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The Exeter Times-Advocate, 1971-06-03, Page 10FRESH STRAWBERRY FLAN Companionship needed Volunteer's role outlined CAVEN HONORS COUPLE: Mr. and Mrs. William Sillery, centre, were honored Sunday for their many years of dedicated service to Caven Presbyterian Church. Mr. Sillery recently retired from 30 years as clerk of session. They were presented with a swivel chair and a reception was held for them after the morning service. Shown with them is Clifford Ersman, new clerk of session, and Rev. Wilfred Jarvis, minister. T-A photo Speaker tells of native Norway $AVE ON YOUR Beauty Aids Ladies Super Save "Hair Sprays" SAVE 30% Adrienne Hair Spray 14 oz. Adorn Hair Spray 6.3.oz. Miss Breck Hair Spray 16 oz. Sudden Beauty Hair Spray 16 oz. VO5 Hair Spray 16 oz. VO5 Hair Spray 81% oz. Mystique Wig Spray 14 oz, Loving Care Hair Color Get Set Shampoo 14 oz. 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They may not get reassurance from David Wilkerson's book, Parents on Trial' but the author does offer advice and suggestions as to how parents can more ef- fectively raise children who will benefit society rather than become a drag to it. For the most part, Mr. Wilkerson pulls no punches and puts the blame squarely on the shoulders of the parents whose children turn out badly. He interviewed hundreds of young people in preparation to writing the book and he states, "Ninety percent of the teenagers said they looked to their parents for instruction in what was right and wrong, but that their parents did not always fill this need. Only about half went with their per- sonal problems. Quite a few in- dicated they felt their parents withheld advice because they thought the youngsters did not want it." A twenty year old girl said the damage done by her over- indulgent mother, who had placed no restrictions on her, could never be repaired. Many other kids pinpointed the blame for their trouble on their mother, father or both. One boy said, "I think a lot of times parents are living two lives ...They want to be good parents and they want to bring up their children right, try to love their children and everything, but at the same time they're thinking a lot ,about their own lives. I can remember when I was very young some of the things my mother did which I thought were wrong. Even though I was very young, and maybe she didn't realize it, they still stuck in my mind." Wilkerson sums it up by saying, "If there is a thread that has run through my own experience with parents and children it is the thread of love in homes that have produced our "goodniks," and the thread of neglect or disin- terest in those that have turned out 'badniks.' He states if parents loved their children enough and showed their love, the stories of many delinquent kids would be quite different. Different View Point A somewhat different point of Mrs. A, Masseo of the London branch of the Association for the Mentally Retarded spoke to the "ierttr's 37 Ontrt -gxeter Auntral Pesigns 3inest 411 Wedding Arrangements cAppuintment .one 235-2603 eft 3Jirettch !mistier view is offered by Dr. Urie Bronfenbrenner, a child development specialist and a professor of psychology at Cornell. He asserts "What your child becomes is no longer within your power as a parent to control." Because, he says, youth's behavior today...be it good, anti- social or neutral_is most in- fluenced by peers and not by parents. Dr. Bronfenbrenner says no parent is immune from this 'peers overshadowing parents' or any of the other problems of trying to raise children in today's society. His main concern, as a psychologist and a parent (both he and Mr. Wilkerson have severalchildren),is what he calls the breakdown of our system in making human beings human, What's happening, he says is that parents are spending less and less time with their children doing things, and as a result children are left with their peers. Drugs and delinquency are the products of this kind of socialization, he says. But the doctor doesn't blame parents, He says the disadvantaged are so busy coping with the rot in their world they don't have time to be good parents and the ad- vantaged are so trapped in the rat race they haven't the time either. He is sorry to see housing projects segregate people by age so that they cut down children's exposure to a variety of age role models. He says parents can't do much acting alone except plan as many adult-child experiences as possible by taking them camping and on other kinds of outings. In other words, just take more time to be parents. Priorities must also change, he says. "Our society has come to put job first, church and civic duties second and parenthood last," An optimistic note comes from Rev. Murdo Nicolson, a nominee for moderator of the Presbyterian Church in Canada. He suggests that young people themselves are beginning to see the light and that a backlash of our permissive society is brewing... "There are astonishing developments within the high schools...many of the kids, who are nobody's fools, have begun to realize the importance of moral principles within any society and therefore activities in schools are increasing which recognize the return and value of religious and moral responsibilities." local branch at Exeter Public School, recently. She outlined the roll of the volunteer and said, "Nothing can function properly without the' volunteer." She stated that the board should be composed of one third each of parents, businessmen and service per- sonnel. Mrs. Masseo said the volunteer must have knowledge of the retardates needs. Help is needed in workshops with crafts, and in organizing friendly outings. She stressed that the retarded primarily need companionship. Mrs. Masseo also pointed out that volunteers can help mothers of retarded children by offering to baby sit to give the parent more freedom. She said often the new mother of a retarded baby just needs someone with an understanding ear she can talk to. Mrs. Margaret Purdy in- traduced the speaker and Miss Marion Bissett presented her with a gift of appreciation on behalf Of the mernherS, WHAT IS SO RARE AS A DAY IN JUNE? June is the time of year when it's good to be alive to enjoy all the wonders of nature that un- folds before our eyes. But there are many among us who can enjoy June only through a window. These are our shut-in friends who must lie or sit wat- ching the seasons change through a pane of glass. June 6 is SHUT-INS DAY. Add enjoyment to someone's life by a visit, a gift, or flowers from your garden. Failing this, a letter or card would let them know you're thinking of them. You'll be glad you did. Couple honored for church work Caven Presbyterian congregation honored two long- time members, Mr. & Mrs. William Sillery, Sunday, During the service, Rev. W. Jarvis paid tribute to the Sillerys for their faithful service to the Church, Mrs. Sillery joined Caven in 1913 and her husband has been a member since 1917. Mr. Sillery recently retired after 30 years as clerk of session. He was also on the board of managers for 37 years, and at one time served as treasurer of the church. An active and dedicated member of the Women's Missionary Society, Mrs. Sillery has filled every office of that organization. She sang in the choir for 42 years and held the position of choir leader for some time. She also played an active part in planning the centennial of Caven in 1961. In appreciation of their work, the congregation presented Mr. & Mrs. Sillery with a swivel rocking chair and held a reception for them after the morning services. Mrs. Dan McLeod and Mrs. Alex Miekle sang 'Great is Thy Faithfulness,' and Rev. Samuel Kerr spoke fittingly for the oc- casion. Recipe Box 1111111 lllllll I llllllllllll 11101111111111111111111111 lllllllllllllll FRESH STRAWBERRY FLAN (Makes 6 to 8 Servings) 6 tablespoons soft butter 1/4 cup sugar 1/4 teaspoon salt 1 egg yolk 1/2 teaspoon vanilla OR 1 teaspoon grated lemon rind 1 cup sifted all-purpose flour + + + 1 (approx. 5-ounce) package vanilla pudding and pie filling mix 1 pint (21/2 cups) light cream 1/2 cup milk 1 teaspoon rum extract + + + 1/2 cup crushed strawberries 1/2 cup water few drops red food coloring 1/3 cup sugar 1 tablespoon cornstarch 1 pint (approx. 2 cups) sliced strawberries For the Shell: Line an 8-inch round layer cake pan completely with aluminum foil. Preheat oven to 325 degrees F. Cream butter; gradually add the 1/4 cup sugar and salt and continue beating until light and fluffy. Beat in egg yolk and vanilla. Add flour, part at a time and chill 1/2 hour. Put chilled dough between sheets of waxed paper and roll into a 10-inch circle (pastry will be thick). Line prepared cake pan with pastry and carefully press in any pieces of dough that break off, making the sides slightly thicker than the bottom and even with the top rim of the pan. Decorate edges of pastry by pressing with the back of a knife. Chill 1/2 hour. Prick bottom and sides ofshell well. Bake in preheated (Wen 20 to 25 minutes or until browned. Cool completely in pan on cake rack. When cooled remove from pan; carefully remove foil. For the Filling: Prepare pudding and pie filling mix ac- cording to package directions using cream and milk. When Mixture is Smoothly thickened stir in rum extract. Cool 15 to 20 minutes, Pour into prepared flan shell; cool completely, For the Glaze: Combine crushed berries and water in a saucepan. Cook over medium heat 3 minutes; sieve. Add food coloring, if necessary. Combine the 1/3 cup sugar and cornstarch; gradually stir in berry juice. Cook over medium heat, stirring constantly until mixture is clear and Smoothly thickened. Cool slightly. Arrange strawberry slices in a decorative pattern over cooled filling, Spoon glaze over berries; chill, facts N' Fancies By QwYn Peva eueeditadow thAllefte4 Makes you feel better as well as look better, That's why most women like the entirely different principle of design used in Spencer-Spirella supports. Let your Spencer-Spirella corsetere show you how these foundations can help you. MRS. V. ARMSTRONG 89 ANNE W. EXETER, ONT. lllllll l AsmAillimesAmilool l lll The May meeting of the • Women's Institute was held with the historical research and current events committee in charge with Mrs. Robert Jeffery in the chair. Roll call, 'what was grand- father's occupation' was an- swered by all members. The motto, 'A wise mind is like a savings account put in a little every day' was given by Mrs. Ed Sillery. Hurondale Women's Institute sponsors five 4-H clubs and a number of the girls were present to exhibit the clothes made during their last club. Leaders for number I club was Mrs. Glen Stewart and Mrs. Don Bray. Debbie Etherington was commentator; for group II, Mrs. Maurice Love and Mrs. Stanley Frayne with commentator, Kathy Knight; for group III, Mrs. Wayne Tuckey and Mrs. Bev Skinner, commentator, Heather Mills. Mrs. Dean McKnight and Mrs. Arnold Mathers, leader for group IV were unable to attend. Group V leaders were Mrs. Floyd Stewart and Mrs. Harold Pat- terson commentator Sylvia Stewart. Mrs. Maurice Love thanked the Institute for sponsoring the 4-H clubs, Mrs. Carl Mills introduced the guest speaker, Mrs. Alan McLennan who spoke on her native country, Norway, and of her experiences in Africa as a nurse, She sang the Norwegian — Please turn to page 11 Page 1Q. llll AAA.A4111111111111111,1441114PIA 1!1111.11011111,11401AWIIIA .IA4110114 l A llll 111A&111.1011A !mill IAA IlleillA IAIAAIAA I