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HomeMy WebLinkAboutThe Exeter Times-Advocate, 1970-06-18, Page 9Poor old Pop! He doesn't get many crumbs of recognition thrown his way these days. Oh, once a year, like next 44 Sunday, we will present him with a too loud tie, a too large shirt, too small socks, some fishing gear be may not want, a mushy card and figure we've done right well by the old chap, The rest of the year we expect him to not only put bread and * butter on the table, but steaks, cake and ice cream, too. He is also supposed to spend a good part of his time listening to exaggerated stories, pleas for more allowance; play ball, hopscotch and pat-a-cake, help with lessons, mo del airplanes and kites; doctor cats and broken dolls, sings hymns and nursery rhymes and strive to be cheerful while keeping a roof over his family's head while they continue to demand more and more from him. * * * On T. V. he is often pictured as a lame brained dope, and nearly every publication he picks up informs him his role as a father is diminishing. Lately, scientists are looking at him with disdain as they tell him superciliously, babies can BREAKFAST IN BED FOR DAD! Sunday, June 21 If He Deserves More Visit Us At fi aepeer4 MEN'S I WEAR MAIN ST. EXETER Tip Top Tailors MADE-TO- MEASURE $ 99 00 Give him a gift certificate towards the purchase of one of these regularly priced $125.00 suits. eriumig1111110111111111iMIlllif111111111111i11111111min ggigniiiii.e. SUIT 4 4 Down with Dad! Sit Him Down Calm Him Down Slow Him Down Basket Chairs . FURNITURE LTD. 2351990 Exeter Main St. Father's Dap Special .. This Weekend Only Recliners PRICED FROM '78.88 He'll Last Years Longer In A Throne Of His Own CHECK OUR WINDOW TO SEE THE MANY MODELS AVAILABLE THE BIRTHDAY CAKE SAID 101 —Many people came to wish Mr. Cottle happy birthday last Friday. 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This 72"x 15" pool has heavy duty all steel corrugated sidewall with baked enamel finish, the heavy gauge liner With bottom drain and attached Cap issecured with a formed steel top rail:Repair kit included, Pro's Special Price $888 ‘&4014, Ale now be made in the laboratory• Is there no end to the indignities to be heaped upon his head? I take up my pen, or rather my typewriter, to defend the grand, old institution of fatherhood, for without fathers the world would be a wretched place, * * At the camp-out at the Community Park last weekend, I asked some youngsters what was so good about camping. You know what one answer was? "Dad's here!" Now, to children living in the country and small towns this might seem strange because they see their dads quite a bit. But to a city child whose father is away all day and often all week, the privilege of doing things with Pop is sheer luxury. Long before he goes to school a child watches his father drive a car, hammer a nail, milk a cow, ply an oar, handle a shovel, fix a motor, throw a ball and wash the dog. And he learns from watching. * * * Dad provides a dynamic contrast to Mother. To a small baby he is the embodiment of strength. He lets you stand on his A remarkable birthday party for James Cottle RECEIVES CONGRATULATIONS FROM FELLOW RESIDENT — Mrs. J, Boyes, of the Blue Water Rest Home joined James Cottle's 101st birthday party and offered congratulations on behalf of all his fellow residents while his daughter, Mrs. William Green, Exeter, listened. Timers-Advecots# June 1 8, 1 970 Page 9 Fac ts N 'Fancies By Gwyn • stomach, tosses you in the air and catches you safely in strong arms, or lets you ride high on his shoulders to see the whole world from that great vantage point. Mother's touch is soft and tender. And while Father's is harsher and rougher it holds with it more excitement and risk. Last week, I watched a young father playing on the beach with his little children. The tiny girl playfully put her hand over father's mouth. He snapped his mouth open wide as if to bite her. To such a small child his large mouth and teeth must have looked capable of chomping off her whole arm. She pulled back with scary delight . . . almost positive he wouldn't really bite her . . yet, she felt an exciting, breathtaking risk in this game. Dr. Margaret Mead says a father is so tall, a small child looking up to him sees a giant with hairy nostrils ... an image so frightening few adults can recall the actual sight. But, because father is so frightenly big and so sure of himself, a child develops a sense of wanting to expand himself. Children can take their failures to their mothers where they can regain composure, but they depend on fathers to urge them on to success. * * * I had a friend who used to say rather disparingly, "Fathers are fair weather friends!" • In a way this is true. Fathers want their children to succeed . . . expect them to . . . show pride when they do . .. and disapproval when they don't. And a child needs this. Mother will dry the tears. Father must be firm and tough but understanding too. In past generations children often grew up with uncles and grandfathers around them from whom they learned all sorts of manly things. Now, instead of a father's role decreasing it is intensified because he often has the sole responsibility of teaching his children how to win and how to lose, how to want to grow up and still be patient with his present small skill, how to grit his teeth when he would rather give up, and how to take the next rung on the ladder. To his little girls a father has a special role. By being treated with a mixture of gentle roughhouse and undemanding and unthreatening solicitude, a daughter discovers she is cherished because she is a girl. She learns to trust herself with men and to expect they will be strong and protective in their care for her. What rot to say fathers' roles are diminishing. The continuity of civilization rests heavily on the way fathers in each generation prepare their sons and their daughters to be the men and women who will carry on. * * * God Bless You, Pop! In honor of James Cottle's 101st birthday, the Blue Water Rest Home, Zurich, where he now resides was the scene of much activity as relatives and friends came to congratulate Mr. Cottle and visit with other residents, last Friday. The party was entertained by students from Zurich Public School, St. Boniface and St. Joseph Separate Schools, who came to sing and perform for the happy occasion. Mr. Cottle sang lustily along with them. He was in fine fettle, and with Mr. & Mrs. Lorne Johnston, Bob and David motored to Niagara Falls Sunday and also visited with Mr. & Mrs. Ivan Prouty, Dun das. Mr. & Mrs. Preston Dearing visited last week with Mrs. Violet Quance and Mr. & Mrs. Colin MacDougald at Bracebridge. Mr. & Mrs. Robert C. Dinney attended the graduation of their son Robert William, from Humber College, Toronto, June 13th. Bill graduated in the Funeral Service Education Course. Wedding bells — Continued from Page 8 Mr. & Mrs. Kurt Gebel, Clandeboye, at St. Martin's Roman Catholic Church, London, which was tastefully decorated with baskets of pink, white and yellow flowers. Officiating at the service was Most Rev. W. T. Flannery. Mrs. M. McKerracher was at the console and accompanied the soloist, Ron McGinley of London. The bride's father gave his daughter in marriage and she wore an elegant floor length gown of white Swiss sheer. The empire waist and low scooped neckline was decorated with appliques of Swiss guipure lace as was the short, puffy sleeves and the simple A-line skirt. A chapel length train draped gracefully from the mid back to the floor, and the shoulder length veil was held by white roses. The bridal bouquet was a purple orchid surrounded with white carnations and ivy. Jo Ann Shoebottom, Lambeth, Susan Gebel, Clandeboye, and Mrs. Catherine Roberts, London were bridal attendants. They wore dresses of pastel green crepe, which featured empire waistlines, loose sleeves cuffed with a frill, and trimmed with white lace. They carried lace umbrellas filled with pink, white and yellow. carnations, Groomsman was Larry Greenlee, Lucan, and the ushers were John Ward, Lucan, and Richard Bedard, Lambeth. The wedding reception was held at the Bungalo Restaurant, Lambeth, after which the couple travelled to Toledo, Ohio. The bride donned a yellow crepe pant Outfit, The newly Weds will reside in Lucan. The groom is employed at Gebel Cabinet's Limited, and the bride works for the London Life Insurance Company. a perky party hat set jauntily on his head, helped to blow out the candles on his birthday cake. "Isn't it remarkable? Isn't this a wonderful occasion?" he asked the many well wishers who shook his hand. Then, with a twinkle in his eye, he said, "You'd have to drive a long way to find another like me!" Asked to what he contributed his long life, he answered, "Good living." "What is good living?"te was queried. Dom SO eta The Exeter Times Advocate extends Birthday Wishes to following senior citizens who celebrate this week: MRS. ALMA PRICE, Lucan, 90, June 21, MRS. MARY HODGSON, Lucan, 82, June 25, MRS. MABEL RODD, Huron St., 80, June 26. We are happy to give this service free of charge. If you know of anyone having an over 80 birthday who would like to have it acknowledged please phone or drop us a note. 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