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HomeMy WebLinkAboutThe Exeter Times-Advocate, 1964-06-11, Page 14By .MRS ROBERT RUNDLE P09e. 14,T.im.o.A0Pcotv, June 11, 146.4 Parents responsible or some teenage problems 'Pushing' early dating . Dr. R. W, Read, chairman of eableet was a matter of pro, a committee set up to invest!, gressive education whiehatarts gate the possibility of sex edu, at public school age. They also cation for HSDHS, reported to suggested some adult group, the board last Week theproblern such as the Home and School is basically the responsibility Association,eenld be asked to of the parents and the home, provide parent education for He said this was one of the those who need it. opinions decided by his cona He reported this was being mittee of Dr. Don Ecker, Prin- done in some London schools cipal H, L. Sturgis and Norma, where classes of instruction Westgate, public health nurse, were set up with fathers and The committee discussed the sons attending together and topic for over three hours one mothers and daughters at sena night, after obtaining advice arate sessions, from principals and doctors who "This gets the problem back had carried on such a program In the home where it belongs," and also by interviewing local he contended, but poiated out citizens. the trouble was such a program Of the other programs car- did not always reach those par- ried on, Dr. Read stated that ents and pupils who should be two were extra curricular, one reached. was community wide and the Laird Mickle noted this would other was on the particular be a good way to break down school's curriculum. barriers between parents and The committee s tated the children, adding that many times the problem was brought about because some parents could not communicate with their children on this subject. SchWass, Mrs, McDougall of Port Elgin, Mr. & Mrs. Jeck Wright, Mr, & Mrs, Harry Dew, ling of Toronto, Mr. 0 Mrs. Bill Adamthwatto; Bill and Joan of Willowdale and Mr. ,Brian Blacklock of Windsor. Mr. Kenneth Culver of Lobo is speeding,several days with Jack Rundle. 'Forcing' teen marriages . with us, as the younger ones are usually as worried and con- fused as the girl is, "If the baby comes into hild- rea's Aid Society care, and the Mother can contribute toward his maintenance, she is expect- ed to do so until he is made a permanent ward or placed op adoption probation." Exeter court — Continued from front page OPP Constable John Wright investigated. Honor veteran RC priest Over 200 parishioners from the Grand Bend and Forest Roman Catholic churches met in Grand Bend recently to honor Rev. William G. Smith on the 25th anniversary of his ordination. He is shown in the centre with James Dalton, left, and Gerald O'Brien, Forest, who were co-chairmen for the event. --Dinnin photo Rec director resigning? Weekend guests with Mr, ..& Mrs. Victor Chatten were Mrs. Bruce Kettle, Miss Betty Kettle, Mr. Jolla Book of Midland, Miss. Barbara Chatten and Mr. Bob Cunningham of London and Mr. Frank. Clia.tten, Mrs. Roy Brock, Mr. & Mrs. Geroge 131atchford of Detroit spent the weekend with Mr. & Mrs. Lloyd Smith, Dianne and Denies. Messrs. Don Brine, Lloyd Smith, Alex Gartenhurg, Jim Miller and George Bla.tchford of Detroit attended the Masonic sunrise service at F an shaw Park Sunday morning, Rev. Nelson Ernst attended the Conference of the Evangel- ical United Church at Kitchener the past week and also the United Church Conference at West- minster College, London, this week. Mr. & Mrs. Jack Smith were Sunday supper guests with Mr. & Mrs. Don Wilson and family of Lakeside. Rev. & Mrs. Nelson Ernst and Barbara attended the Wright-Tanner wedding at the Calvary United Church, Lon- don, Friday evening. Weekend guests at the par- sonage with Rev. & Mrs. N. Ernst were Mr. & Mrs. Art —Continued from front page curtail "cutting each other's throat" when the chance arose. He said he felt he was not doing the best job he could for the public under the present setup. Gravett concluded by pointing out it was the taxpayers' money that was being spent and they should receive full value for their money. Reports indicate the commit- tee met for about an hour and a half to discuss his requests and informed him they could not meet them. By MRS, J. T E MPLEMAN HOLM OPEN HOUSE Staffa WI held open house for the community in Staffa hall Wednesday evening June 3. This was the International meeting and Mr. Tom yeung delighted everyone with his pic- tures on Ireland and local scen- ery. Guest poloist for the even- ing was Mrs. Edna Bell, Seaforth, Who sang an English and an Irish folksong. Three musical numbers were also en- joyed frpm school pupils who had participated in the music festival at Mitchell. Mrs. 'nal Laing presided for the evening Mrs. Carter Kerslake pre- sented a report on the district annual held recently in St. Marys. Five names were added to the Tweedsmuir committee. Final plans were made for the Tweedsmuir Tea on June 10 at the home of Mrs. Cecil Bowman. The Institute's adopted child was re-adopted for another year. , cussion had been held other than on the pay increase. The Mayor stated there had not as they felt they could not grant the $500 raise and there- fore had not discussed any of the other issues. He told Gravett the RAP com- mittee had already drafted their budget and could not grant apay increase. Gravett stated the money por- tion of his request had not been the main thing he was after, but rather some of the other points raised by himself. "Get one thing s t r ai g h t," Simmons pointed uut. "We never said we were going to discharge you. It's still up to you whether you go or stay." Gord Baynham asked if town council could over -rule the committee's decision not to grant the pay increase. He was told they could, but it would probably mean they would have to appoint another RAP committee as such a decision would indicate they had not faith in the present members. By MRS. HAROLD DAVIS ST. PAUL'S ANNIVERSARY St. Paul's Church observed their 102nd church anniversary, Sunday morning at 11 am. Rev. Wigmore of Christ Church, London, was guest speaker. The special music was pro- vided by Mrs. Garth Blackler and Gerald Paul. Flowers in the church were placed in loving memory of the late Mrs. Edith Humphreys. PERSONALS Mr. & Mrs. Jack E mer y visited with Mrs. Emery's sis- ter at Hamilton Sunday. Mr. & Mrs. Bill Irvine and family of Granton visited Sun- day with Mr. & Mrs. Alex Irvine. Mr. & Mrs. Andy Knox of St, Marys, Mr. & Mrs. Harold Henry and family of London spent Sunday with Mr. & Mrs. Miller McCurdy. MARK ANNIVERSARY A family gathering was held Sunday at the home of Mr. & Mrs. John Templeman. The oc- ca.sion was the 49th wedding anniversary of Mr. and Mrs. Robert Duncan Exeter who were married on June 9, 1915. Those attending besides Mr. and Mrs. Duncan were, Mr. and Mrs. Robert Mayer, Joyce, Judy, Wayne, Jack and Brian, Farquhar, Mr. and Mrs. Lloyd Miller, Dianne and Ronald, Mr. and Mrs. Gordon Mayer and Robbie and Mrs. Donald Mayer, Rhonda, Sherre and Kirk of London. TOUR TORONTO , Mrs. Edna Bell and Mr. Mar- vin McDonald and pupils from school sections 3 and 2 Hibbert enjoyed a bus trip to Toronto Friday. GODERICH "It is amazing how many tin- married parents are just in their teens and not even out of school," Miss Clare McGowan said in Presenting to county council her report as local di- rector of the Unroll Children's Aid Society. "I have been much concerned this past year," she said, "hearing of some teen-agers who, have been forced to get married because there was a baby coming. I say 'forced' by relatives and friends, because that is what is told me. "I am concerned because if these two young people want to get married and are mature enough to accept the responsi- bility of a home and family, God bless them, but if they are not ready it is a terrible thing for them to get married, be- cause we will have them later on, perhaps within a year, in divorce proceedings. "Sometimes it would be far better for them to give up the baby or board it in foster care until they are in position to marry and have their child with them. That is something I feel very keenly about, and some- times we wonder if we should wait to be asked to go and see a pregnant girl and tell her we are able to help her. "If you people understood the situation and could restate it to people who need this sort of help, it would save a lot of heartaches all round," In her prepared report, Miss McGowan said on this subject; "We are prepared to provide counselling service to all un- ar r led parents who either temporarily orpermanently live in Huron county. The ear- lier that the expectant mother contacts us, the more help we can be to her, so we do ap- preciate early referrals. "We can help the unmarried mother plan for her confine- ment, and assure her that she does not have to make any de- cision about giving up the baby until after he is born. If she wants to keep her baby, we try to help her with her plans for his future. "We keep in mind the baby's father. He has a responsibility toward his child and its mother. Very often he appreciates knowing he can talk things over Nissouri, $10 for going 40 miles an hour in a 30 MPH zone. CHANGED PLATES A 24,year-eld airman from RCAF Centralia, William Tur- ner was fined a total of $55 for driving a vehicle without proof of insurance coverage and also for not having current plates for the year. Constable Wright testified the accused was driving a car with 1962 plates, which are the same colors as the current year. Turner told the court he had purchased the car in Hensall on Sunday and was proceeding home with it where he intended to work on it prior to getting insurance and licences. The accused said he had been in a desperate hurry to get the car home and had decided to change the 1963 plates to the 1962 markers as they resem- bled this year's. "Because of your deception I'll increase the fine," Magis- trate Hays commented in hand- ing down his $55 penalty for the two charges. WARNS DRIVERS Three persons fined for cre- ating unnecessary noise were warned that on July 1 the pen- alty for such charges may be increased to $100 and a suspen- sion of driving licences, Fined $5 were; Earl Gack- stetter, Exeter; Frank Zubal, Lucan; Raymond Horne, Win- chelsea. Zubal said his type of muf- fler lasted longer. "They announce your pre- sence better too," replied Mag- istrate Hays in levelling the penalty. Fined for speeding were: Douglas Brintnel 1, Exeter, $10 for driving 40 miles an hour in a 30 MPH zone. Corbin M. Pearson, East Summertime Safety At Your Neighbourhood Goodyear Dealer tance out," Gunn stated, adding the club had given he and Dobson 100% backing on any decisions they wanted to make in their deputation. "We can't see putting money in and not having it looked after properly," stated Gord Bayn- ham, the Kinsmen representa- tive on RAP. Chairman MacMillan pointed out it was only rumour that the recreation director was leav- ing. He said they had not re- ceived his resignation. "These are hypothetical questions," replied Farrow. "The theory would be that we would try and find another director." Gunn said it was "nonsense" that a qualified rec director should receive only $4,000 per year. "This little town can't afford a full-fledged rec director in the $6,000 to $7,000 bracket Simmons replied. He noted it had been the opinion of many that Exeter would always be a stepping stone for men taking the rec directors course before they graduated. He noted Gravett had been given a $200 raise at the first of the year. Gunn contended that another $500 raise would mean only 10d per person in Exeter. Simmons then asked Gravett if he - had made up his mind whether he would stay or not. "What's the score?" he ques- tioned. "If I do go I wouldn't leave you flat-footed," Gravett stat- ed. "If I did go it wouldn't be until September 1." However, he never directly answered the question and has stated since he is still negotiat- ing with officials in Hanover. KINSMEN COMPLAIN Kinsmen president Joe Gunn and president-elect Ross Dob- son appeared before the com- mittee after the discussion and posed several questions in re- gard to what happens in Exeter if Gravett leaves. "We learned with regret that the rec director may possibly be leaving," Gunn stated. He asked the committee who would look after the Kin sum- mer playground? What would happen to minor sports? Who would look after the swim pool and other activities? "Without a qualified rec di- rector looking after these we will pull our financial assis- CRITICAL OF MANNER At their regular meeting Monday, Gravett was critical of the way in which the com- mittee had discussed his re- quest and informed him of their verdict. He criticised them for not calling him back into the special meeting on the prior Monday to give him their report. He noted he was sitting outside the door and should have been given an answer; but the members only walked past him out the door. "You were given an answer," chairman Tom MacMillan re- plied. "Only because I cornered you," Gravett replied. MacMillan disagreed and said as he came out of the council chambers he found Gravett in the police office and walked in and told him of the RAP com- mittee decision. Gravett also termed the spe- cial meeting "haphazard", pointing out he—rather than the chairman—had been forced to call the members to inform them of the session. Mayor Simmons argued the point, insisting be felt most members considered it an im- portant meeting. He noted he had been late for another meet- ing by attending. He explained this as the rea- son why he had left the meeting in a hurry after the decision had been reached. Secretary Claude Farrow said most of the RAP members felt Gravett's requests had been given in the form of an ultima- tum, and they either had to be met or the rec director was going to accept theHanover po- sition. "You told us you had to tell the man the next day what your decision was going to be," Far- row stated. Both Farrow and Simmons pointed out the committee had felt they could not meet the pay hike requested and there had been little discussion in regard to the other points sought by Gravett. This came in reply to a question by Gravett if any dis- NO FANFARE Dr. Read suggested that any instruction carried on should be announced without any great fanfare. "Problem of sex education is important," he stated, "but it is only part of the whole way of living. It should be kept in its right place and not em- phasized." Principal Sturgis said the department of education was very vague on the subject and they "dodge it as much as possible". He added that the frankness with which the cur- riculum was followed probably depended on the instructor. Some board members felt a stranger would be able to con- duct the classes better than a teacher who is contact with the students each day. Dr. Read explained some of the problems are brought about by parents who want their chil- dren to be popular and push them into early dating. "Some parents are pushing their children into problems," he stated. He also said the use of the car and the fact that in some families both parents work leaving teenagers at home alone also brought about problems. Sturgis said the morals of the adults in the community also were important, "And it should be pointed out that alcohol and hormones don't mix," stated Dr. Read. The board took no further action, deciding to wait until Rev. John Boyne returned be- fore making any decisions. Rev. Boyne was one who backed the study into sex education for the students. Hire one teacher -- require another The Exeter Public School board have hired one new teach- er for the fall term and are advertising this week for an- other to replace two members of the present staff who will complete their duties at the end of this month. Hired is Miss Doris Pepper, RR 1 Dashwood, a graduate of HSDHS. She graduated from London Teachers' College this year. The board also decided to repaint some of the classrooms and washrooms at the school and to redecorate the teachers' room. The work will be done this summer by Principal Arthur Idle. Approval was given for 12 boys to attend the conservation school planned at Sylvan Boy Scout camp and the board will pay $7 per pupil for those attending. The students are all in grade eight and will be accompanied for the week-long outing by Carl Mills. During the final week of school, the remaining grade eight students will have a bus tour of the Ausable watershed on a aroject held in conjunction with the ARCA. At the meeting, the board learned they would receive a grant of approximately $480 for the purchase of library books for the school. They also agreed to again donate prizes for the two top boys and the two top girls in the graduating class. The grad- uation banquet is planned for Friday, June 26. Prices scare industry "The co-operation was really good," he stated. While he said he agreed with Mayor Simmons to a certain extent over the grant issue, he said he felt the living standard of the entire town would go up if more industry was attracted to the community. Jack Smith, who at last year's meeting complained about the lack of a brochure, congratu- lated the directors on the pub- lication they had turned dot. Tuckey said he had been told by a man in the industrial development field that the bro- chure was one of the best he had seen for a town this size. Dick Jermyn, a veteran mem- ber of the Corporation, called for the support of everyone, pointing out the benefits he had received by assisting new in- Parishioners fete veteran RC priest More than 200 parishioners of Grand Bend and Forest gath- ered Sunday, May 31 to pay tribute to Rev. William G. Smith on the 25th anniversary of his ordination to the priesthood. Father Smith celebrated his anniversary Mass at 5 o'clock in the church at Grand Bend at which Rev. Fr. Boyer of Wind- sor preached the sermon. A dinner at the Imperial Hotel, Grand Bend, followed. Mr. James Dalton was chair- man for the evening and Rev. Fr. McGuire, Clinton, was guest speaker. Mr. Gerald O'Brien of Forest, co-chairman read the presentation address and presented the celebrant with The sunny summertime is the time for fun in your car and to make those days safe driving days equip your car with the world-famous GOODYEAR TIRES at savings. a tape recorder on which had been taped a message from Bishop Carter. Greetings were brought from the Forest and Grand Bend C WL Councils by Presidents Mrs. Boere and Mrs. C. Sneekins and Michael Bock presented a spiritual bouquet from the children of St. Damiens School. Guests at the head table were Rev. Fr. Doyle from Trail B.C. who had been ordained with Rev. Smith; Rev. Fr. McCabe, Lon- don; Rev. McMannus, Bothwell; Rev. Van Tilbury, Delaware, Rev. McGuire, Clinton, Rev. Boyer, Windsor, Rev. J. E. Kelly, Mt. Carmel and Rev. Fr. Gravelin of Christ the King College, London. The 750 x 14 tubeless safety aliweather narrow whitewall 4-ply nylon tire, which regularly sells for $27.60 is now low pr •ice of $ exc. available at the 22 9 — Continued from front page present. Tuckey described work on the Corporation as the "hard- est, most discouraging and un- rewarding job I've ever had". He said the directors spend many hours of work in their duties, but had little to show for their efforts. He reviewed two of the major jobs last year which were send- ing a delegation to the minister of defence in regard to the future of RCAF Centralia, and to the Ontario Hydro in regard to the rumor that the local office would be moved. The Corporation head noted they had no way of knowing if their efforts had paid off, but pointed out both the Hydro and airport were still here. The members were told by "Dickey that he felt they would be notified long before anything was done at Centralia. He reported the work was also unrewarding because it was impossible to disclose to anyone the nature or names of the industries with which they had contact. The president said the open- ing of the sewer works would undoubtedly help to an extent in securing industry, but added that the entire project would have to be completed before they could "really count on it". In closing, he called for the continued co-operation of the businessmen, council, the plan- ning board and every individual in Exeter. That support was promised by R. C. Dinney, president of the Exeter Businessmen's As- sociation, who expressed his surprise at hearing from the reports of last year's annual meeting that the Businessmen's Association Was not co- Operating. "We will Co-Operate as much as we postibly can in the fu- titre," he assured the Corpora.. lion directorS. Man age r Claude Farrow commended the directors for their efforts in the past, telling the audience they followed up even the least little lead of an industry with enthusiasm. Eric GraVlev, of KOngskilde, was asked to give his iniprea- Sion Of the reception fie received When he was considering moving to Exeter. This tire features the new wrap around safety shoulder for better control and easier steering. Similar savings on all other types and sizes. All Goodyear passenger tires feature the lifetime, no limit road hazard and quality guarantee. Cut deficit in half dustry to operate in the com- munity. He also told the audience to bring two friends with them when they came back for next year's annual, was an lld increase over last year. Approved the applications of Brian Fink, 15, Hensel', to enrol in a plumbing and refrigeration course at Beal Technical School, London, and also for Carolyn R. Taylor, 19, Stephen Township, to take a commercial art course. It costs the board $4.'74 per student day to send the pupils to Beal, and they receive a grant of '70% on this figure, Gave pertnission to Principal H. L. Sturgia to attend the Headmasters' COnf ere ti c e in OttaWa Late this summer. All expenses are to be paid by the beard. Approved sending six more grade 10 students to the deft- servation school being planned by the Ausable RiVet ConSer-, vation Authority. The board pays $7 for each Student, They were retatested to send more as Parkhill Were not sending as many as anticipated. Learned that Miss Lauretta Seigner had been in hospital due to 'a badk ailment and May not be able to carry on as a fullatirat phySlcai education Sender: See Your Goodyear Dealer Listed Below For These Savings —Continued from front page into," commented Zurich rep- resentative Doug O'Brien, not- ing it could develop into a headache. "I have my doubts about the principle involved," added Elmer D, Bell, noting the board was not in the business of renting chain. One of the reasons the board did not want to turn down the request was due to the fact they did not want to appear to be opposing organized religion. HoweVer, they decide d to send a letter advising of "Our regret we are unable to supply Ohairs because it is beard policy that we do not alloW the chaira from HSDHS be removed frotn the premises bedause it iaptib.- lic property". In other buSinessi the board; Aedepted the resignation of Mrs. Margaret Lindsey. Accepted the tender Of $1,420 from Williatri McLean, Exeter, to paint the exterior framework at the school this summer. It was the only tender received, Received only one tender as well for the supply of 06AI at a cost Of $15,20 per ton from lmperialle Fuels, London. This Withers Brothers Dashwood Motors E. L. Chaffe & Sons By MRS, ARCHIE DEWAR Saturday evening guests with Mr. & Mrs. Fred Parkinson and family were Mr. & Mrs. Ken Hill of Lambeth and guests Sunday evening were Mr. & Mrs. Robt. Elston. Mr. & Mrs. Fred Parkinson and family attended the Gun- ning Reunion held at Exeter Park Sabirday. Miss Susan Hutson spent the Weekend with her aunt and uncle, Mr. & Mrs. Oliver Baker. Sunday guests with Mr. & Mrs. Oliver Baker were her fa- ther Mr. Beer and sister Miss Anna Beer and Mrs. Harris But- son of Munro and Miss Elizabeth Essen of Stratford. Mr. Robt Elston of Granton UC was a delegate at the Lon- don Conference Tuesday and Thursday. Mrs. Vernon Trott of Tor- onto arid Mr. & Mrs. S. Mar- riott, Ron and Maryanne of St. Marys spent Sunday with their parents, Mr. & Mrs. A, Dewar. Mr. & Mrs. Alonzo Harburn and fatriily were Sunday guests with Mr. & Mrs. Wilbert Mc- Neight and family. Mr. Fred Jameson, and Mr. & Mrs, Johnson Robertson at- tended the Orange services held at Lucan United Church Stniday morning. Larry's Supertest South End Service Snell Bros. NAMED DIRECTORS Named directors for the com- ing year were; Ross Tuckey, Peter Raymond, Dick Jermyn, Chester Mawhinney, Charles Barrett, Murray Greene, and Bob Fletcher. Two more will be appointed by council. They will meet in the tear future to appoint their various officers. Newfoundland Continued /rom front page HSDHS. In january, the grade 11 Stu- dent was a delegate at the Toc Alpha conference. Active in -aines Street United Church, Ann is a member of the Learners' of God SundaySchool class, but now has taken on the duties as a teacher in the junior departnnent. She sings in the chinth choir and also performs for The T-A C horisters. Her trip Will begin eti july 15. Newby Tire & Battery Service