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HomeMy WebLinkAboutThe Exeter Times-Advocate, 1975-07-10, Page 4,, ,,,,,,,, ............... ,, ............. .... .. ' . . ..... . Do your share If anyone argues with the suggestion that the communities in this area are not tourist spots, they only have to attempt to get across the road on a busy Friday after- noon. To be sure, most of these people are just passing through on their destinations to vacation havens elsewhere, but poten- tially they are customers. Despite the rush to get to their destinations, many of these people will stop if they seesomething that catches their eye, or at least they may remember the com- munity for its attractive appearance and come back when they have more time at their disposal. The Milton Chamber of Commerce recently urged their members to look at themselves to see hbw they treat visitors, strangers and tourists. —Do I give visitors to my place of business a sincere welcome? —How much effort do I make to evaluate this constantly? —Is my staff courteous and do they smile at customers to help maintain a friendly atmosphere? —How good is overall staff morale? —How much opportunity do customers have to talk to myself and my staff? —How much effort do I make to dis- cover what customers think? —How aware am I of changing trends in the business? —How effectively does my business reflect these changes? —How good is the overall appearance of my business—are displays clean and well presented—are displays changed fre- quently to create interest—are members of my staff clean and tidy? —How much of an effort do I make to participate in activities designed to promote tourism and travel in my area? Without customers you would soon be out of business. Local people, tourists or strangers are all your customers! Make them want to come back, says the Chamber. t/141 041 tprlowromaNNOL TaY I RE CALLED 500k 5 ! TOT'S ...Nu Mow,. LIE!...?" VON? 1 ME4a. 1•411115 .1tLitflATC If HAI? -cf Depends on point of view Our response to now By ELMORE BOOMER Counsellor for Information South Huron For appointment phone: 235-0560 An ounce of prevention Sirloin steak sold for $1.83 a pound in Ottawa on May 7. Not exactly bargain- basement eating, but compared with a year ago ,,yvhen it was 6 per cent higher, not a bad Viiy i,says the Financial Post. And com- pared with the same piece of meat, which sold in Tokyo for $15.59, a virtual steal. That fact was part of a recent survey conducted by the U.S. Department of Agriculture on retail prices in 15 different world capitals. The results showed Ot- tawans paying a good deal less for their food than residents of many other capitals. Actually, of 18 different foods, Ottawa prices fell below the median in all but five. The five foods priced higher than the me- dian for all capitals were whole milk, cook- ing oil, yellow onions, rice and sugar. A Finance Minister John Turner may not be the most unpopular man in Canada at the present time, but few people will be able to name anyone ahead of him in that category. His recent budget with hefty hikes for gasoline and all home heating fuels hit every resident in the nation and favorable comment on the budget is about as difficult to find as a snow ball in you know where. The budget has left Ontario Liberal leader Robert Nixon squirming, and while he nor his cohorts in Ontario had anything to do with Turner's strange way of fighting inflation, there are still a great number of people who find it difficult to separate one Liberal from another. Budget deals many blows Progress? I hate it! Still a bargain Among the most expensive capitals to eat in besides Tokyo, were Copenhagen„ Brussels, Bonn, and Stockholm. Among the cheapest was Buenos Aires, where the government-controlled price of sirloin is still only .73 cents a pound, pork chops 29 cents a pound, and whole milk 17 cents a quart. That, although Argentina showed the worst year-to-year inflation in food prices of the 15 capitals - up 53 per cent. similar picture emerged from a com- parison of prices within the capitals on a year - to year basis. Whether the price went up or down, Ottawans fared better than the median in five of the 14 foods surveyed. Of the five, pork chops, bacon and yellow onions were the most inflated. It could make the upcoming Ontario election more interesting unless Mr. Nixon can come up with some method to politely tell voters he doesn't even know his party cohorts who operate in Ottawa. Of course, Mr. Nixon has stated that Premier William Davis used the wrong tac- tics in attempting to keep the price of oil down, but it is a poor camouflage job and Mr. Nixon probably knows it. At any rate, the federal Liberal budget just may be the. one spark of hope the On- tario PCs need to overcome the great dis- satisfaction they have been facing with their voters. H elp never too fare away might see only the drabness of Spadina Road? (And there were several at the conference who did just that, having rushed in from the airport and hurried back again as soon as it was over.) What about them? They wouldn't be aware there are. many lush green areas in the city and certainly wouldn't have a clue of anything as spectacular as University Avenue. They would depart reporting it was one of the ugliest cities on the globe. Of course, both parties would be right. Parts of Toronto are ugly almost beyond telling, while others are so lovely they, too, defy description. So it is with life and the world around us. Part of it is sordid . • . so despicable we sometimes begin to think there's nothing good left and so we cease to ex- plore for the things that are pleasing. We become depressed by all the had we hear. The morning paper or TV newscast leaves us so low in spirit we are tempted to sigh, to give up and accept the statement the world has gone to the dogs. But if we will look for it we will find beauty and goodness surrounding us, on every side. Concerned and loving people still make up the majority. We need to adopt an air of bright optimism rather than black pessimism. During a conversation recently someone remarked, "Do you know that in America one out of five marriages end in divorce?" To which another exclaimed, "That's great! It means four out of five marriages are holding together! To me that's good news in these difficult times," You see, it all depends on your 'point of_view. Jesus said,"Be of good cheer." Many people have a peculiar idea of "progress." They confuse it with change or growth for their own sakes. All too often, these ' things represent regress, rather than progress. I try not to be bitter, but I have a perfect example of that kind of "progress" right outside my front door. When we moved to this house, it was on a quiet, residential street, a leafy tunnel of voluptuous maples and stately oaks, with a green boulevard on each side of the street, It was gentle and pleasant and safe for children. The town council, in the name of progress, tore out the boulevard, cut down some trees, and widened the street. Results? We now have a speedway out front, and you can scarcely risk crossing the street to the mailbox. The squeal of tires makes the nights hideous, as the punks try to proclaim their dubious manhood, The remaining Times Established 1873 Phone 235-1331 it trees are dying because their natural environment has been disturbed and because they get a heavy dose of sprayed salt from the snowplow each winter. Much beauty lost, and the only ugly things on the street, dead cedar poles for telephone and hydro, left standing in their nakedness, Just to complete the picture, there has been a "development," which is synonymous with progress in many small minds, at the end of our street. What was once glorious bushland is now an asphalt wasteland inhabited by supermarkets, a gaggle of gas stations, and the inevitable hamburger joints and milk stores. Because of the "development" and its accompanying "progress," traffic on our street has quintupled about five times, with the accompanying multiplication of stink and noise. Tough luck, says you. Right, Advocate Established 1881 says I. But this is not just a private beef, I've seen this sort of thing happen so often on hand- some old streets in pleasant small towns that it makes me sick. First move of the progress- happy morons is usually to cut down the trees, some of them 70 years old, so that they can widen the road, Grace and shade and dignity are sacrificed to the number one god of North America — the car. In the cities, the same process holds. Potential parklands are turned into instant parking lots. Thruways slaughter miles of greenery. Ranking high among the villains are the "developers." In more enlightened cultures, they would be called ecological rapists. They take a section of beautiful bushland, fertile far- mland, or lush fruitland. They send in their bulldozers to ensure Amalgamated 1924 The Huron Medical Society has to be given an "E" for effort in staging their recent public forum which was aimed at giving the general public in this area an opportunity to present briefs, questions or criticisms relating to medical service. It was, unfortunately, a flop. Part of the problem may have been in the timing of the event on a holiday weekend period, although if three doctors can take time from their busy schedules to appear it is realistic to assume members of the public could do the same. Dr. Charles Wallace is probably partially correct in assuming that the lack of at- tendance indicates a general satisfaction with medical ser- vices, although in many cases people who normally complain don't have the intestinal fortitude required to appear in person to air their complaints and get answers to their problems. that the property will look like no-man's-land, They then carve it into 50-foot lots and jam in the jerry-built houses, cheek by jowl, give the whole thing a fancy name, spend a fortune on ad- vertising, and flog the swollen- priced abortions, to poor suckers who are so desperate for a house of their own they shoulder a mortgage they can never possibly get out from under. This, when Canada has more land that is useless for anything else but building than it can ever use. That is "progress." Oh, "progress" has many faces, and many sounds, and not a few smells. Far below the roar of the over- sized, over-priced cars burning up precious energy as they whoosh down the superhighways may be heard the whimper of starving children. Behind the smiling face and honeyed words of the Public Relations Department can be seen something not unlike a mountain range — huge, ever- growing piles of non-returnable bottles, rusting cans, and in- destructible plastic garbage. And the stinks! "Progress" will take a cool, clean, sweet trout stream and poison it with chemicals and detergents and other toxic elements, because "We need the industry." And the big, belching smokestacks go right on belching their nauseous gases from their rotten stomachs, laughing hilariously when the government slaps them on the wrist with a staggering $25 fine. "Progress" hoists, again and again, the taxes on booze, because governments would fall without that revenue, and sets up a cheap and panty-waist program barely hinting at the evils of drink. "Progress" produces bigger cars that go faster and burn more fuel on bigger highways, the vehicles propelled, in many cases, by drivers who couldn't handle a crisis in a kiddie-car race. "Progress" taxes everything but the living breath of the working stiff, but encourages the plumpies with the expense ac- counts and the credit cards to go out and live it up and lie and cheat on their taxes. Medical "progress" means turning a great number of adult neurotics into drug addicts by socking the pills to them, and with the other hand giving a stiff- arm in the face to the dirty, sick, frightened kids of the drug age, A pretty dim view of progress? It is, as many people look on the word. But surely there are enough of us left who believe in the real meaning of the word — moral, social and intellectual progress — to try to do something about the spreading sickness, Same time next Sunday, please. In the Meantime, on guard against the "progress" people. These people appear to get a greater satisfaction from airing their views on street corners and over back fences, and their validity must be questioned when they fail to grasp opportunities such as the forum to present their cases where they could con- ceivably get some results. The same thing is true in many walks of life and certainly municipal councillors face the same problem. People complain about many decisions, but when public meetings are called, they stay away in droves. One of the discussions that was generated at the medical forum was over the availability of medical attention in emergency situations. There was a suggestion that a lack of com- munication may be apparent in this regard and also that some changes could be implemented to the benefit of all. Ironically, the writer was faced with an emergency situation only a couple of hours after returning 'home from the meeting. A neighbor fell and broke her hip and the writer and his wife happened to be the first on the scene and received a real life experience on the type of medical assistance available. An ambulance and the lady's family doctor were called and within a few short minutes both arrived on the scene and the victim was on her way to hospital. Based on the writer's own experience, this was not an unusual situation, and we have never had cause to express con- cern over any delays in medical assistance. No doubt there are readers who may speak to the contrary, but it is only natural that there may be delays at times because of prior commitments or other situations. The forum was not entirely futile and perhaps a similar meeting held at a more opportune time in another community may encounter less public apathy than was indicated here. + + + In case you didn't notice, Exeter merchants displayed a fair bit of patriotism in flying flags over the Dominion Day weekend. The flags and holders had been sold to the merchants by the Board of Trade and there will be few people in this community who will be able to recall seeing as many flags flying as there 50 years ago Clinton held an Old Boys Reunion this week, Eleven head of cattle were killed by lightning on the pasture farm of Mr. Don Oestricher on the Lake Road during the thunder storm which passed over the district. Mrs. Jane Snell of Huron Street celebrated her eighty-fifth bir- thday on Wednesday of this week. It has been decided to hold free out door moving picture shows in Crediton Athletic field on Saturday evenings for the rest of the summer, The biggest attraction in Exeter during the past week has been the merry-go-round and some half dozen concessions moved to Exeter from Clinton and pitched tent on a lot on the corner of William and Gidley streets Friday evening last and for three nights they attracted large crowds. Entrance results in Stephen this year are as follows; No, 1, Hazel Hay (A); No, 2, Agnes Larnport; No,. 3, Eli Christie; No. 5, Lulu Kerr; NO, 6, Dorothy Smith; No, 7, Mary McEachen; No. 8, Eddie Gill, Lyman Gratton (B), Velma Gratton (13), Carlyle Taylor; No, 10, Nola Hodgins, Kenneth Hodgins, Lloyd Love; were for the holiday. Once again, however, the holiday situation was most confused as a number of people took Monday and others took Tuesday. The luckiest were those who managed to get both days, particularly when they also chose to remain closed for Wednesday. A mid-week holiday just doesn't seem to make much sense anymore and we are of the opinion that Dominion Day — or Canada Day if you prefer — should be staged on the first Monday of July to provide some continuity and also a long weekend. Industries find it just too costly to close down for a mid-week holiday, and when they decide to take Monday off while others have another day, their em- ployees miss out on many of the events being specially staged for the holiday. There appears to he no reason to suggest that patriotism would be affected by such a change, because it is not the uppermost thought on the part of most people at any rate. The holiday is the thing . . . and it may as well be designated for one particular day which would be agreeable for everyone. + + -1- The response to, Exeter's Canada Week activities was less than overwhelming, due in part to the fact many people went away for the holiday, plus it was too hot for many people to con- sider getting out to enjoy some of the attractions. However, most of them were conducted at little cost to the organizers so large numbers of patrons were not required to meet costs. They did involve a com- mitment of time and effort, though, and it is unfortunate that the public appears most apathetic over such events as the opening of a new tennis court, a community picnic or a soccer tournament. Hopefully, the participants did enjoy themselves, and some of the events, such as the Green Thumb awards, should certainly be carried through in future years. But it becomes clear that costly attractions are a gamble unless the organizers are prepared to get out and hustle advance tickets. No. 11, Marjorie Morenz; No. 12, Alex Desjardine, Donald Desjardine. 25 years ago Hon. Ray Lawson, Lieutenant- Governor of Ontario pinned RCAF pilot's wings on 32 airmen during graduation ceremonies at RCAF Station Centralia on Friday. Rev. & Mrs. Donald Sinclair will attend the World Convention on Christian Education in Toronto, August 10 to 16. Night Constable William Wareing is on two week's holidays. Largest road repairing program in the history of Mid- dlesex County this year will in- clude surfacing of No, 4 Highway from north of Lucan to five miles south of Exeter, Miss Norma Wilson operator at the Lyric Theatre, has received her operator's license qualifying her, as a licensed operator for any theatre in Ontario. Police Chief Norry was sket- ched by two amateur sketchers while in town for the holiday. ti 15 years ago Huron MPP C. S. Mac- Naughton Ind] ca ted this week that the LCBO may establish retail Last week I was in Toronto attending a seminar in a very depressing part of the city, Spadina Road north of Bloor. Most of the buildings are old, many of them crumbling and right now the bleakness of the area is fortified by the fact the subway is being extended up Spadina. Huge machines pound and bite into the streets as they belch out smoke and fumes, The noise vibrates through the buildings and penetrates minds and bodies. Grit and dust sift in to cover everything. While I was there the heat and humidity stuck us to our chairs causing us to lift the varnish every time we got up. Worst of all, we couldn't sleep through the noise of the traffic that roared past our window until three a.m. and started up again at half past five, The day after the event was over, I hired a taxi early in the morning to drive me to the train. The kind taximan routed me down University Avenue drawing my attention to everything to be seen. In the morning sunlight it was a glorious sight. Divided by a centre boulevard, the Avenue is graced by glit- tering buildings, one of which appeared to be constructed of blue ceramics, The street is lined with trees, large and small, some reflected in pools. Flower beds in intricate designs and vivid colors bedeck the avenue in sparkling symmetry. Fountains splash and dance to delight the eye and fascinate the senses. Surely a visitor to Toronto who had the opportunity to see only this street would leave believing the city was one of the most picturesque in the world. But what about those who By REV. GLEN WRIGHT Exeter United Church "Love and marriage go together like a horse and carriage. But when courtship love is hooked to the carriage of marriage — it's a horse of a different colour. Courtship love is irresponsible. That's why it's so much fun. Married love is responsible. That's why it's so mature." Those words of wisdom are from Dr. Carl Micholson, spoken a decade ago. Since that time a good many words of wisdom have been written about marriage. But in spite of the wisdom, marriages are breaking down and couples are breaking up at alarming rates and in frightening numbers. Your best friend who had the perfect wedding and the near perfect marriage has just an- nounced that things aren't going so well, to say the least. And that couple who had spent so many years together and had raised that great family are now calling it quits. That's frightening because it could happen to our sons or daughters or to parents. It could happen to us. Why so many problems? I believe that we are suffering from expectations that are too high. The positive side effect is that marriage can be better than it ever was when it's working well liquor and beer stores in Exeter. ' Conklin Lumber Company has opened a new lumber yard in Exeter and a showroom and office at Grand Bend, and pur- chased a site in Goderich where it intends to build in the near future, Mr. & Mrs. Charles Kading celebrated their diamond wed-, ding anniversary this week. About 80 secondary school administrators, most of them from cities in Ontario toured SHDHS Wednesday "to see what a small town high school looks like." The Catholic parishionersR oonia of Cnentralia RCAF station gathered Wednesday to honor their padre, Rev. G. C. Grant, on the 25th anniversary of his ordination. 10 years ago Constable Dale Lamont joined the staff of the Exeter OPP this week, following a training period after his February discharge from the navy. Exeter's new swimming pool, being used extensively these warm days, will be officially opened Wednesday afternoon. Canada's 98th birthday was marked in Exeter with the raising of the new flag. About 50 people Vvere on hand at the brief ceremony sponsored by council, Nine yearling steers owned by Maurice "Pete" Coates, rat 1 Centralia, were killed when struck by lightening during the violent electrical storm Friday. — but the pressures for its health can destroy it. I'll lay some of the blame on all those neat family situation TV programs which, though they show us what marriage and family might be, don't deal with marriage and family as it is — so at best are entertaining fantasy. Relationships aren't like that. The second pressure is related because it's cultural, as well as personal and that is a low tolerance for frustration and a high demand for instant gratification. Maybe it started in the person, who having lived through the depression vowed to make things a lot easier for son or daughter. Or it starts when he makes enough noise, he gets what he wants. The parent learns that noise causes headaches and it's easier to do it yourself than to put up with the hassle of trying to get children to be responsible. So the child wins and the parent loses, though, in fact, both are losers. The child "grows up" but learns the science of manipulation instead of the art of maturity. You can get away with im- maturity in courtship — but not in marriage. A young couple is looking at financial priorities. The husband wants to spent money on a vacation, new car, boat, snowmobile, etc. The wife doesn't feel secure unless there is money in the bank and a savings account for each of the children, Moreover, she handles the money. He tried it — but he never seemed to get hills paid on time. Both accuse the other of being Unrealistic — but she is better at arguing so he sulks or goes to the pub. She becomes more like a parent. He becomes more like a child. She scolds as her parents did, He spends and drinks more. She feels guilty coming on like mother all the time, so says nothing. Then one day she finds she doesn't feel the same toward him. He knows something's wrong but gets only silence . , How do you improve the situation? First, don't worry too much about negative feelings or no feelings. It's not permanent. It's a normal reaction to being hurt. Secondly, patterns and people can change. "You have to accept me as I am," is a cop-out. "I have to accept him or her the way he or she is" is pure fiction, Change is possible, though it could be painful. Thirdly, become informed about patterns or roles either through reading — and there are lots of books now, or by talking, with someone who knows about such things. Oh yes, and don't wait for an emergency. You know that Stuff about an ounce of prevention. It's for marriages too, SERVING CANADA'S BEST FARMLAND C.W.N.A., O.W.N.A, and ABC Publisher — Robert Southcott Editor — Bill Batten — Advertising Manager Assistant Editor — Ross Haugh Plant Manager — Les Webb Composition Manager — David Worby Published Each Thursday Morning at Exeter, Ontario Second Class Mail Registration Number 0386 Paid in Advance Circulation March 31, 1975 5,249 SUBSCRIPTION RATES: Canada $9.00 Per Year; USA $11.00