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HomeMy WebLinkAboutThe Citizen, 2008-12-24, Page 23KEITH ROULSTON Citizen Publisher, Rural Voice Publisher, Editor Getting the Christmas tree in our family today means a trip to one of the local sellers of cut trees — often, I admit, at the last moment when the choice is simple because more- prepared tree shoppers have already picked over the supply. When I was growing up, at least in the early years, getting the tree meant a trip to my uncle’s farm to cut a tree from his spruce plantation. There were no evergreens of any sort on our farm – not even the cedars that my best friend’s family used because they were available in their swamp and there just wasn’t money for foolishness like buying a tree. My uncle lived with us because there was no house on his farm. He and my father shared the work on their two farms. Often it was he who took my brother and me to his farm, about five miles away, to pick out and cut a tree. The pleasure of this mission depended on the weather each year. The spruce plantation was at the back of the farm. In years when winter started late, we could drive back a sideroad along the side of the farm right to the edge of the plantation. Other years it meant a three-quarter-mile plunge through snow drifts that, for a young boy, were shoulder high. The amount of snow also affected the job of selecting and cutting a tree. The trees hadn’t been planted out with ease of Christmas-tree cutting in mind. As they had grown, their branches tended to overlap. As you tried to move around one tree to see if it was even all ’round, you were bound to brush into the neighbouring tree’s branches. If there had already been a heavy snowfall, those branches would be laden with snow which would cascade down on you – inevitably going down your neck where it hit your skin which was still hot from the effort of walking through the deep snow. Over the next few minutes it would melt and trickle lower causing discomfort – at least until the next avalanche went down your neck, making you forget the relatively minor inconvenience of that first trickle. Picking the tree was a challenge because the trees in the plantation were now starting to really take off. For little boys, size matters, so my brother and I were usually urging cutting of an even bigger tree. The result was, when we got it home the tree was always too tall for the room, even with nine-foot ceilings in the old farm house. There was a stove-pipe hole in the living room ceiling, unused from when there used to be stove in the room. We’d joke that we could stick the top of the tree through the hole so there’d be a tree in the bedroom above. Once we had selected the tree, there was the long plunge back to the side of the road where we’d left the car, the trip made longer by the fact we were already tired and now had to drag a tree through the deep snow. Then, of course, came the task of trying to find a way to get the tree home in those days when we didn’t have a pick-up truck or a van, or even roof racks on a car. Eventually we’d get home, get the too-tall and too-wide tree into the house, cut a couple of feet of trunk off the bottom, get the tree straight in the tree stand and tie it to the wall in various directions to make sure it remained upright. By today’s standards, it was a thinly-limbed, spindly specimen of a tree. To we children, who had no “ideal” tree to judge it against in pre-television days, it was a thing of beauty and excitement. Which perhaps explains why I don’t worry if I get the rejects at the tree lot when I’m picking a tree today. I know in the long run the tree is beautiful for what it represents, not for the better thing it should have been. And the great thing is at the tree lot there’s no snow to fall down my neck. THE CITIZEN, WEDNESDAY, DECEMBER 24, 2008. PAGE 23. JILL ROULSTONOffice ManagerOur Christmas tree would neverpass muster as subject for a perfecttree in a decorating magazine but it hasits own story to tell of 40 years of ourfamily history. That tradition began on our wedding day. We were married on Dec. 21 (during Keith’s university Christmas break). When we came home to our new downtown Toronto apartment after the wedding, Keith had surprised me by buying a tree and decorating it with inexpensive ornaments from the Woolworth’s store nearby. Survivors of those ornaments, never the most elegant or elaborate in the first place and now a little the worse for wear, can still be found on our tree. So can so many other ornaments that bring back memories of Christmases past. I once shared a story with my daughter Erin about an ornament I had made for my mother by blowing out an egg and decorating it. I told her my mother had kept it for years. Erin bought a similar ornament that is still on our tree. With it now are ornaments she sent home for me from her trips to China and Holland. Alongside is a stained- glass star created in school shop class by my son Craig, pewter ornaments that were a gift of my daughter Christina, some ornaments bought from my granddaughter Emily for a fundraising project, and a reindeer made from a pinecone by my niece Tara who was part of our annual Christmas gathering for most of her early years. There are also ornaments that remind me of my favourite aunt, now deceased, who used them to decorate her gifts to our kids over the years.Decorating the tree was a familyevent, so much so that when some ofour kids went off to university theyasked that we not decorate the treeuntil they got home to help. We’reusually late setting up the tree — generally the weekend before Christmas and we have always used a natural tree. Most often Keith and the kids decorated the tree while I did Christmas baking. Keith would string the lights, then the kids did most of the decorating, with a little more supervision when they were younger, relaxing to more freedom as they got older. The final act was putting the star on the top of the tree, usually by the youngest child at that time, perched on his or her father’s shoulders. The kids, of course, always thoughtthe tree was perfect.One year the kids got involved increating the decorations by stringing apopcorn garland. Their toddler cousincame for Christmas, though, and it wastoo inviting for him to eat the popcorn. We kept raising the garland higher and higher so he couldn’t reach. Photos from that Christmas show the popcorn garland looking totally unbalanced around the top third of the tree. Our tree stays up until after New Year’s Day with the tradition being that the kids and I would take it down and put away the ornaments, sometimes having added newones to the collection to remember that Christmas by. In this way, the tree becomes a living inventory of Christmas memories. Memories of tree hunting Built on tradition The Roulston family clockwise from top left: Jennifer, Keith, Jill, Christina, Erin and Craig, posed in 1988 for a festive photo beneath the tree, trimmed as always with a collection of treasured ornaments, and this year, an ever-higher popcorn string. (Courtesy photo) Christmas tree a collection of family memories At this busy time of year, we’d like to thank you for stopping here! With best wishes for a Merry Christmas from all of us. From: Max, Jim, Darlene, & Myke at & OLDFIELD’S M e r r y Christmas Central Huron Fencing Authorized dealer & installer519-887-8041 519-531-0607 Just in the “nick” of time, we’re sending our regards to the many folks both far and near, whom we’ve had the privilege of doing business with this year. Hope your holiday delivers an abundance of joy. Thanks! 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