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ANNE 1-FIRST
*Kat Fami,14 Counheeot
she should calmly destroy at
photographs of him and get rid
of other souvenirs.
RaVirl done these things sin
should set about getting at
Many dates with other boys
possible, She will quickly clis,
cover that a new WY friend b3
her side at least partially ban*
ishes ghosts of the past, By re.,
peating the process over suc-
cessive days, she is "helping
Father Time to free her front
the fetters of her past romance!'
Frustrated love can be con-
quered like any other bad
habit, the expert points out. II
is utter folly for a jilted girl
to plead with her former sweet-
heart or make a scene by burst-
ing into tears when she sees
him.
doesn't keep the weeds from
growing, in spite of the fact
that there is plenty of agitation
from various.quarters to keep
the field clean,
Well, it's Monday now and
our nice weather seems to have
forsaken us. It is very dull and
very humid. But if the weather
is dull the news, isn't, A confer-
ence regarding the crisis in the
Middle East—what will happen
afterwards is anyone's guess.
Political convention in the Un-
ited States; controversy still
active over Marilyn Bell's swim;
and an International convention
of Entomologists in Montteal—
in our langnage a discussion ab-
out insects. I wonder if 'it will
be brought to light that the in-
crease in insects is probably due
to the decrease in birds. And
the decrease in birds . , . could
it be they are being destroyed
by chemical weed-killers now
so much in use? And now the
power has gone off—that doesn't
make typing any easier so I am
glad I have come to the end of
my copy,
'Bye until next week.
Wardrobe Wonder!
New Date Will
Beat Heartache
Twins. Were Born
50 Miles Apart
To a twenty-nine,,yeeeesee
Letitien Man has fallen the ere
perience be becoming a lather
again teeelve days after his
wife had her -first baby, His
wile las lied twins, But the •
first. Was berp,,..at 13,5 eete, on
May 10th •and the second didn't
arrive until 6 .e.rn„ on May 30th!
T It e twenty-eight,yeareold
wife was told, about the twins.
a week Defore ,She had -the' first
baby, a boy weighing 4 lb, 6 oz.
at birth, After his birth, the fa-
ther camped on the hospital
doorstep all day. After that • he
'phoned t h e hospital every
hour for six days non-stop,
Then he took to making several
visits a day.
Whet's the record birth de-
lay in the case of twins? The
British Medical Association says
it is probehly held by twins
born in Strasbourg in 1846, with
e an interval of 137 days between
them. The first arrived on April.
30th, the second on September
13th.
Proud father Bernard Schnees
had jest cradled his new-born
daughter in 1955 when he got a
shock, The doctor told. him:
"You're going to be a father
again, in about two . months."
He. was eight. Forty-eight days.
after baby Deborah was born to
Mrs, Schneese —. at Delaware;
U.S. Douglas, an equally
bonny baby, arrived.
Delays of this kind are usual-
ly due to differing weights of
the babies, say doctors.
In Scotland, • in 1934, twins
were., born fifty miles apart at
•ari interval of two days. The
mother gave birth " to the first
baby at her home on the island
of Scarpay, Invernessshire and.
was attended by an elderly
neighbour.
THEY MAJOR IN PULCHRITUDE—National College Queen Mari-
lyn K. Meyer, 18, center, poses with her ladies-in-waiting after
her nomination. The ladies-in-waiting (they'll have to wait
for another chance to be queen) are Carol Jean Lewis, 18,
right, and Joan Schoenfield, 19.
"Dear Aline Hirst: I am 20,
and deeply in love with a man
40 years old, He says lie loves
me, and he has proven it in many
ways, He has all the qualities of being patient, generous and
understanding, I've been seeing
him for two years, and during
this time I've never taken any
real interest in anyone else.
"We get along perfectly toge-
ther as far as feelings and ideas
are concerned; I am always so
contented in his company.
"I knew that such a thing
would not, be socially accepted,
but I've been so much happier
in every way since I met him.
Do you think I am right in seeing
him, and perhaps thinking of
marriage?
SLIGHTLY CONFUSED"
What Of The Future?
* If you have dated this man
* since you were 18 and are so
* contented with him, it is likely
* you and he would have an ad-
* mirable malriage at least for
* a while. He seems to be germ-
* Me and devoted to you, and
* the fact you are so at home
* with him is a valuable asset
* in any permanent relationship,
• The question is, would you
* be satisfied with him as a hus-
* band as the years accumulate?
* When your letter came I re-
* called one from a girl, 27, who
* had married a man years older.
* I looked it up, and quote her
* dissatisfaction: "I do love my
* husband," she claims, "but he
* is too settled to like the things
* I do. We never go anywhere
What should a teenage girl
do when she falls in love with
a boy and he turns her down in
favour of another girl? Get
madly jealous?
Not at all, says a leading
psychiatrist who is an expert on
teenage love affairs. The girl
should deliberately set about
blotting the episode .from her
mind,
She should at oncce burn the
boy's love letterS; all" of *them,
however-al-dent they are. Then
Dress-up Linens • :001't
I
HRONICLES
1NGERFARM
Gwerviolme P CtaxIke
No doctor was available so
the same day the mother was
carried on a stretcher across the
island to the sea, journeyed
four miles in a boat to the
neighbouring island of Harris,
and travelled another fifteen
miles by ear over rought forest
roads to' Tarbert.•
There she was given medical
aid, but she was told she must
enter hospital at Stornoway,
which she did the following• day
after a further car journey of
thirty miles. Her second baby
was born there forty-eight
hours after the first and after
she had travelled fifty miles.
except to visit my mother, to
* a movie every lew months and
* to church a few times a year,
* I used to love dancing, and I
haven't been on a dance floor
* since „I married. , ant lone-
* some for the good times I've
* given up and would be glad
* to have with him, but he isn't
* interested..,. We have a nice
* home, a car, and money in the e
* bank, but what good are ma-
* terial things when you are tin-
* happy?"
A man of 40 is not an old
man, by any means and your
friend's temperament may
postpone the desire for a se-
dentary life for years, When
you become 40 and are still
full of life, would you have to
give up the good times this
older girl already misses so
much? Can you look down
the stretch of years that lie
ahead and believe you will be
entirely satisfied with him to
the end? Can you take the
chance?
Has the man proposed to,
you, or are you taking it for
granted that he will? I do not
wish to arouse doubt in your
* mind, but it seems rash to be
* considering marriage unless
* you are sure he is, too. Two
* years is a long time to date
* just one man and then discov-
* er you have wasted your time
* because he "isn't the marrying
* kind." If he has not spoken
* of the ^future, why not practice
* the usual methods of bringing
* that about?
* And what does your family
* think?
* It is not for me to say Yes
* or No to your question. Con-
* eider the situation as coldly
* as you can. You are in love,
* but you are too intelligent to
* follow your heart alone.
*
A Lad Worries
"Dear Anne Hirst: For a long
while I've liked a girl 14, three
years younger than myself. Her
friends tease us about each other
which embarrasses her, but I no-
tice she doesn't deny what they
say; they say she -likes me, too,
but she's never said so. I date
other girls, too, so people won't
know how much. I think of her
but I don't go with any one of
them too often.
"The girl doesn't let me know
how she feels about me; how can
I find out? (You've helped me
before this, but I'm more wor-
ried than I was and I depend
on you.)
LOST AND FOUND—"When in
trouble—SQUAWK!". Apparent-
ly that was the principle that
saved this rare palomino Shet-
land pony colt from who knows
what fate. It's shown with its
owner, Robert S. Gault, who
raises tiny Shetlands as a hob-
by. The pony was stolen, but
abandoned next day. Gault
believes the `screamsof the un-
weaned pony, uttered when it
is hungry, frightened the thieves
so that they were afraid to
keep the 'animal longer.
4605
10-18
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• Date the other girls, too, and
* observe them thoughtfully;
* each one can help you better
* understand the feminine sex,
• which is important. As the
* 'girl you like sees you with the
* others, she may grow more in-
* terested.
Her age implies her shyness,
* so see her, when you can but
* don't rush her. As for your
* friends' teasing, show her you
* can laugh it off; then she
* won't be embarrassed.
If her mother allows boys to
* call, do that. It would be
* smart, though, to stay with the
• group for a while until the girl
• matures a bit and has more
* self-confidence. Good luck!
4 A
Wire is the girl who hesitates
before she accepts a man twice
her age. A Safe guide is a letter
to Anne Hirst, whose long ex-
perience is at, your service. Write
her at Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St,
New Toronto, Ont.
Modern child—has longer life
expectancy, the health of most
North Americans has so improv-
ed during the present century
that a baby may be expected to
live over twenty years longer
than one born in 1900.
ISSUE 39 -- 1956
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FIRST`LESSON'S COMING .UP—Determined expresion of teacher
Ellzoloeth Kohl should be a clue to Paul Hindes that gUnichew-
ing in school Is' frowned upon as the blase, bubble-blowing
youngster reisters for the fcill term.
few, not properly marked, that
he didn't know anything , about.
He knew where they were when
he ran into them,even buckling
one of the guards. Steel stakes
were not the only 'trouble in
that field. Earlier in the season
one of the heifers escaped from
the pasture. Partner couldn't
think how she got out until he
went along by the fences, At
one spot last winter the survey-
ors had been. cutting brush and
made a hole in the 'fence. Part-
ner fixed it up by using the
hrush to fill the, gap. Some time
later, unknown to , us,' the sur-
veyors were back, evidently to
do soiree work at the same spot.
They pulled the brush away and
left the gap c.-q?osed. No, wonder
the heifer got out! If Partner
had not seen her the rest of 'the
cattle would no doubt have fol-
lowed
We have, a notice from the
Department to' the effect that
compensation will be paid for
any damage done. Fine e- but
how can a farmer assess the
trouble he goes to in' getting a
heifer back to pasture? Or how
can we put in dollars and cents
the worry it was to ire haVing
Partner on a power mower
weaving his way in and out,
among the stakes and finally
having to finish ,the job by cut-
around the stakes with .a scythe.
The trouble is the fellows that,
come around are not deliber-
ately careless; they just don't .
understand the little things that
are important on a farm. When
the men were around driving in
the stakes Partner said to them:
"What's going 'to
this
if I
want to ploughthie fieldr' One
man - answered: "I guess you
Won't want to do much on this
land by .the time we get
though!"' How 'true—the only
trouble is surveying' the' land
We have come to the end of
a perfect week — weatherwise
— and a very busy one. I have
been trying to keep ahead of
the garden, and partner has
been busy cutting hay; all
among the stakes set out by the
Department of Highways. More
about that later,
Beans . . . We shall hardly
dare to look at a bean after
awhile. We have eaten them,
given them away and cooked
them for the dogs. •And still
they keep growing — and the
second sowing almost ready.
Beets and carrots are groWing
fast' too but the peas are not
quite so retvarding. The apples
also"-keep 'me busy although it
is a sort of race between the
twin heifers and myself to see
who gets the ,apples first. Early
in the morning the heifers are
around the harvest apple tree
gobbling up the windfalls. When
they retire to a shady spot to
chew their cud I sneak out and
get in my innings, shaking the
tree by the branches until I
have enough apples to fill a ,
pail, which gives me about five
quarts of applesauce when they`
are canned. I cook the apples
with the peels on and then put
the pulp through a rotary col-
ander, That way we have ap-
plesauce all winter, whether we
have apples or not Some people
wonder Why I bother with can-
ning at all when there are only
the two of us now. I wouldn't
if we had a deep freeze, but We
haven't and I am not so sure
that it is really necessary now.
If I can fill a few dozen sealers
we are sure of having 'enough
stuff for our own use and sOine-
thing on hand for weekend
homecomers.
Each day, when I am through
with canning and other work I
like to get upstairs to my roem,'
And' ho.w I am enjoying. it. fain
away froin everything and 'yet
'not away. For three days last
week I Was looking down on
the field where Farther Was
cutting hay--which was quite an
advantage because I was afraid,
all the time he Might run into
a stake and get thrown off 'the
MoWer..if he had—Well, with a
power' mower anything could' '
happen
The field where he we's cut-
ting is one where the highway
has expropriated land for High=
way 401. It has iron Stake.,
WOoden stakes and steel lend&
posts here and there'across the
field. Nether didn't Want the
hay but the geld was weedy.
hd felt it had tO be cut fle
late* he Would have quite a job
althougfi he thought he knew
Where every stake bad been Pitt.
He was wroni,—triere Wet
Chaplain's
Message
One would think that if there
were a nation of people on the
face of the earth who possessed
the lion's share of the good
things of life, things like plenty
of food, houses, automobiles,
telephones and television, in-
terior plumbing, refrigerators,
electricity for common use, etc.,
that that would be the most con-
tented, well adjusted and hap-
piest people on the earth.
We are that people. We have
the lion's share of this world's
goods. We have more of mod-
ern conveniences, gadgets, food,
and other good things than any
other nation on the earth. Yet
--we are one of the most dis-
contented nations of the world.
Let me prove this:
We have the highest crime
rate of any nation. In any 24-
hour period there are some 300
deaths from crime, 1,100 burg-
laries, 250 robberies, and count-
less other minor crimes. Fifty
per cent of these crimes are com-
mitted by persons in the 21 year
age average.
We have an exceptionally huge
dope problem. Thirty per cent
of the crimes committed in our
large cities are the direct re-
suet of dope addiction or of ef-
forts to obtain money for the
continuance of the dope' habit.
Our high schools and collages
are infiltrated with the dope
traffic. Dope is a big problem.
We are a nation of sick peo-
ple. Over 65 per cent of per-
sons in One of four hospitals is
sick from the neck up. This does
not mean that the person is a
mental patient, It means that
whatever illness is present has-
come out of worry. tension, •the
poor adjustment to daily living,
Alcoholism Ise a big problem.
Over eight per cent of the popu-
lations of our large cities, are
alcoholics; not just moderate
drinkers, but people who must
Have another drink no matter
what the' cost.
It's, time we woke up to the
true picture about Outselves.
The Christian Church has,
through the terituries, teught to
guide mankind whenever it has
sought the right paths to God,
The church rnakeS its' mistakeS,
it sornetireds blenders, htit' can
you. nathe any Other institution
On earth that you can hint' to
ter what We as individuals and
its a nation SO desperately need?
Attend YOUR church. Give God
catiee,-,-Eranklin C. Nixon,. in'
the National Grange
DG:N'T ROLL OUT OF Biti.,-:gutperided plari0 Wire, "ffoatille
Ipedi above, was shown at the National liOtne FUrnisliiri§s Snow.,
MOdel Ryna Kitman poses aboard the terletual slumber aetee.
sory.
'GREEN MitioNttER PLENTY OF DRAG—Arthur Arfdri3 'edges his tilbkheeteisewee 116i.eeni
past a &deter at the Tinting AsseklatiOn'S drag Strip, :tailort9?the 'running:Of the'
iiiredoritt National theionp:Orithip Drag Ooces..