly not! Since it is
not good form to be seen using
a toothpick in public, they do
not have any place on the table.
Q. What are some suggestions
for appetizers at a cocktail
party?
A. Simplest, of course, are
peanuts, olives, pretzels, and
cheese crackers. If you want to
be more elaborate, you can serve
small sandwiches of various
kinds — and the modern cook-
books are full of suggestions on
this.
Q. Would it be all right for
my husband to wear a brown
business suit to a late afternoon
wedding, since he is not a mem-
ber of the wedding party?
A, This would be quite proper.
Q. What is the difference be-
tween a formal and informal
tea?
A. The decorations of the in-
formal tea are not so elaborate
and the refreshments are more
simple, The hostess at an in-
formal tea mingles with her
guests and does not remain at
the door to greet each new-
comer.
by „Roberta lo pe
, Is it true that women are
shaking 'hands more than they
formerly did? tA0
A. Although society still toes
not require it, women are snak—
ing hands more than they used
to. And I'm all in favor of it.
Nothing can take the place of,
a 'sincere handclasp when me6-f--
ing a'Aridnd dr acknowledging':
an introduction,
Q. Should. birth , announa--,
meats be mailed to everyone,
including those whom you have
already told over the telephone?
A. No; only to friends and •
relatives. wham you have not
told.
Q. Should toothpicks be placed'
on the dinner table?
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601
HOLDOVER—A glorious veteran of motet' racing, this 55-year-
old De Dion auto, winner of the 1008 Paris-Madrid race, gel's
ready far another go on the famous Monett- frock al Maned.
Italy. With Frenchman Premets Rene Ville at the wheel, the
ancient rater covered More than 80 lops of the .21/2-Mile courso
cis tdrt dverage speed of 51 M.p.h. Even being designated No.
13 didn't Seern to daunt the old-timer which cared out of the
two-hour ordeal at Monza in perfect widitiort,
WI TH
PATTIES
WITH ONION SAUCE
'A trip MAZOLA 5alati•011
.3 cups peeled, sliced onions
2 bouillon cubes
• 2 cope Wing. water
2 tablespoons BENS014!S or, CANADA -
Corn tarch
cUp•cold water
'A teaspoon salt •
ire teaspoon ppelo o ipe:
1. pound mince d beet
374 lean:400e salt
HEAT MAZOLA in deep frying pan.
05 onions; cook, over medium'
heat Until deep
lsrewit, stirring well.
T.)ISOLVE boulliOn cubes in
balling water; 1,iidci
slowly to broWnecl'Onionl.
MIX BENSOFI'S or CANADA Corn '''tarcir-„Ciiith' told
Water; stir into onion mixture. •
constcintli.
•.e ,
COOK until dear and thick, st
and keep hot.
irring
itISD salt and pepperecover
et:4,1,o
epp er: t minced beef; salt 'and p -
SHAPE into six thick potties; pen fry
or broil,
AttASGE On plotter: poke sauce over Pattiei
i serve nitnedicitely,
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other meeting I went to last
r Who carne me.
week and 'of . an interest rig
to
Mrs. Ei e •4. , op ..holiday af ro Can-
. ado; •wrote' -, Head ,Office in
Toronto 'and 'asked would
tier possil3le fox' Het la 'visit an
Ontario 'branch. Mies Ethel
hafipened 'to 'give her
„enenarneeis:eie ehpught 1 would
look -.gfer her ^ ,'‘Aillieh did, I
:Wok' herfte thq,Vetch Block.
9t; which 1' am "proud to
he a eharter /theniher„, It was at
Oakville. -,,` oneof, those meet-
ings where, there was ea lot of
business with plenty of co-op-
eeation from the mergers. My
;gu,eeti vige,it n4clq very] welcome
(arid4 t ot to; her feet
and told', us how meetings
were, conducted; in .England, and
Ofe their work and activities, She
'seemed so pleased, to ',have vis-
- 'ited one or our brarich4 and we
gave her -various printed pro:
grammes to take back with her,
I hope the occasion will serve
as la_ -pleasant contact between
mother and daughter branches
of the WI. in both countries.
rlaav'e some other 'ideas along
these line's" 'but:they"' inest matt
,for another week;
-.•
41r. you Ankei.::10i'et, that
gry story Nail help some love-
gide soul to avoid the mietelty
L Made, you mey'.':Print!'S.leisk e;
„E'er, 17 *,Years I-r1)4ve lived- wait r a 'jealous husband,."1".'end each
Year .has taken I • won-
der how I have survived. If any
girl who, reads this today is ea
in love with a jeaipus,znan that
7,0'4e'lekliirgrece she Ora'. live \vita;
out him, I swear that the day
will come wheeee she „will
she had YRung. people,iton
ten think jealousy measures the
Man's devotion; I thought that,
But jealousy is born of the
sleyil,rny dears and it can ,lead
to such evil as no decent women
can foresee. - -
"My husband was even jeel.
ens of our • children and MY
women eriendel It made ine, 76, -, ~is first,' but. I
had to learn to ignore it; for any
protests only made him worse.,
E never':. consciously slid wrong,,„
but thaU, did not 'stop' his wicked
thought`s::.. :2
"My mother lived with my
father's jealousy for nearly 4Q
y44','.,}1,*.*16444 ::t..1t70b6 03163*
married I. understand - and my
.geartafather 'tried,' to, warn"her,:-
After marriage my father was
so tortured ..that today ,his mind
is a crooked 'thing... TtVe Years
Zote, Wk ear,_
Tots ,..go to bed fast when they
can pull PJ's out of this bunny.
Come morning, togs go back in
Bunny's tummy and he's a cud-
dly rabbit again.
Pattern 601: Has transfer of
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round stuffed head and ears.
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--IP,
ag0 my ,,ritethe • died, Alterally
heartbroken,
'If only thos4 who (JOnWP,'
'plate Marrying. 4 jealous person
could have a quick view of whet
iny family has,. stiffe-redi A jeale
one man is a'hideous egoist who
slanders the one he loves.,. e
As fori.1s Q1111.4e,, ,,avcl for years h I felt z.1 ..1 ,41111: ap
,een., /3.a"eindl!back 'and fork with
no prospect of escanee ,',e
"0 le e ,thing hplped:e: Ttvice. •
Since" le nianiecr I.': have ; ''',Nrrittqp
Out my troubles in detail es
though I were talkini- to• a
friend, and it has eased t h e
strain. My .habarill greve worse,
but the only important difterr,...
ence was in myself; I could not
bear the horrible" ealities, so TA,',"-
developed a fortit' de, a hidden ,-.-
,streiiig1.%,, *a t rmored Me
:againS
,q
t AVM. I do pot believe' in
divorce, and God 'eached -dawn
and helped.
ii -- "To me your corn has been
i! , a reel study in ps cholop,Se Ma-
lire. women and inn acting like'
children, hoping ou will „ap-
prove of their revel ting ways, If
efilfthe,'374" would at, the,,,,Bible
to find out right from wrong
Yes, I. woad hav4 written 'YOU
myself, but I knew whet '...i,ofii •
opinion would be and I silty, no"
need to clutter up your column.
"But I do wish that girls. at- .,
tnasted to j.ealoU.S.inen could
7 filoirre,see the, hell tbey will live
.',0 TO "A. 'FB,IEND"; I hope
-e That your .eXperieince of two
'*egeneratione„, , writs leave its,
A7mark on those who see jeal- '
.*.,ousy as a prod ,.,-a2 love. It' IS
*-inhuman and einehristian, and
* marriage= W.: - jour mother
",found) obis, - gfives it greater
' power to indulge the terrible
* force.
'', Many .readers say,' "Even if
* you cant help me, I feel bet-
* ter for writing" Confession
* relieves the soul, and often it
'' clears one's view, so they, like
* yourself, see - their situation
* more objectively . . . I appre-
* date your confidence, and
* thank you for it.
WOULD BUY HER OFF
"Dear Anne Hirst: Just a year
ago I married a widower with
three children. I have done all
anybody could do for them, but
it has been a hard job because
they were so spoiled. Now I am
expecting my own baby, and
my husband is so furious that
he tells me to leave—because
I won't have time for his kids.'
"He says I have complained
about them, and I admit it; but
he has not helped me with them
at all. He promises me a sum
of money if I will go. Honestly,
I do believe he has found some
other woman who will take over.
"I would rather not leave my
home, but what do you think
is the right thing to do?
" MARCIA"
* I hope your husband will
* come to his senses and with-
* draw his demands; they are
* cruel. If he insists, I hope
* you will not go until you have
* legal assurance of proper sup-
* port for you and your baby.
• No matter how much money
* he offers, it does not last for-
* ever. You will be wise to con-
* suit the proper authorities and
* let them handle him; without
* some protection, you might
* find yourself in need.
Of course, you do hot want
* to leave home; but your husk-
* band may make it so,unplea-
* sant that you may decide it
* is better to go.
*. * *
If you are burdened, just writ-
ing Anne Hirst about it will be
a comfort. Her eympathy and
her wisdom await you, and you
can trust her judgment and her
kindness. Address her at Box 1,
123 Eighteenth St., New Tortonto.
Royal Artist
•,reerre.- • 1 What a really "gbyal";!i
Academy Birtalu could have
it ililewat..d contributions ifrom
all 'the artists in the • .oyal c.
a4amily, a famous London rtist
remarked the other day. H was
commenting en the news that
the Duke of Edinburgh re 'An
.• from an ex:fist w• was woans pPaa'nIt ling
received some
his portrait, and has now 4dded
• paintingyte:his various
more
well
f, betre 'inherited. the talon for
ppinting of, her ,•mother, the
Duchess of. Kent. The Du' hess
r,: has been painting — and paint;,: .
ing well — since she Vas.
child.' 1
,Whenew eveesible she pent
w4 e-encrg" Painting in the gar-
tip ''of ikre laAautiful house in
'''F4P0."ffe"
Another cleVer Royal artist is
the Duchess of Gloucester who,
,an expert assures us has done
. some., very Sine landsCapes e,
portraits. A tiny landscape which"
She once painted in Kenya fetch-
' eel '•131 at ' a. London 'sale-room.
The PeceneY !',yeent to, a Tharity,
pq late Queen Mary executed
. some, attractive. water !colotus. ,.
' She raise bade Ei„ flair for doing
architeCtual 'sketchee, being able
to transfer swiftly 'fo paPer her
• happy •mernories eef beautigel: .
buildings she bad visited here
„and ebreeel e , , .‘, , ,,
It is possible ;that Princess
Anne may develop a flair fqr,
tee as .she grows up: Son4'lime
a-get the, ,Queen Mother camel-Lis-1
stoned a wornan artist to draw
a' portrait- of the Princen l as, a
ppesent t6r the. Queen. 1prn;Ig
the sittings Princess Anne glio t-
od keenness to experinithit lb
drawing. With the artist's guid-
ance, she drew a sketch of a cat.
Then the little Prnicess made an
attempt to draiv the artiste her-,
self. •
EX-SHAMPOO GIRL — Curvy
Yvette Vickers starts her movie
career with Rory Calhoun in
"Hemp Brown.” Yvette once
capered on television for a
shampoo ad. Those days, ap-
parently, ore gone forever,
White Horse Gets
A Face-Lifting
YORKSHIRE'S biggest. white
horse 314 ft. long and -228 ft,
high — is going to be groomed
this year, He'll probably get a
new, coat of lime, weighing at
least six tons and it is also
planned to give him a face lift.
This horse, whose eye is so
big that twenty people can sit
on it, has been the Vale of York's
largest landmark for a century.
It's known as the White Horse
of Kilburn, and was cut on a
Hambleton hillside a hundred
years ago.
This amazing turf monument,
carved by a village schoolmaster
with the aid of thirty men, has
recently shown a tendency to
Slip down the hillside. This has
been checked by driving hun-
dreds of wood pegs into the
lower edges. These reinforced, t.,,
loose stones, have stopped f a"'
Cher erosion.
Legend says that the cair t r
making the White Horse or r1.-
burn, one of several giant
horses carved on English r*!.,
was borne by one of the i.:(
villagers who had made n .
tune in London.
Not much is known aboul t
history of some of these faht:.. -
tic hillside images, many c
which can' be seen for miles.
oldest of them all is the White
"Morse of Uffington on the Berk,
shire Downs which some experts
believe was carved to cora-
memornte the routing of the
Danes by 'King Alfred in A.D.
871.
An oth e r gigantic it Jrszde
monument is the famous tong
Man Of Wilmington, Sussex, who
is 240 ft. tall and holds two'
staves, One theory is that he
represents e rif r ore-
nation of a •Co:lot: tee:e
eee,
We had one awful storm. last
night. 'For several hours there
was continuous thunder, light-
ning and rain, but fortundtely
very little wind. At one time
there was a terrific crack as -if
something had been hit — a
transformer, maybe — but the
lights did not even flicker so I
imagine. the 'damage was far-
ther away than we thought. This
morning, to look at the roads
arid gardens, you would hardly
know it had rained,. Perhaps it
will be the last storm of the year
— hope so,. anyway.
Well, last week was quite a
Women's Institute week fot me.
On' Wednesday I was invited to
attend a branch meeting in the
village in Which we are now liv-
ing and• of course I was quite
anxious to go. While all branches
have the same motto, same hand-
book, same set of rules and regu-
lations, same standing commit-
tees, yet there is enough elas-
ticity in the basic, set-up so that
no two branches run their meet=
ings exactly alike, or have pre-
eisely'the same activities. Some
branches aim at making a lot of
money so they may have more
to spend on worthwhile projects.
Others think that financial re-
turns are less important than the
social and educational projects,
Personally I am in 'favour of the
latter type. Money-making pro-
jects cannot be undertaken with-
out a lot of hard work and in
many branches the older mem-
bers have reached the stage
when catering to banquets and'
such like is beyond their
strength, And yet they are still
quite able to be a great help in
sewing,, knitting, quilting wel-
fare and social work. I think
when a branch plans its future
activities consideration should be
given to the number and age of
its members, Enthusiastic young-
er members may suggest cater-
ing to ' banquets, or having a
booth at the local fair, 'Their"
willingness and energy are to
be commended — what would
any branch do without its young-
er members? But are there
enough of them to carry the bell?
Will the money-making projects
they are willing to sponsor be a
hardship to the older rnernbere?
Members, who in the years gone
by. have probably had their
share of hard work and active
leadership, For them the time
has now come to take things a
little easier, And yet, can. they?
A really interested W,I, worker
hates to sit back while others
work so she probably keeps
going and does more than she
should, For this reason T have
been wondering lately ft an
branches could riot divide their
activities irk°, two basic groups
— members being free to make
their choke. as to which group
they wish to belong.'
Group I, This gioup should be
responsible for the actual eVotet
and planning of ell money-mak-
ing activities. They would,, of
course, cell en all members for
contributions in the 'way of bak-
ing end so forth, but not for help
L int n ould keep senior members
NO CONTEST
The devil wag' =arways Chat.
longing St. Peter to a game et
baseball, but St, Peter never
tools him up, Finally, the Dodg-
erS, the Giants and the Yankts
all went to heaNOn. SO natural-
ly St. Peter called UP the devil,
"Now 1'11 play 'you chat gams
of baseball," he said,
"You'll lose," said the
""you'll
'`0 h yloeseeh','" replied St, Peter
"Right now I'veget th e greatest
collection of baseball playere
you ever saw,'" ' 1
"You'll
ou'lilas4lov,se,'2 said tile devil. Li
1
‘,v1wee'or41:13Wlel.:hg,lcoaastues?e'ink:ea,ee
ot all the
s laughed'Y1 the devil,
=ghee dow*
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on their feet for hours at a time.
Group 2. This group might he
classified as a social and welfare
group. They would look after
bales for Children's Aid Society;
making quilts for sale or to be
raffled; baby-sitting for younger
members assisting at banquets;
small card perties.and social eve-
nings; and contributions to an
annual bazaar — if it is custo-
mary for the branch to have an
annual bazaar or sale of work.
In short, older members should
be given work to do that, for
the main part, could be done at
home or in small gatherings at
a neighbour's home — thus giv-
ing them a social outlet.
Well, that is just an idea —
take it or leave it as you wish.
It came to me because I know of
a number of older members who
have dropped out of W.I, work
because they couldn't keep up
the pace Set by' the younger
ones. That 'seems too bad be-
cause their experience ,and
guidance can be of great assist-
ance to the W.I. as a whole.
Now I must tell you of an-
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