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The Exeter Times-Advocate, 1976-07-08, Page 4rom there, Otis — it's been months since you sent in your tax return!" Times-Advocate, July 8, 1974 Pape 4 We need protection If six area residents had died of food poisoning last week, the public would be quick to express outrage. Similarly, if six people were murdered or died from rabid animals, there would be public anger and a crash program to hunt down the killers. Yet, six people died in this area in the past couple of weeks in road accidents — with scarcely a murmur of public protest, There is no surge of pressure for new safety measures; no outcry over a lack of government action. A select committee of the Legislature, set up recently by Premier William Davis to examine Ontario's highway safety standards, was told that 1,800 people died last year from highway accidents and the cost in all accidents was $460,531,000. That, by the way, was suggested as being a "conservative estimate". But many of the taxpayers who foot that bill continue to fight for the right of On tarians to kill or maim themselves on the roads. The province's legislation to make seatbelt use mandatory is still denounced by many as an infringement on individual liberty, despite the fact that statistics indicate the law has already resulted in fewer road deaths and lower hospital costs ' for the injured. The lowering of the speed limits on provincial highways has also been attacked as a useless gesture, although that measure, too, appears to, be curbing accident rates. No doubt Attorney-General Roy McMurtry would face strong opposition should he go ahead with a proposal for year-round spot checks by police to clamp down on drinking drivers. This, in spite of the fact that Canada has a larger problem with drinking drivers than any other nation. But McMurtry should press on with the scheme, and the province should give more thought to saving motorists from themselves. The committee of MPPs studying highway safety should come up with firm proposals on additional ways to reduce auto accidents. And they should also consider how to bring home to the public the full horror of the slaughter on our roads, not to mention the cost in human' suffering and money. Great pretenders people use, especially in their relationships with others often reveal a good deal about the society they live in. Speech, someone said, is the window to the world. And some grumblers are already saying that the win- dow is pretty grubby what with all the im- purities and improprieties that curse — or grace? — our language today. Certainly to examine the cliches of our day and then compare them with those of another era would be a quick lesson in social psychology and so what (now there's an oldie) if the purists say we're going to hell in split infinitives, New words to fit a changing world may be the best way to communicate the uncer- tainties and insecurities of an age when so many wonder what lies in store for them. The key phrases of a decade or a culture — what's passing and what's com- ing — reveal something about its climate and its character. Far-out baby! Checking out the city slickers late OteferZimes-Ainsocafe SERVING CANADA'S BEST FARMLAND Cl.W.N.A. CLASS 'A' and ABC Published by J. W. Eedy Publications Limited LORNE EEDY, PUBLISHER Editor — Bill Batten Assistant Editor — Ross Hdugh Advertising Manave.v — Jim Beckett Plant Manager — Jim Scott Composition Manager * Dave Worby Business Manager Dick Jongkind Phone /35.1311 Published Each Thursday Morning at Exeter, Ontario Second Class Mail Registration Number 0386 Paid in Advance Circulalion September 30,1975 5,420 SUBSCRIPTION RATES: Canada $q.00 Per Year; USA $11.00 .:12EWitatMZEMEZMEz,.'s.,...MIZZTEMLE,' RS HED Any damn fool can do it Had a letter this week from a former student who has to pre- sent a seminar in a journalism course she's taking, She didn't want much — just how to become a syndicated weekly columnist, and some anecdotes about being editor of a weekly newspaper. There's no problem about the first one. as I tell the eight or 10 people who write me annually about it. All you have to do is be in the right place at the right time, with the right material. In other words. lucky. A second in- gredient is to be cheap, I was both, when this column began to circulate. I began writing this column when I was editor of a weekly. After a couple of years, I had grown sick of the lack of freedom and creativity in what I was writing. Any damn fool can write a news story, if he gets the facts straight. And many damn fools can and do write editorials, regardless of the facts. And I was having trouble with the weddings and obituaries I had to churn out. One searing experience in the weddings department was my assertion. right there in black and white, that the bride and groom had left for a honeymoon in Bermuda wearing a green cor- duroy suit. I didn't say who was wearing the top, and who the bot- tom, but my reputation among the mothers of brides was definitely sullied, Same trouble with the Times Established 1873 obituaries. I never committed the classic: "The deceased was borne to his final resting place by six old fiends who acted as pallbearers," but I did have my moments. A line from a wedding would pop into the funeral, and it would come out something like this: "The remains of the deceased. who was in his 78th year, are resting at the Sunset Funeral Home, in a clinging gown of yellow voile, with a garland of white stephanotis and a large bouquet of forget-me-nots." Pretty fancy funeral, what? I never did get much flack from the deceased, but I sure caught hell from the "sur- vivors," as they were invariably known. After a series of such setbacks, I decided to start writing a little column in which I didn't have to cope with the dull facts of the news story, the supposed objec- tivity of the editorial, or the pit- falls of the wedding-obituary quagmire. Thus began "Sugar and Spice" as it was first named, a humble little corner of the editorial page where one Bill Smiley could spoof the world, needle his wife, damn all politicians, and give vent to his rages. In short, where he could say whatever he wanted, without hiding behind the anonymity of the news story or the editorial "we." (Although that's a pretty slim thing to try to hide behind in a small town, where everybody knows exactly ti Advocate Established 1881 who wrote the editorial, and what's wrong with his head, to have such an opinion). Anyway, the column caught on, for various reasons. One was that men enjoyed me pointing out how peculiar women are. Another was that women enjoyed me pointing out how stupid men are. Everyone enjoyed me poin- ting out how abysmally idiotic politicians are. There were other reasons. I didn't mind calling a spade a rud- dy shovel. I didn't mind exposing what an ass I was. I wrote about all the horrible ordeals that or- dinary people go through; loved ones dying: music festivals, Christmas. I wrote about parents and children, sailors and legion- naires, grannies and young mothers, farmers and fishermen. And I had good friends. Notably George Cadogan, still a power in the weekly business in the Maritimes. He urged and en- couraged and recommended to friends. Under his exhortations, I gradually changed a ragged column of anecdotes, barbs and person opinions into a short es- say that tried to say something, without seeming to. Next thing I knew, 88 papers were running my column. Then, of course, the syndicates got in- terested. They are not, by the way, much interested in Amalgamated 1924 It never rains but what it pours! That's the sad fact of life most area residents experienced over the first big holiday weekend of the summer. Rain spoiled most of the planned activities of the weekend, although the weatherman did show some mercy to at least enable us to salvage one good day—Sunday. beginners, which makes it might tough to break in. Satisfaction? Oh, yes. Not from writing it. That's hard work. If it weren't, it would be hard reading, and if it was that, it wouldn't be read for long, But I've had great joy from the knowledge that I've occasionally brought some pleasure, or sur- cease from pain, to someone. One ancient lady wrote painfully, from her old folks' home bed, that she had laughed until she cried, at one column. A young Canadian woman, in New Zealand, wrote that she'd been in despair, everything black, had read my column in her hometown paper, had laughed aloud, and had realized that God was still in His heaven, if she could laugh. I won't tell you about the rotten letters I've received. They're few, they're usually bigoted, and they don't bother me. Now, Mary Graham, jour- nalism student. You want an anecdote from my days as a weekly editor. Here's a true one, How would you cover it, as a reporter? A man had a fight with his wife, got all drunked up, and told her he was going to commit suicide. She told him to go ahead, He marched out to his car, Went roaring off, drove it right off the town dock and into that blackness that waits for all of us. Next morning, they found him. Sound asleep in his car, which had landed on a barge tied up to the deck. His wife had the last six or seven hundred words, 25 Years Ago A picnic for parents and students was held at Bissett's School, Usborne. At the close of the evening a presentation was made to Miss Pat Hay, the retiring teacher, of a silver tea service. Biggest obstacle to the establishment of a provincial park at the Lake Huron Pinery is the Township of Bosanquet which would lose some $6,000 in taxes. Fifty pounds of turkey were consumed by 30 members of the Ilensall Club and executive at a dinner served at the home of Mr. & Mrs. Alex Mousseau, It was one of the best yet. 20 Years Ago Exeter Kinsmen Playground officially opened on Tuesday with an attendance of 212. Recreation • director Doug Smith is in charge, Ilensall Public School Board acting on the advice of district inspector, John G. Gomm), has purchased a site for the new school on the south side of the village. Parents and pupils of SS'No. 4 Usborne, gathered for a. picnic at the school grounds, Friday evening,. to honor Mr, Burton Morgan who has accepted a position in St. IVIarys, tended victim is only a cockroach. A compromise has been reached, fortunately. While the Jainists will not kill cockroaches, they see no wrong in having the public health office undertake that task for them. An interesting aspect of the story is the information that up to 50 percent of Toronto high-rises now have some kind of cockroach infestation, according to one pest control company. + + + The recent air strike caused a great deal of anguish for many Canadians, but the situation was welcomed by hundreds of Etobicoke residents. They are the people who live under Toronto International's flight patterns.. Not only was the peace and quiet appreciated, so was the disappearance of the offensive odor created by the great gas guzzlers in the air. While many area readers may have difficulty appreciating the problem of living near a large airport, it is not too difficult to comprehend the noise and smog when you realize that one jet flies over your property every two minutes. We just can't figure out why they bother to live there! + + + And finally, we pass along some information on what can be done with those old rotting train stations which are included in the scenery of most communities. The Town of Milton has moved their station to a small park on the outskirts of the community and turned it intoan information booth for travellers. With a fresh coat of paint and, some repairs, it looks most at- tractive in its new setting. 15 Years Ago Ted Wilson and Geo, Godbolt, the first two Exeter Scouts to attend a Canadian jamboree left Wednesday morning by bus for Ottawa. ' Thieves used nitroglycerine to open the safe at Hensall Post Office from which they stole over $15,000 in cash and negotiable supplies early Friday morning. When the crew of a CNR freight noticed a cow in a Brucefield field next to the tracks having dif- ficulty giving birth to a calf they stopped the 'train and blew the whistle loud and long until they attracted the farmer's attention. The calf died but the cow was saved, 5 Years Ago The first observance of Friedsburg Days in Dashwood was a tremendous success. More than 6,000 persons attended the Friday and Saturday celebrations and the large crowds overwhelmed the com- mittee in charge. While attending Exeter council meeting on another matter recently members of the Exeter fire department issued a plea to the public to stay out Of their way when the fire siren rings. Ken Hardy, one of Lucan drivers at the Western Fair Raceway, has been rated the Raceway's second best driver, with 13 wins, 11 seconds and nine thirds, Seems to me there was a popular song a few years back called, `I Am the Great Pretender'. It was about a boy who was pretending he wasn't hurt by a girl who had jilted him, when really, he was all broken up inside. Most of us, like him, are great pretenders. We ' pretend everything is just fine when our lives are falling apart. We pretend we are honest when we are dishonest and accept cheating as a way of life. We act as if we're accepting certain situations calmly and reasonably when inside we are seething with anger. And so it goes, on and on. Rarely do we ask ourselves, "Who am I, really?" "How do I really feel?" "Have I ever let anyone else know how I really feel?" The lie we live is probably one we tell only to ourselves, for mast people close to us usually see more than we think but are too polite to tell us. Our churches should be the very places where we can confess to what we really are and feel, but unfortunately this usually isn't true. It isn't true because most churchpeople are afraid if they made these confessions they would be received with icy stares, rejection, or at best embarrassment. How different it was with Jesus. During his time on earth, he dealt with every sin that any of us has committed or is now practising and He dealt with it realistically. He associated with chislers, alcoholics, call-girls. He didn't condone what they did, nor did He leave them as He found them, but the record shows they enjoyed His company and felt easy with Him. Author Bruce Larson says a cocktail bar is possibly the best counterfeit there is to the fellowship Christ wants to give His church. It's an imitation but it's like the thing the church ought to be, only with liquor at the center, not grace . . . escape, not reality. A bar has permissive accepting , and inclusive fellowship. It's unshockable. It's democratic. You can tell people secrets and nobody goes out and tells others or even wants to. The cocktail bar flourishes, says Larson, not because most people are alcoholics but because God has put into the human heart the ' desire to know and be known, to love and be loved. "The Church usually isnot this, so many seek a counterfeit at the price of a few beers." Christ wants the Church to be unshockable, democratic, per- missive and filled with the real Spirit . . . a fellowship where people can come in and say, "I'm beat!" "I'm angry!" "I've had it!" Alcoholics ,Anonymous has this quality, Why is it the Church often misses it? Mast church members are genuinely committed to Jesus Christ but that's not enough, It's good but it's not enough. There has to be More than one more alter call, one more decision card, one more retreat, etc. Quoting from the New Testament, Larson says the equation of Christianity is four- fold: "And they continued steadfast in the apostles' doctrine and fellowship, the breaking of bread and prayers." (Acts 2:42) Most churches, he points out, are strong on doctrine, prayers and communion but the apostolic fellowship is missing. "It isn't the only way to the renewal of the Church, but it's part of the whole pattern. A three wheeled wagon can't go very far," "A fellowship must exist where committed people can begin to be honest with one another and discover the dimension of apostolic fellowship." Most pagans have more open, honesty than many Christians. They cheat on their income tax and laugh about it on the golf course. They get drunk in front of their whole club. They tell their marital troubles to their hair- dresser, They talk honestly with the bartender about problems with their children; and talk deeply to their psychiatrist. They speak indiscreetly in the locker room to each other. They have an openness and aeransparency that is healthy but since they have no commitment they often live desolate and empty lives. But when one of these open, honest pagans comes to a place where there is a chance to make a decision that allows Christ to come into their lives, WOW, we see them recreated and reshaped in the Spirit right before our eyes. To have a Christian life that has power, of course com- mitment is necessary but honesty before God in the presence of others (call it con- fession if you like) is thelkey,that will open the way to bring freedom, release and strength. I have found that honesty is the key to personal effectiveness, If I am speaking to one person or to it one hundred, God can use my confessed redeemed failures more than a fancy 'theological talk. Nothing ever seems to happen when I'm not honest about myself with a person who comes in need. Next week, I shall write something about the small fellowship groups that are springing up all over among lay people who are discovering strength and a new way of life by not pretending any more. ing the roadway to the beach and the snowmobile trails in the Parkhill Conservation Area. The south Experience '76 crew will be working in Rock Glen, Thedford and Port Franks Con- servation Areas. The students include Cindy Dunsford, Carolyn Lagerwerf, Anne Bullock and Beatrice Massechlein. They will be involved in maintenance of all southern parks and con- struction of new docking facilit- ies at Port Franks. The Construction crew, con- sisting of Beatrice Schofield, and Barb Ratz have already spent time constructing the gate at Port Blake. They will also construct the new gatehouse at Rock Glen'Conservation Area. The Municpal crew consists of a foreman, Tom Creech and Leisa Ritchie, Paul Fydenchuk and Agnes VanEsbroeke. Muni- cipalities were contacted earlier in the spring requesting they make application for assistance and where possible, assistance will be given. Some of the municipal projects include ceme- tery restoration and clean-up at Arkona, beach cleanup at Bay- field, roadside clean-up in, the townships of Lobo, McGillivray and West Williams, clean-up of the creek following through l'Iensall dump, municipal ditch clean-up in Dublin and other projects in Stanley and Tucker- smith townships. The four technical positiops have been fined by University Students. The two technical planning students are Sergio Pompilit involved in preparation of re- j and Craig Piper, They will be Wil source inventories and topo- Please turn to Page 5 Coo-ool, savage, the six-year-olds scream at some far-out revelation that has just blown their tiny minds. Right on! the teenagers respond in a kind of warm camaraderie that makes their groupiness so all inclusive, yet so terribly exclusive too. Have a good day, Now there',s one that started off, we suspect, from the treacly in- anities of some morning disc jockey and seems to have spread with stunning in- sincerity to every situation that occurs before noon. Everyone from store clerks to cab drivers to newsstand vendors to elevator operators to distracted traffic cops spread this good word. And then there's far-out which seems to thrust aside such trite phrases as marvellous or wonderful or even fantastic. And what person under 40 ever finds anything that's•terrific anymore? In any age, the phrases and words that Far-out baby •;;;;E•AgEiti::::::3;f: But it's an ill wind that doesn't blow some good, and the weatherman was no doubt responsible 'for a sizeable in- crease in the number of "readers" during the wet holiday period. The writer had intended to spend the holiday lazing about the pool at the Milton residenceof the William Pollens, but founc114 that it was even too wet for that activity, which indicates just how miserable things can get. Too wet to go swimming! So we joined the readers, taking advantage of the con- ditions to catch up on the current events as portrayed in the Toronto area daily and weekly newspapers. We pass along some of our findings in the hope that you'll find them of interest and get some insight into what is going on with our urban cousins. + + + Perhaps the most interesting item was gleaned from the Mississauga News. It notes that the council of that sprawling suburb of Toronto have taken some rather severe action against people who allow their dogs to wander. People who let Rover rove a bit too far in that area face fines of up to $1,000. That's right, one C note! A report on the council discussion indicated that most members felt it was the only way to make people keep their dogs under control and end the rash of complaints from others who are fed up with having to clear animal waste from their properties, + + + In Peel County, a family court judge has instituted a program whereby young offenders in his court will be sentenced to work periods rather than paying fines or other penalties. Eight youngsters, all male and between the ages of 13 and 15 will spend most of their summer vacation working in program and maintenance activities for the county recreation and board of education departments. A similar program has been attempted in Goderich, where Judge Carter recently sentenced seihie yOuths work hi ° that cdmmunity at a variety of ac- tivities. At first glance, the programs appear sensible. Get the kids into some beneficial work to pay off their debt to society. However, there is an obvious danger in- volved if work is considered as punishment. Society is already filled with too many people who seem to have this attitude and it- would he unfortunate if the numbers grew. + + + Most people would agree that the only good cockroach is a dead one. It's hard to feel much sympathy for the little brown bug, which the Toronto Star notes has taken over ahead of mice, rats and termites as Canada's Public Enemy No. 1. However, Toronto officials are having some problems in their fight because the city contains some 250 Jainists. Jainism, in case yon didn't know, is a religious order and its members believe all forms of violence and killing are evil, even if the in- The Ausable-Bayfield Conser-, vation Authority has hired 24 summer students under funding from the Ontario Government's Experience '76 Program, Project No. 130. The students have been assign- ed to certain crews in the differ- ent conservation areas within the Watershed, They and the Authority's per- manent staff will be involved in the maintenance and develop- ment of those areas. Ford of Canada, again this year, has donated three vehicles to our particular Experience '76 program as part of their "Work- mg with Youth" program. The crews are made up of University and College students who will work for thirteen weeks and Secondary School students who will be employed for seven weeks, starting July 5th, The north Experience '76 crew consists of Janice Stewart, Pat Faber, Lori Sims and Jim Fer- guson. They cover all the con- servation areas in the northern part of the Watershed. They first project involved the pre- paration of Port Blake for the Official Opening June 9th. Future projects include brush- ing, clearing and general cleanup at Crediton, Morrison Dam and Clinton Conservation Areas, also to Zurich and Dublin. The Bannockburn Wildlife Area will receive trail maintenance, a sign and a shelter. The Parkhill Experience '16 crew consists of Bruce Williams, Bernie Rotten, Randy Politick, Rose Westhaver and Janie Robertson. These students will be involved in such construction projects as new boat dockS, canoe racks, and playground equipment. They will be improv-