HomeMy WebLinkAboutThe Exeter Times-Advocate, 1974-10-31, Page 4Costly, impractical alternative
Stephen township's opposition to an
area sports complex as outlined by their
spokesman Dave McClure is a little dif-
ficult to understand and prompts the ques-
tion of whether council has really in-
vestigated the situation to any great extent.
There's certainly considerable merit in
the township council giving serious con-
sideration to recreation facilities in the
three police villages, but unfortunately the
economics dictate that some types of
facilities are just not feasible,
Mr. McClure indicates the township is
considering the erection of outdoor ar-
tificial ice rinks in the three police villages
and therefore have little interest in suppor-
ting a complex to serve a broader area.
The Times-Advocate did some in-
vestigation of the situation and called the
London PUC recreation department. A
spokesman explained that London has dis-
continued the use of outdoor rinks in all but
one case. "They're just not practical," he
said.
The weather factor is the primary
problem, and in comparison to indoor
facilities, they are able to operate too few
hours in view of the capital and
maintenance costs.
, The lone outdoor rink still in use in Lon-
don is the Victoria Park rink. That was
built three years ago at a cost of $75,000 and
the PUC have this year requested $23,000
for maintenance costs of that rink,
It is used only for skating as there are
no boards to facilitate hockey games.
'Any father who has labored over an
Trust a little word
"1 hoar they're going to reduce the speed
outdoor rink will tell you that the hours in-
vested pay a meagre return in the hours of
use provided, and while artificial rinks do
have more advantages, the vagaries of the
winter in South Huron almost rule them in-
feasible, particularly in view of the costs
involved,
Stephen Township council would
appear to be serving the winter recreation
needs of their ratepayers to greater advan-
tage by joining forces with other
municipalities to provide indoor facilities
on which their share of any cost would be
considerably less than the erection of three
outdoor artificial rinks or even one for that
matter.
They should at least be encouraged by
their ratepayers to make certain that
Stephen residents are on the investigating
committee so their interests will be con-
sidered.
The same holds true for all area
municipalities, because whether some of
them realize it or not, their youngsters will
be left without ice facilities just the same
as town residents the day someone puts the
lock on the Exeter arena,
As we have stated before, there is
some definite urgency in initiating planning
to replace the local structure and whether
or not any other facilities are constructed
at the same time or not, common sense dic-
tates that provisions be made so they can
be added at a later date.
Communities presently served by those
facilities in any way should be represented
on that investigating committee.
Real acceptance
It's a challenge that ladies in
all area communities should
consider aimed at them as well,
because at present only a handful
of the distaff side of our society
sit on councils or school boards,
The words expressed by some
members of Exeter council in-
dicate how much they feel the
community needs a woman's
voice on such groups and
hopefully the challenge issued by
Mrs. Jermyn will be picked up by
some in the next couple of weeks,
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It was disappointing to hear
Exeter council agree to "file"
the request which came from the
Ability Fund to prompt provin-
cial legislators into taking steps
to aid the handicapped on elec-
tion day.
The Ability Fund organizers
wanted council to endorse a
resolution from Toronto that
would have allowed election
-,•efficials,to catty the ballot box to,
Lastiweekend I heard a,preacher
tell this little story. He said that
when Saul's Israelite soldiers
saw the giant, Goliath, they
exclaimed, 'Good lord, he's so big
he'll kill us all!' and fled in
disarray. But David, looking at
the same giant, said, 'My
goodness, he's so big I can't miss
him.'
Now, we are all confronted by
giants of some kind or another
and how we approach them
makes all the difference in the
world, An old Russian proverb
says: 'A hammer shatters glass
but forges steel.' When the
hammers of life hit us do we
shatter like glass or are we
forged like steel by them?
Fear is one of the hammers
that hits nearly everyone.
Authorities tell,us it's the most
destructive and crippling af-
fliction of the human race.
It was surely fear that caused
Saul's army to quake at the sight
of Goliath and turned their knees
to jelly. What was it then that so
possessed David he would
fearlessly face the giant,
ultimately destroy him and come
out the victor?
What he had was a simple little
word . t-r-u-s-t. He knew
beyond a shadow of a doubt that
God, who had saved him from the
claws and teeth of lions and bears
that attacked his sheep, was well
able to protect him against the
horrendous Goliath. He trusted
God so much he was unaffected
by the fear that strangled the
kings army and still strangles
many people today. Because of
this he could review the situation
clearly and use all his potentials
(a good aim, a strong arm, a
stone and a sling shot) to
kill the monster who was
paralizing a whole army into
uselessness,
It would seem, then, that while
it is essential to arm ourselves
with trust in God, it's also usually
desirable to do something about
the situation ourselves.
Vincent Peale tells this story of
Pete Mesaro, a U.S. machinist's
mate. He was on a PT boat when
one dark night the boat suddenly
lurched throwing him against the
stanchion. Knocked unconscious
,:be toppled into the sea. When he
The United Church's new moderator,
the Rt. Rev. Wilbur Howard, was elected
not because he is black but because "he is a
good man who will make another good
moderator". The United Church Observer
says in its current issue.
"He would never have* been elected
because he was a black who had moved in
the right way in a white world," The
Observer remarks editorially. "The United
Church was not atoning for past sins or tell-
ing the world it was time to end race dis-
crimination. No one stepped aside for him:
the election went to five ballots. That, we
think, is real acceptance."
came to, there was no PT boat in
sight. He was alone in the vast
expanse of ocean with dawn just
beginning to streak the sky.
His leg bothered him so he
pulled it up and saw it was
bleeding, Then, to his horror he
caught a glimpse of the fin of a
shark, not 30 feet away. He went
so tense with fear he could hardly
breathe. He knew the blood
escaping from his leg would
attract other sharks, He began to
pray, not to be saved from the
shark because he thought that
was impossible but that God
would get it over with quickly and
take his soul into eternity.
A strange thing happened. His
mind went back to the Sunday
school he had attended as a child
and the life-sized cardboard
figure of Jesus in the corner of
the room with the large words
under it saying, 'Behold I come
quickly. Blessed is he who
believeth.' But he realized the
figure wasn't cardboard at all
and was Jesus Himself, actually
speaking those words and coming
toward him with outstretched
arms. Indescribably elated, Pete
began to swim with strong
strokes toward Jesus. But then
another shark joined the first and
the two of them converged at him
from different angles.
Spurred on by the inspiration of
Jesus he lashed out and kicked
like a madman. It was then that
the lookout on an American
destroyer, away off on the
horizon, saw the splashing and
guessed something was wrong.
The ship rushed toward him and
drove off the sharks with gunfire,
and an almost exhausted Pete
was gently lifted into the boat by
strong arms. •
Was this a miracle? Well, it's
an happening beyond the reach of
our understanding. Perhaps Pete
forgot himself in an ecstatic
realization of the love of Christ.
Had he died he would have died at
peace. But he still lives knowing
there is nothing he need be afraid
providing he trusts God.
In any crisis, we must try to do
all we can to reduce the risk and
protect ourselves but 'having
done all' as St. Paul says, we
must prayerfully entrust the rest
to God.
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While race and colour discrimination is
coming to an end in Canada, The Observer
says, it is ending not in assimilation but in
acceptance of differences. "God is not
colour blind. He can see the difference
between black and white. We know there is
goodness in the difference, and one is not
better than the other. It is a more beautiful
world because of its differences and
varieties."
Dr. Howard, minister of Emmanuel
United Church, Ottawa, was chosen
moderator at the church's biennial General
Council in Ahust.
The lost have been found!
Exeter clerk Eric Carscadden
informed us Thursday afternoon
that the drop in population for the
town was not accurate. When he
presented his figures to council,
he had failed to count the
separate school supporters,
So, instead of a decline of 80
people, Exeter actually had an
increase of 47 in its total
population, bringing the figure to
3,329.
While that's easier to com-
prehend than the earlier loss, the
writer is still mystified that
Exeter's population has changed
so little in recent years.
The declining birth rate ex-
plains some of the reason, but the
death rate doesn't appear to be
any higher than in other com-
munities, and is generally lower
than the birth rate.
On the other hand, Exeter has
experienced considerable ac-
tivity in new housing and apart-
ment units in recent years and
there are very few vacant homes.
So, why hasn't the town grown
to a greater extent?
• In this regard, we•checked over
the Town of Exeter official plan,-
the other day and noted that in
1965 the population was 3,200. It
noted that the increase in-
population over the five years
previous to that had been 417, an
annual increase of 83.
"Projecting this rate of in-
crease would indicate a
population of approximately 4,000
by 1971," the preamble
suggested.
We're a long way from
reaching that projection and it
would be interesting to hear what
the experts have to say now about
Exeter's anticipated population
growth in the next 10 years.
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Most families it seems have
some member who strikes off on
some adventure, and the Batten
family is no exception. Sister
Joan has recently embarked on a
trip across the Atlantic in a 60-
foot sailing vessel.
Seems that some French
millionaire had the craft built in
Halifax and needed it delivered
to France.
Joan's husband got involved
with some other former navy
types and . the seven of them
signed up as the crew and talked
her into going along as cook.
Our first communication
arrived this week after the crew
Our response to now
,.persons who arrive,,at. polling:
booths where they are unable to
get up stairs or navigate narrow
doorways in wheel chairs.
The idea had considerable
merit and would have caused
little inconvenience for election
officials and would have enabled
the handicapped in our com-
munities to cast their ballots as
others are able to do.
Some may argue that a proxy
vote gives them the same op-
portunity, but it obviously cannot
replace the personal satisfaction
of putting one's own ballot into a
box and knowing that it will be
counted when the election is ,over.
We think council should
reconsider, and while it may be
too late to get action for the up-
coming municipal election in
December, there no doubt will be
many more elections to follow.
Don't the handicapped deserve
some special considerations?
If council choose not to support
them, they should at least ensure
that the voting places they choose
do not prohibit access to those
who are handicapped.
had been at sea for some seven or
eight days - all but two of which
were featured by horrible
weather conditions.
Readers who know Joan will be
pleased to hear she is standing up
to the adventure in first class
condition, although she does
report some difficulties in
keeping three pots balanced on
the stove which rolls with the
waves, while at the same time
she has to use her knees to keep
the oven doors closed.
Her four young nephews were
particularly interested in lear-
ning that many of their hours are
spent in the company of schools
of up to 100 porpoises which play
games around their craft and
keep them amused.
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Well, ladies, the challenge has
been issued by Deputy-Reeve
Helen Jermyn, who announced
her retirement last week and said
she hoped some woman-or
preferably women - would follow
in her footsteps to keep the
female viewpoint on, Exeter
council.
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The readers write-
Gentlemen:
I would like to mention that my
wife, the former Vera Ogden,
who was born at Whalen, Ontario,
and I celebrated our 59th wedding
anniversary on September 29th,
1974.
I was born 3 miles north of
Lucan, Ontario, August 22 1893. I
am now in my 82nd year. My wife
will be 80 years of age on
November 18th, 1974.
We celebrated our "Golden
Wedding" nine years ago at
Grand Bend, Ontario in the Green
Forest Inn.
We have many fine friends
living in Exeter and Lucan areas.
We have been subscribers to
your paper for many years! In
fact, I have been a reader of your
paper since long before we were
married. My father was a sub-
scriber when it was "The Exeter
Advocate".
By ELMORE BOOMER
Counsellor for
Information South Huron
For appointment
235.2715 or 235-2474
Developing counselling service
Yours truly
E. R. F. Neil
naked, pick up a handful of sand,
and pour it over his left ear.
Never his right. It was a lot of
trouble, getting that sand out of
his ear. And he liked to eat sand,
was delighted if he got a handful
with a stone in it, for chewing.
But he's got his grandfather's
genes, which make him in-
telligent, charming, lovable, and
pretty well all-round perfect, as I
point out to my -wife.
Unfortunately he has his
mother's jeans, as well. Which
make him badtempered when
crossed, make him knock over
anything that's over-knockable.
But also give him eyes like two
huge dark grapes, a sense of
humor, and a smile like a
Christmas tree when the lights
have just been plugged in.
I have no trouble coping with
him, when he spends a visit, All I
do is make sure I've had twelve
hours sleep for the three nights
before he arrives, do extensive
calisthenics and some jogging for
three days before he arrives, Then
I'm ready for Super-Babe,
His parents are no problem.
His mother is satisfied with a
hug, a kiss, and a cheque. His
father is satisfied with a full
refrigerator,which he opens and
starts rubbing his stomach one
minute after we've shaken hands.
muscle, the incredible en-
durance.
The urchin is living proof to me
that humans have a soul, a will, a
spirit. Technology can put
together a computer, but it can't
begin to create, or even imitate,
the glory that is a baby,
I can imagine man devising a
machine which could reproduce
the sonorous lines of Milton, the
fantastic fancy of Shakespeare,
but there would always be
something missing.
Computers are clean things.
They don't have to go to the
bathroom. They don't have
under-arm problems: No corns or
constipation, arthritis or acne,
piles or pimples. But something
is missing. Soul? Maybe.
I'm not trying to foist upon you
the idea that my grandson is
perfect, or a genius even though
he is. I'm merely trying to
remind you, if you have grand-
children, of what a joy they are,
and if you have only rotten kids,
you have a precious experience in
store for your nether years.
My grandbab is not the most
beautiful child in the world. He'd
probably come in second, or
even third, in an international
Beautiful Baby contest.
And he's not the smartest. I
discovered this last summer, at
the beach. He'd sit there, stark
It's a fine, nay, a beautiful
October day and I have a fine,
nay, a beautiful feeling inside
me, I've just spent a weekend
with my grandbabby. The ex-
perience was enough to make me
feel that the daily grind, which
seems to get grindier, and
grindier, might be worthwhile
after all.
The Jews have a saying in one
of their books, that killing a man
is a terrible thing, because you
are not only killing him, but the
sons he might have and the sons
they might have and so on and on.
I think this is a fine thought.
This would apply equally to
killing a woman, though the Old
Testament Jews were not exactly
sold on Women's Lib,
If I had been killed in the war,
and there was a good chance I
would be, that grandbab would
not exist, and the whole world
would be poorer. I'm not kidding.
The existence of so much
delight and charm and laughter
and love, all wrapped up in one
perfectly formed nine-month old
creation, restores my faith,
which at times becomes a little
tattered around the edges, in
God.
Man alone, with all his gifts,
could never devise the shine in
that child's eyes, the mischievous
two-tooth grin, the sinuosity of
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By MRS. JEAN E. MOORE
Family and Children's Serices
During 1968, two London social
agencies, the Family Bureau, a
private agency supported by the
United Way, and the Children's
Aid Society amalgamated to form
the Famly and Children's Ser-
vices of London and Middlesex.
At that time, a commitment was
made that the voluntary
counselling service would be
extended to Middlesex.
Prior to that time, the volun-
tary counselling service had been
available from the Family
Bureau to county residents if they
would travel to the city offices.
Prior to that time, the volun-
tary counselling service had been
available from the Family
Bureau to county residents if they
would travel to the city offices,
However, few did.
So, honouring their com-
mitment, Family and Children's
Services, in late 1971, opened
three service centres in Mid-
dlesex County. At each centre a
worker would be available on a
regular basis for a part of each
week, Strathroy with some 6,000
persons and located 25 miles
from London was a natural
choice and in November, 1971,
Mrs. Virginia Jolley began of-
fering service at the Strathroy
Hospital which had kindly made
available office space.
Two other offices, one at
Dorchester and the other at
Lucan, commenced service a
month later. The latter two are at
the United Church in both areas,
It was fortunate that both
churches not only had suitable
space but were quite willing to
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Then they disappear, and I
have the kid on my lap. For about
eight seconds. Then he gives a
lurch, a twist, and he's down,
crawling at about forty miles an
hour straight into the fireplace,
Luckily I'm prepared. The
andirons are all locked away,
except the broom, which he uses
to comb his hair and bang his
forehead. Everything breakable,
reachable or fragile is locked in
the vestibule.
I toss a chess set on the floor.
Terrific. He picks up a rook,
crawls to the coffee table, so
carefully waxed and polished,
and proceeds to scrawl graffiti on
its shining surface. My wife looks
on in horror. "What the hell. You
can't take it with you," I offer,
I do a lot of other wrong things.
I take off his wet diaper and let
him crawl around on the Indian
rug, bare bum. I sing to him
barrack-room songs that would
curdle the blood. I let him chew
my fingers. I let him pull the cat's
tail.
And Nally, after three hours of
straight action, I pull him up on
my knee, hum an original lullaby
which goes "Doo-dee-doo-dee-
doo-dee-doo," and he goes to
sleep,
Asleep, he's the utter innocent,
' Garden of Eden, Soft and warm,
No hypocrisy, no lying, no
violence, no evil. It's beautiful.
Even though I'm so stiff I can't
get out of my chair three hours
later when his parents get home
from the ITIOVIOS,
UNICEF
'OCTOBER 31st
50 Years Ago
William Elsie of Grand Bend
and Melton Deitz of Zurich have
the distinction of being cham-
pions in this district for wild
geese shooting. On Monday they
shot eight and on Tuesday
they shotien which makes it 18 in
two days.
A hockey association was
formed in Exeter on Monday
evening at the Dome Rink. It was
decided to enter a team in the
O.H.A. Intermediates. The
colours will be orange and green.
Freeman Morlock has installed
a radio set with a loud speaker.
Needless to say Freeman's store
is quite a community centre.
Huron County Council is in
session this week, Reeve W. D.
Sanders, of Exeter, Reeve Wm.
Coates of Usborne and Reeve A.
Neeb of Stephen are in at-
tendance,
25 Years Ago
Cpl. R. B. Alward received
from C/0 W. F. M. Newson of the
Centralia RCAF Station the key
to the first home to be occupied
by married personnel. In process
of erection are 185 homes.
Cliff Brintnell, Rufus Kestle
and William Sims attended the
58th battalion, reunion dinner at
the King Edward Hotel, Toronto
Saturday night.
K. J. Lampman has completed
25 years service with the Ontario
Electric Power Commission, He
and Mrs, Lampman are spending
a month's holiday in Bermuda,
Ted Pooley picked some ripe
strawberries from his garden this
week.
have it used for this purpose.
In Strathroy, the worker may
be reached through the hospital
switchboard. In Dorchester and
Lucan, the agency provides an
answering service - 434-0611.
Since the beginning, there has
been a steady growth in the
number of persons seeking
service through these centres and
1974 seems to be continuing this
trend.
All types of cases were seen -
marriage problems (some-where
the couple involved is quite
young; others where the partners
are of more mature years)
parent-child problems; families
undergoing unusual emotional or
financial stress; adolescents with
difficulties; unmarried parents;
even some mentally ill persons.
Referrals come from many
sources - ministers; doctors;
public health nurses; school
personnel; police; neighbours;
friends, Some persons simply
seek out the service themselves
either by reading of it in a local
newspaper or locating it through
the telephone book.
As is common with a coun-
selling service, we frequently
find that a couple or individual
finally comes only after more
than one person has recom-
mended they seek help.
In a modern counselling ser-
vice we try, whenever suitable, to
make a contract with a couple or
family for a certain number of
interviews following which we
have an evaluation session
together, This gives the people
involved a goal to work toward;
and it challenges the counsellor
also to keep each session as
meaningful as possible.
As well, the counsellors try' to
act as resource persons for the
communities they visit, referring
people to a variety of specialized
services only available in Lon-
don; and'stimulating local groups
to meet community needs.
Those of us involved in the
extension Of this service in
Middlesex are convinced that it
will be one pattern that will be
followed in the future as delivery
systems change in the human
serviceS.
To be effective, a counselling
service must be close to the
people it is designed to serve.
The lost have been found
Oh, what a beautiful day
15 Years Ago
A ten-man hunting expedition
that left a week ago for Koko
Lake from Exeter and district
has returned with the catch of
two deer.Making up the members
of the party were Graham
Arthur, Jack Carr, George
Glendenning, Harold Holtzmann
and Bill Amos.
Poppy day campaign here was
very successful according to
chairman Harvey Pfaff. Top
collector again was Fred Wells
who raised more than $200
himself.
A portion of the residence of the
estate of Miss Helen T. Swan of
Hensall and London has been
awarded to the Canadian Council
of Churches to be used in refugee
work.
10 Years Ago
Area police officials this week
congratulated district youths on
their "good behavior" on
Halloween.Damage from vanda-
lism in the area was extremely
light,
A sanitary engineer from the
OWRC made several tests
Tuesday in an effort to determine
the source of the pollution in the
Ausable River which caused the
death of many fish this summer.
The test failed to indicate any
conclusive evidence of pollution.
About 200 members and friends
who attended the annual meeting
of Exeter District Co-Operative
last week learned that the
organization had experienced a
comparatively good year, despite
the loss of their building through
fire.