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HomeMy WebLinkAboutThe Brussels Post, 1956-08-08, Page 6Modern': • dress her letter 'of thanks for 4 gilt Odell has been receive( from a married couple? A. She writes to the wife an( thanks both: "Manic you for the lovely present ,You and Mr Smith (or Jack) sent me, etc," 14, When wrjA11,& a thank-You note to a relative-Who has sett( a cheque as a birthday gift, should one, mention how the money is going to be Wed? A, While not exactly neces- sary, this still is a nice thing to do. Q. If one receives a written invitation that does not specify how long one is to visit as a house guest, should the letter of acceptance state it? A. Yes; specify just how long, you intend to stay. GO ON WITH THE WEDDING—The bride makes mockery of a mock wedding, as she tearfully pleads to get away from it all. Shirley Lamb, wasn't caught in the spirit of the occasion, but the bridegroom — Shirley's brother, James—finally convinced her to stay, and the make-believe ceremony went on as scheduled. What Became of Mussolini's Millions? Q Own PM beAcve 14 ,14 custom of tipping, isn't it one's privilege - to omit it?' , A. Although there is nothing' compulsory about tipping, still a. person who tries to omit it must be hard-shelled enough to shake off the black looks, he will receive. from those who have served bins, and the possible accusa- tions of "stinginess," Q. wiwn. a young man accom, pantes two girls to the theater, is it all right for him to sit between them? A, Yes, unless there is an aisle seat, Then he should, of course, sit next to the .aisle, Q. Does a man ,seat his woman dinner partner .on his right or his left? A. On his right, Q. When a man invites an other man to luncheon or din- ner, should the host give the order for both to, the waiter? A. No; he should allow his guest to order first, and then give his own order to the waiter. When dining with a woman, she gives her order to blin;land he orders: for both, Q. Is it proper to use the pre- fix 'Miss" on an envelope ad- dressed to a girl of 12 or 14 years -of age? A.. Yes. with the message.. and the task of taking, it there was this. same "Pietro (real name Mi- chele Moretti), Who.. gave 'TB. dro" 'a receipt for it, But "Gatti" failed to. reach Come. At the end of the 4.14etig May "Gatti" was found In view of the notOrt ronnding the treasure, hesa lie had thought it proper to hand it to some higher commander.. lie never produced the re- ceipt, and although the .case was referred to the Italian 'police,. to . this day it is not publicly known. what had happened to ."Gatti," nor in -whose name he acted. • • • Another partisan, Luigi. Ca. nail, known as Captain "Nevi," was shot in the head on May 8. Evidently he was Opposed to all this sleight of 'hand with the treasure, and was eliminated as a traitor. After 'Mussolini's death a fur- ther document case was found, at the Villa' Mantero, Como, where his wife 'Reehele had stay- ed with the children, It con- tained documents and nineteen gem-studded Italian and 'foreign orders which had been conferred. on him, This was the only trea- sure which fell into the hands of the state. • Italian pUblic opinion believes that the rest passed into the Ita- lian communist party coffers, which would explain the contra- dictory reports and stories ,,put out to obscure the truth con- cerning MussOlini's death. This book with its intrigue and drama is as gripping as any - novel. "Dear Anne WNW My 41,14.W problem is different from others I've read. MY parents are dead,, and I have na relatives to help, with. my five-year-old: girl ex- cept my husband's inOther," who lives two. blockS. away, We are buying our home and. my hus7 • band has taken on extra work to. help out, so we can't even af- ford a sitter, We ask his mother to 'baby sit only about once ev- ery three months, and she al- ways complains that it puts her behind in her housework or her sewing A "Yet she minds. my sister-in- law's children one day a week so she can go places, though there's a part-time maid there, I don't resent this,. believe me, but I expect another baby in a month and I've been very sick; she has not- offered to help out at all,, she is even planning to be away the week I am expec- ting. This means my husband will 'have to take time out from work while I'm in the hospital, to look after our .little girl. "My friends and neighbors . talk about my mother-in-law, and I try to cover up. She tells them and everyone here, how rouch she likes me, but why won't she prove it? If my own mother were living, how dif- terent things would be! MRS. B. D." Great-Grandma Serves Dessert Stork-Time Style! DIAMOND BACK — Diamonds are a girl's best friend — even behind herJpack — according to one designer's creations for the fall. Done in black peau d'ange, the cocktail dress, above, has a full skirt with unpressed pleats, tiny cap sleeves, and little bows' set atop the diamond cutouts. Chilled. Towel To Beat-the-Heat murder a woman partisan con- nected with the 52nd Brigade went to the bank and took out the twelve millions to take it to the partisan higher command. She, too, vanished and her body was eventually found in Lake Como. Some gold and currencies . were concealed in the German cars with the column. When the Dongo. partisans searched them they were chiefly concerned with checking the Germans' identities, and the discovery of Mussolini in a lorry caused some excitement and confusion. So when Major Kritz's column left Dongo it still held part of the treasure. — At Domaso two German naval officers from one of the lorries . asked two , women if there was any trustworthy person in the town whom they could consult. They were . directed to' Hoff- mann's villa, where they handed him 33 kilogrammes of gold and 36 million lire. Feeling unsafe with so, much wealth in his house, Hoffman transferred part of it to the 52nd Brigade's com- mander. "Pedro" deposited it in the Dongo bank, notifying his- superiors. On May 6th he was instructed to transfer it to the Como .com- mand, and the partisan entrusted Q. For what uses only is the napkin at the dinner table? A. For wiping the lips and the fingers. It is not for the cheeks, perspiration, or the nose. The napkin should be lifted as inconspicuously as possible, and lightly brushed across the mouth —and then replaced on the lap. Q. Is it proper for a young man to give his mother's engage- ment ring to his fiancee? A. This is frequently done, and is quite proper. Q. To whom does a bride ad- By EDWARD,R. KENNEDY NEA Special Correspondent Bangkok—Hot weather in Can- ada always brings forth a rash of advice on how to keep cool. Here's a tip from the tropics, where heat is a year-round prob- lem: Find a place in your refrig- erator to store a supply of cold, damp face towels. Serve them frequently and gain a reputation as the cleverest hostess in the heat. Small terry cloth guest towels are about the right size and would be more attractive than the long, narrow ones used here. (For some unknown reason, the cook supplies us 'with white towels that say at the bottom "Good Morning 83:' in English and Chinese and decorated with a reassuring picture of two hands clasped in friendship,) * * Towels should be moistened, then doubled and folded as though they were napkins going' into a napkin ring. They are then placed on a tray in the re. frigerator. When anyone comes in from the sticky heat, he is offered one of these chilled towels that, im- mediately before, serving, has been sprinkled with a few drops of perfumed astringent or after- shave lotion. (We use a type made in Hong Kong that is cal- led "Girl Brand Florida Water," but any mild lotion will do.) The user then unrolls the towel to a double layer and spreads it first over his fore- HEAT-EXPERT Kennedy shows the value of a chilled towel on a hot day. While the preparation of soups, joints, and gravies is left to ruder and stronger hands, the delicate fingers of the lady of the houehold, are best fitted to mingle the proportions of ex- quisite desserts. It is absolutely necessary to the economy of the „household that this art should form a part of every lady's edu- cation. For these reasons we offer this book to 'the public. It will be found useful both by the rich and by those of more moderate means; the common mistake of giving none but ex- pensive receipts having been carefully. ‘avoided. Before entering upon ow' main subject we think it will not be out of place to offer a few remarks - on that very im- portant subject, the arrange- ment of dishes with an eye to proper effect. On the style and elegance in which a dessert- table is spread, much of its suc- cess depends. In. arranging the table, the' greater number of handsome dishes and high stands that can be available the better, as glee& fruits,' com- potes, and confectionery look much handsomer when so dis- played that they could Possibly •do in low or fiat dishes. Vases of natural flowers tastefully in- terspersed throughout the table heighten the effect, and should never be absent,. It is consider- ed out of taste to mix cake, fruits, and bonbons on, the same dish or, stand: each kind should be grouped in its separate re- ceptacle,.and these alternated on the table according as taste will suggest. - Ices, of course, will be served moulded into pyramids or other effective forms; and there are numerous designs to be had which are highly artistic and ornamental for iced pudding,, jellies, and blancmange, all of. which will add beauty and elegance to the table. Even with the most minute directions we can give, the artist must rely, after all, on his own taste as to the proper disposition and grouping of colors, shapes and sizes; but a little experience will enable him to produce the finest effects, which will well repay the trouble and study, it may cost. — From "The Dessert Book,* by A Boston Lady, 1872. head, where the blood runs close to the skin, and gets immediate relief. Then he mops off his whole face, probably his neck, and his hands, wrists and arms. Ladies who are afraid of spoil- ing their makeup only dab at their faces, but thoroughly en- joy the cooling sensation on the - hands and arms, and the light pleasant odor that lingers. Every- one agrees ,..that- the astringent leaves the skin feeling cooler, cleaner and better conditioned. Fashion "must" for the mo- ther-to-be! This graceful top is a' wonderfully cool, becoming style for summer. Novel neck- line, pockets — to trim with gay embroidery! 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NOT 'UNUSUAL * In many a family, such fa- • Veriti$M exists because the older Wernall favors one • wife and does not feel as dose * to another daughter-in-law, * You probably do not know the * cause of this, and it may even * have started with your mar- * riage; this and other factors are nobody's faldt, and there seems nothing you can do * about it, One would think that the coming emergency Would * inspire her to ease your tts- * band's burden, but it seems * this is not to be.. You and he 4' are concerned with praotieai • details) so here are a few * ideas that may be useful: " Confide your situation to * your doctor, and ask him about * the social service agency at * the hospital you have chosen. * Sometimes the Red Cross or * similar groups take over if * they can. * Can your husband arrange * to take that week as part of * his vacation, so he will not lose by it? • Isn't there a married couple * with children among your * friends or neighbors who * would take your little girl for * the week? They would not " charge you, I am sure, and a * little household gift is always 4' proper expression of your * gratitude, " Hereafter you will be wise * to count your mother-in-law * out for any help at all. Hope " deferred is depressing to live * with, so why hope any longer? * She is as she is, and your * plight does not move her. I * am relieved that you do not * resent your sister-in-law's luck * (which would be natural) and " I hope you make a point of " being on friendly terns with * her. * Your situation, deplorable * as it seems, is not unique, I * repeat. Accept it as permanent -* and use all your wit and prac- " tical common sense to man- * age as best you can. * * HOME IS BEST "Dear Anne Hirst: We have been married five years and have three wonderful children. Everything has gone beautifully for us all—until now, when I am so confused I'm almost • crazy. "Recently I met again a man I was in love with until my family made us part. I find I have never really gotten over him. What on earth am I to do? CONFUSED" * Do what you know is right. * You cannot separate your " children from their father, * nor can you deliberately leave * him. The lives of you all would * be blighted, and, as the cause * of it, you would take on a ter- * rific responsibility. * When we marry, we stop * living for ,ourselves and begin * living for others. We have no * right to seek a new 'personal * happiness when we know that * others must pay for it. Temp- " ted as you are, you will pray * for strength to' resist, and take * on your rightful job as you * must see it if you are being * honest with yourself. * Being good may be dull for a while, but I know of no * surer road' to peace. * When a busy mother rea- lizes she has no one on whom she can depend for help in her domestic schedule, somehow she arranges a routine that sees her through. Anne Hirst has ideas that may prove help- ful in such situations, and her readers are welcome to them. Write her' at Box 1, 123 Eigh- teenth St., New Toronto, Ont. For Sun and Fun! These separates are wonderful for a busy gal's Wardrobe—they beautifully,• eliminate weekend packing worries! Blouse With its. graceful yokes, Stith 'shorts, favorite 8-gore side but, ton skirt—easy to sew, a joy to Wean! • Pattern 4820: Misses' Sizes 12, 14, 18, 18, 20, size 16 bl6USt and shorts' take VA yards 36,inch skirt takes :81/t yards. This pattern easy to use, sim- ple' to SOW; is tested for fit, Has complete iiiustrated.instructions. Serid THIRtit,EIVE OEN11% (stamps cannot he adeepted;' use postal note for safetY) fox' this pattern. Print plainly NA14II, ADDitE8S arid 'STYLE NUMBEft, Send order fa ANNE ADAMS, 01.1.18•21 tolitectatt St.i. New Toronto', Ooui,y66re-old Mike Sibole gets a tail, look at 14 toy panda; Oaf for the. r emoval of. his onty: WO'S, !akin, taridee and' Sbettalitti the left eye' ha rt bi BEFORE DARKNESS before being taken to the, hOS but two years ago because of ternoved, because of d When Mussolini, on the run, was planning his northward flight he drew a thousand mil- lion lire, then worth about $6,- 000,000, from the bank at Milan. He also took with him, according to the Italian press, treasure which included over a hundred- weight of gold, sixteen million French francs, 200',000 Swiss francs, an unspecified amount in pounds sterling, both paper and gold, plus dollars, Spanish pes- etas and. Portuguese escudos. The gold was not only in bars and pieces but scrap, some com- prising gifts made by the .Ital- ians to the state treasury, inclu- ding rings and all kinds of jewel- lery. What happened to this vast' treasure which was stored in the cars of the column held up by partisan§ first at Musso and Don- go, then at the Ponte del Passo? What became of important docu- ments and other materials which Mussolini feverishly prepared and collected for his defence be- fore any war-crimes tribunal' he might have to face? All com- pletely vanished. Their where- abouts is still a mystery. Roman Dombrowski in "Mus- solini: Twilight and Fall" says that. Mussolini shared out part of the cash among his Fascist companions. "Renzo," the par- tisan who wrote an account of those dramatic last days before he, 'too, vanished, stated that the partisans found 18 million Swiss francs in Liverani's car, 36 mil- lion lire in Bombacci's, and 35 kilogrammes of bar gold in the possession of the alleged "Span- ish ambassador," who could not speak Spanish and was thought to be Marcello Petacci, the brother of Mussolini's last mis- tress, who was to die with him. The documents, which includ- ed the manuscript "That the Italians may know," were cram- med into two cases, one of which Mussolini clung to as long as he was allowed, telling the partisans repeatedly to make sure it did not go astray, for it contained diplomatic papers of great value' to Italy. One was said to contain pre- war correspondence between him and Sir Winston Churchill, and to have been the' reason for Churc'hill's visit to Como soon after the end of the war. The two cases were known to have been examined at Domaso, possibly in the villa of the rich Swiss, Luigi Hoffmann, in view of his contacts with partisan commander "Pedro" and his pat- ronage of the 52nd Garibaldi Brigade which operated against Mussolini. The political dossier was fin- ally deposited in the Domaso bank, later taken out, and, ac- cording to a report, kept' for a time in an old sarcophagus in a local church, then taken to Gen- eralf Cardona in Milan by two partisans, one of them "Pietro Gatti;" who played a mysterious part in connection with the treasure, But it never reached Cardona. "Renzo", who estimated the „ treasure's total value at 2,000 million lire, Said it was all con- cealed„ in Hoffmann's villa, and immediately titer death both the gold and cur- rencies Were sent to Como by car in a sealed chest. Hut it was reported that brie of the eacert shot tha other ri the back and vanished with'the' chest, PAVOliiii, another Fascist, also had tUrreticies in his tar, and when it *vas brought to naive a crowd rustled tO see it and some took "souvenirs'." Conte. 'otientlz Only twelve iriillidn lire Were fou'n'd Wheit it was searched, ThiS Sinn ''Petro"' ale posited in a lode!' bank, Mt on. the sonic night as the other 4,VOttittalf QUEENS Contestants for queen Of a h ba-lf- VOureelf" show; hold SOWS just as' if they knew 'flow them. irt to right .100e Wirifield; Judy Bomber, Judith terry; Audrey well and Pat Malloy: iv (Cute. WIttg, 4820