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Giicz.rt.doline P et&tite.
sow 'Wnat' would, you say
abattg; thi's Plor coifiidence?
Hardlyvhadi the 'ink drierlTron' my '
column ,Itasts;week than Partner-
w-as ,ptif ,4o 0,,,farrn meeting
and who should "be„flte ,guest,
speaker" 'iProfeaSdr •
Carii-Pbell. " Reidenifieft"-Lit ''was
theieWho ,saidri,l-thereofWeiVetdo
many4 19WrAcie9PWktfartnera:-
this, meeting he.. did not, touch. on
that topic at-. all.' He. was speak-
ing-inestly on the marketing of .
ferni:products,'and all that he
.said Was; very Practical and
down-to-.earth.? was 'two ,or
three ,years.,since Partner had
an, opportunityg of hearing Dr.
Catripbell and On' this, as on'
::-previous occasions, he 'thought
-*die was ;very appreciative, of ' the
,,:,,,,,aVerage,, farmer's -problems. No=-
doubt if. „ Campbell's- - re-
*arks a. little- 'while ago about
"too many farmers" had not
been taken Ott 'of their context
they, would probably' have been'
better, 'understood, .That :happens
so often,--, a somewhat startling
rerriark,: is picked up by,city pa-
pers 'for the sake of ' a good
story and. published without
due regard to' what .had beeti the
object of the address. <
Dear knows, there is enough,
that „is startling going on these
days ,without the necessity of
ceriterting and exaggerating the
.iSsue•to make a,storY s as for
'instance the .weekly wash visible
from the British Prime Mini-
ster's country residence. Even
the, B.B.C. got a story out -of
that. Apparently.- a comprorriise
was reached by providing: the
Worrian 'With the Wash' with
an extra •piece Of ground for a
clothesline. Ey . that. Means her
washday schedule was undis-
turbed but 'yet the family' un-
derwear Was kept" outs of sight
of 'the house next, door'.
Now I wonder did anyone
get any plants frozen by that
cold north-east wind last week?
I was afraid I might, but thank
goodness HoWever, .af-
ter having to, move_ my' plants
out to the diningroorn I decided
not to: put them-back into the
sunroom again because there is
no heat there at all. So I chose
a Seldom-used south robin td
houSe then) for the remainder of
the winter. I like my plants but:
I .can't see the sense of letting
them create any' more work
than is strictly necessary. And
house plants can make work of
that I aril• 'sure.' For instance
there is an elderly lady who
has African_ 'violets all over the:
house,. No one realized hew
much time ancl'effert she spent
on those violets and other plants.
Until the -lady , herself became
very ill and the care of the
plat-1th' fell to her stenographer-
datightet, who Was nattitaily
away froth ;home most of the
day, When, the mother was able
to take ati interest again in 'What
was going on around her; her
Main concern was ,abetit, her
Plants — were they all tight,
had any Of them,died WAS
Mary stare she adn't over.
watered' theta? Her' attitude 18'
-Utideratendable. The plants; were
her hobby and provided her
With an active interest life.
Toe 'active; in feet.
There are Many Welt people
arid if it isn't plants it' is
something else, Of • course; ett,
eryone should haVe a hobby Of
Softie kind but Otte a: hobby
Will wild 'it becomes an ObSet4
Siert, If it cannot be-easily eared
for by one person then it needs
to be' curtailed. A feW hohie
Plants can be lust as teWarding
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Mix and sift into a bowl, 1% c. once-sifted pastry
flow (or 1l c. once-sifted all-purpose flour), 3 t.sps.
Magic Baking• Powder, tsp. salt. Cut in finely
2, tbs. chilled shortening. Make a well in dry ingre-
dients and add .jg c. finely-chopped mustard pickle
in sauce and ki c. milk; mix lightly with
a fork, adding milk if necessary, to make
a drop dough. Drop in 6 portions, over
hot cooked, stew. Cover closely and
simmer (never lifting the cover) for
15 mins. Yield-6 servings.
Always Dependoble
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art the lady camel 'Of ilea would indicate. But the blissful bcit,
ittari at left had better head for the .oasis, She'll Make him wait
date unless'' lie promises love that will endure until the
lariat of t e desert geoW told, This eddy spring, nonsense ii
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4Tear Anne Hirst: I am 33
years old, have a good job, and, a lovely small child, agar whom
I'm trying my best to provide
a good home. I am, however,
recovering from an unhappy
marital situation (the alcohol
problem again) and now that 1
aP1 free, I would,• like to find
some good man to share the love
that my child and I could give.
"I've been using your sugges-
tions, taking classes and being
active in church work, So far,
no luck. Do you have any other
ideas?
"Or could you wrap up some
fine, lonely man in tissue paper.
and send him along_ I never
used to have trouble getting
dates. Have I lost that much
charm in the last few years?
Perhaps I'm just out of .practice,
but I am still-&
LOOKING"
KEEP ON
* First, don't lose confidence
* in yourself. Yeti have lived
* through a shattering experi-
* ence that is bound to leave its
* scars for a while. Many in
* your present- situation waste
* time, and energy feeling sorry
*16i; thernselves, -which lands
*,:that" chip on the shoulder
* which is so repelling. Your
* sense of humor has survived,
*.„..yon stilHheYe that light touch
* that attracts friends of both
* sexes, and which some males
*:coMplairunioSt Women lack.
FOUR smart, ways tq,decorate
your bedroom! Nothing ,prettier
(or thriftier) — than to Make
one of these gay ensembles
yourself!
Pattern 669 contains complete
instructions making four
different sets .0f,. .„'curtains,
snreads, and dressing - table
slirts!
Send TWENTY-FI,V,K CENTS
in coins (stamps cannot be ac-
cepted) for this pattern "to Box
1, 123 Eighteenth St,' New Tor-
onto, Ont. Print _plainly PAT
TERN. NUMBER, your-. NAME
and ADDRESS.
LOOK for smart gift ideas in
Our Laura Wheeler Needlecraft
Catalog, Crochet, bitting, em-
broidery', IoVeIy -things to -wear.
Dolls, iron-ons,, •quilts, aprons,
novelties --- 'easy,'Tuii to make!.
Send 25 cents for your copy of
this book NOW! You wit/ want .
to order' everY. riev,"-deligtii4n
• Does• your WOrk bring you in
contact with other nice worn-
* en? Cultivate, them, En*-
* tarn them as you can, perhaps-
* for Sunday tea at home, "Turn
on that charm .of yews, it can
* Win women, too, Listen, to
* their opinions, their problems.
* and be sure they find ,you a
*'trusted confidante. Play up
4' to feminine church members
* you've Met, and Ot on one or
two of their committees and
* become a valued worker,
You should win friends who
* Will be proud to introduce
* you to their personal group,
* widening your acquaintance
* among nice people. The same
projecting of your personality
• applies to those in the adult
* classes you attend. Patience,
* and renewed faith in yourself
• as a woman who has so much
* to give to others, should swing
* you into more than one circle'
* of congenial friends.
* Being a new arrival in the
• community hap its ' disadvan-
* tages,' but if you choose those
* people ,who seem worth cul-
* tivating, it• cannot help widen-
* ing your horizons and opening
* new fields where 'you may
• achieve your desire.
* A lot of talk is bandied about
" on the subject of woman's
". jealousy of women. Intelli-
* gent," Warmhearted women
* seldom join in. such low prac-
" tides: They welcome a new-
" coiner; who has a sense of
* humor, an ardent tempera-
* thent that promises true
* friendship, land a knowledge
" 'of life 'that lifts her above the
* gossiping level.
* Hold on to that light touch.
*,It will open doors you may
* not expect it to,
"NEVER BEFORE"
"Dear Anne Hirst: I certainly
need your good advice, I am a
high-school junior, and in love
with boy , Who insists that I
ga„ steady. But he seldom takes
me anywhere, and I wait so
long for hiin 'to invite me to
school dances that sometimes
I've had,-,to 'go'by' myself. He
never asks to bring me home,
but gets mad if somebody else
does.
"We never talk about things
that—matter, and sometimes I
really get bored. I knew I'm
missing other nice dates by only
seeing him, but_ I love him truly
—and h k.nOw'it, for I never felt
like' this before.
MARGIE"
You are physically attract-
ed to this boy, as you will be
toward others you meet, but
that does not mean you love
him.
You are smart to see al-
ready how self-centred he is.
To him you are only a con-
venient . girl friend, and he
isn't enough interested to ex-
tend the usual courtesies. You
two have nothing at all in
common,, yet; you put 'up with
his neglect and, bad manners
because being with him thrills ,
you.
• di: * .
In tinies,of• indeeision, it is
helpful to turn to an unseen
friend, one _whose. 'knowledge of
human nature and warm sym-
pathy can be useful. Anne Hirst
is, stich a 'woman, and your let..
ter will be read and considered
thoughtfully. Address her at
Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St., New
Toronto, Ont.
ANXIOUS
-A boy visiting New
York' for `the first time, went in
a rift to -the top of a skyscraper.
As he shot past the sixty-second
floor at breath-taking speed, 'he
,,gulped, tinned-to-hi§ father, and
,,askett.j "Daddy;:,,,c1686'7god know ;;,,Ktt.,i.11.6„,:.,c6i141*.i„ ••,.
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It's so thrifty, easy to make
this new side-button- and wrap
weskit! See the diagram—sew-
ing's a cinch!. Weskits are SO
smart this' seasOte-you'll want
several of the classic style too.
Choose :weal .tweeds, corduory,
cotton!
Pattern 4529: Misses' Sizes 12,
14, la, 16, 26, Size .16', tipper
version takea 1'4 yard 54-inch;
lowef vttsion, Tql yards 39-inCh fabric,
This pattern easy to use, sixf-
ple te, SeWt is tested fOr lit, Has
complete illustrated Maine,
VON.
Send THIRTY4IVE CENTS
(3,10 in Mint (Stamps mullet be•
accepted)' for this pattern, Print
plainly SUE, NAME, AD,
DRESS/ STYLE NUMBER/
Send or,ler -to tot 1, 123
tighttentit St. 11/4rew, 'Toronto,"
Ont.,
in interest as a hundred, Now
suPposo have Oven yOtt the
opportunity to say.—"And what
about your owri?" Well, mine
are not permanent honse plants.
Except for a few ferns which
I couldn't do, without -- my
plants are mostly geranium slips
intended for the flower garden
next spririoA4''tIcl4ott will agree
that noi,one,:c3m lave .geraniutps
hi the garden without taking
.eare, of slips, 4n,, the .house, Un-
of tcoqrser one buys them
but that l isleai Flown appeal
afe°"Io Yh e hobbies
whiCh; if `untorittolled, "Make a
Jot pf.,:)voRk. eA,ntiques; for in,-
Atancen prtnarnents, crystal and
liOttery, Think of the,chtsting in,
ThZije • are many such
homes,
&Oa imagine::ranyone living
:414bc4,/gi3Op t eopld indulge
InAsysh,,,athobby,. ,Maybe that is
one„,,,reaseri,W1-e'I hope we MN,-
:'6P' Have fcPhleaire our big house,
beeng have my hobby vices
too. I wonrtt,seyl'what • my col-
lecting mania is — but my fa-
inilfleotildi'telVyour.,Joy says —
"It is tcr„li_e;,itoped you don't
have to move out in a hurry,"
However, it doesn't make work
for anyone but myself — and if,
and when, I fade out of the pic-
ture' it will make a glorious
bonfire.
Incidentally, if ,you happen to
be a hoarder or a hobbyist and
there is danger of it becoming
an, obsession, then you should
read "My, Brother's Keeper" by
Marcia Davenport. It is the
Story of events prior to the
discovery. of the dead bodies, of
two. elderly, brothers in a huge
house in N.ew York, packed al-
most solid with tunnelled news-
papers,`"grand pianos and all
kindsof- junk. It is a terrific
story, ,, set-new:halt. gruesome in
arts -but per.* ly logical. And
you close the book in sympathy
with the brother'S'ana a feeling
that' the':: tragedy could have
been aypidedr'^ had they been
given the epportunity, of, leading
nprrrial lives, in their younger
daYs.
Modern
Etiquette..!
Q. 110w doeS a widow's or
divoreet's second wedding differ
from, JIPK:fir.st?.
A: She .does net wear white
or T carry.. oranges bles,soms„ and
she avoids an, elabOrate cere-
mony, She is 'usually unattend-
ed, although she may have one
bridesmaid. Her costume for a
church wedding, is an afternoon
frock and hat, or a traveling
suit. Her father or other male
relative gives her away, pre-
cisely as at, the first wedding.
Q. What is the proper, way to
ask .for. a- person- over a tele
phone?,
A. The proper manner is 'to
ask, "May I, speak, ,to Anne,
please?", And, when the person
replies with, "Just a „moment,
please," 'or, "1'11'611 her," don't
forget to add a "Thank you."
Q. Mies the" receiVine of a '
wedding announcement require
a. gift?
A, No.
Q. Is it considered, improper
to add postscripts to social let-
ters?
A. 'While there is nothing im-
proper about it, it is 'far 'bet-
ter to include • everything yOu
have to say in the body of the
letter; and thus indicate ` that
you have put more thought, and
less haste, into its composition.
Q. When a man is in an elet
vator in an office. building, and
a woman acquaintance enters,
should he remove his hat?
A. He should lift his 'hat in
greeting, but it is not necessary
for him to' remove it in an office
elevator.
Q. When refilling water
glaSses at-the tables should they
be lifted-or left' on the table as
the water is poured?
A. Left on the table.
Q. When rising 'front the din,
net tabie, should' one push One'S
'Chair back undo-'the table?
A, In - someone's' home, you
should leave. the, Chair Where it'
is. However, in a restaurant it
is better to push it back C1686' to
the table so' that , it is Out 'Of the
way of 'any 'one Who :Might be
passing;
,Q. When introducing a person
to a gtoop peaote, it tiete§-
sary to 'repeat hiS nattle to
everyone" in the 0600'
A, Usually Once is enough,
koWeVer, if the group is large
and there is a chance " abilleerie
did riot data the bailie, it ttiv-
be teD04tad,
Q,. When haVing a Pleee of
silver flit a baby ,marked with
only one Should it, be' the
ilia, or the last? ,
A, The first. •
IS It proper in teliibVe . • serves i n
dishea Or dinner plates first
from the table?
A. The dinner plates' should
be removed fled; then the $otv.,
dishes.
ISSUE 1.654
Some Reflections
Of A New Canadian
The' following letter to the
Editor appeared in the Montreal
Gazette. It is, reproduced in full,
in the hope that it will enable
some of us who are Canadians
by birth to take a second look
through the eyes of a new' Cana-
dian at some of the things we
take for granted.
"Sir,—What is democracy—in
the true sense of the word?
Perhaps a few illustrations
will help:
1. In this. country Signs on
public laWns read: "Please"
rather than "Don't" or, "Forbid-
den."
2. The other day around 11
a.m, a streetcar conductor stop-
ped for me alone, and • in-be-
tvveen two 'regular stops, 'When
I waved my hand. Later, he, an
elderly man; 'rushed 'out of the
car to help a woman get her
child down the, step. These are
by means isolated cases in Ot-
tawa., • '
3, A driver could not stop his
Ottawa Police car, after signal-
ling twice to a pedestrian who
was crossing Bank street at
Somerset: on a red light, and ran
over - him: The *Police depart-
ment -was ,fined -for •damages
more than $10,000.-
4. In Torbnto a Young Ger-
man refused to identify himself
to two plainclotheimen who had
shown him their badges: A. broil
ensued. The policemen were
fined.
5. Two Montreal policemen
entered a house where some
forty members of a sect were
assembled.. ;The 'representatives
of, the law were, later repri-
manded by the la* as`, trespass-
ers', 'and..finelly'condeinned by
the Supreme '.Court' oft:Canada
which is composed of Roman
Catholics and Protestants, same
religious -denominations as the
two policemen.
6, The Prime. Minister of Can-
ada returned from a round-the-
world trip and, at his first ap-
pearance in the House' of Corn.
mons, confessed his error in in-
timating an early recognition of
a large power. He did not even
'attempt to allude that he had
been "misquoted" by the press,
No,, he admitted that he had.
spoken out of turn and, apologi-
zed for it.
7. Every time the undersigned
has tried to prove to 'the Court
of Justice, the police,- the: Cus-
toms ,officers, that, it had not
been phis intention to , break
local regulations, he was inva-
riably listened to, with patience
and courtesy, and .-. exoner-
ated. "- -
To sum upl,Thealawri and:: the
streetcar are, for tbe pu,blig;11 and
not the ,plublie ,10„4,44e1 lqwp,,and
the streetcar;
The police are for' the citizen,
and not -the citizen for,, the po-
lice; '
The Prime„Minister.„,is for: the
people, and,uet, the people for
the Prime Miniater.
• is "demoei:acY.. Democracy
in Practice.' Democracy, in- its
,true,ISense.k ,
A: 4Ppla -by bArth= anclrf,p4o.ca-
tion,,.wilo..ha-i; Y,Pqrs in
thisccountry, the 'last 8, years as
a Canadian citizen;' has there-
,''fore fullt atairetiationcifr,- ''and
takes due pride in, the country
of his adoption:-Canada.,-
3 y .Z8..Ctqr.XP300195.ki."
—Fibril The Canadare Chamber
of CoragerceriLfGrlatter/'
erc There, eiie0e.ktnidsef„egoists;
"'those who admit itr, and the' :rest 11.101us. Dtp,14.1
HIS DOG'S AiHERO , EYeii dog has its day . including
He receiveth.a Medal and
ism" for tavihg,:theclife young cied
boar, shown; above holcling the bciic c6ntaining 4 hii:‘'clogVmeaciiW
The .dog's. heroic act' took place laSt.suriinier,,,When he. led
liam's , mother to .•c ,pond near the boar's home. William, .then
only 16 months, old, was. floating in iefate-down,-Artificial 'res-
piration ,,and aulmotor revived The 'boy,' Whiskers received
the medal,,frorn„ a dogJood company.
Worth Imitating
New York is setting an ex- ,
ample than many a city' might
fellow with tangible as, well as
intangible profit. :From March
15 the New York automobile
driver who bloWs his horn un-
necessarily will •be to',a
$10 fine. Moreover, the city's
Chief Magistrate, John BiL*Mur-
tagh, has promised- the Njayor's
Committee for a Quiet City that
offenders will be burtished.
Perhaps some skepticism will
even now remain as to Whether
any city can' really do:anything
about the, auto-horn nnisatiee,
Much ,_has,:already, .beert• ac-
complished for; quiet in,,, such
capital's "as:London and Paris.
Rules against 'horn bloyhrig have
protected the restfulness, 'of
nights in, Mayfair 'and: other res-
idential sections,ef the Eritish
capitals And in ,Paris' even' the *
days liavt acquired some
Elysian-'fields peacefulness of ElySian-elds
motorists meeting, bead ion in
Place - de la, Concorde' 4or the-
ElYsees put' their feet,
on their brakes instead,. ef
Ming'their hand's on their herni:7.'s,
Horn' blowing,' sometimes n=
futile protest against traffic tree
ups, sometimes ,merely ,for sig-
nailing to friends,,adcls consider-
ably to an unnecessary *din. Con.
gratulations, NeW York; for rec-
ognizing that. 'something should
be, done about' this, and for be-
lieving 'that .something..-can- be
done. —From The,,Christian
Seience Monitor.