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HomeMy WebLinkAboutThe Citizen, 2010-04-22, Page 12PAGE 12. THE CITIZEN, THURSDAY, APRIL 22, 2010. A rare form of cancer has left a Dungannon family struggling with the unknown, but the community is reaching out to them in their time of need. To help Mike Alton, who was recently diagnosed with cancer, and his family with the medical and travelling expenses to a London hospital, a benefit is being held at the Dungannon Agricultural Hall, Sunday, April 25. The event will run from 11 a.m. to 3 p.m., and includes a silent and live auction. Over 300 items are up for auction, including 300 bales of hay and a stay at the Benmiller Inn. The live auction starts at 1 p.m. The silent auction tables will close at staggered times – 12:30, 2 and 3 p.m. About three weeks before Christmas, Mike noticed a lump on the side of his neck. He said he was not concerned about it since it was not painful, so rather than ruining Christmas, he decided to wait until after to go see a doctor. Mike said on Boxing Day he was convinced to go see a doctor about the lump. His wife Jen (Tucker) said the lump was no bigger than a golf ball at that time but the doctors believed it grew fast. On Dec. 26 when Mike visited the on-call doctor at Goderich hospital, he was told to go to Walkerton that night for a CT scan. Following the CT scan, Mike was told to immediately go to London hospital. “From the beginning they (the doctors) knew it was cancer,” said Alton.He spent that week in the Londonhospital, first having a biopsy done,then another because the doctorsrequired a bigger sample, he said, but no one knew what type of cancer it was. He said he was also scheduled to see a surgeon that week, however, he met him a day earlier in the cafeteria. “The surgeon didn't believe it was cancer because I was walking around, talking and eating and I wasn't in a great deal of pain,” said Alton. “If it was cancer though, the surgeon did not want to operate and told he me he did not want to see me on his table.” After further blood work and tests, to ensure the cancer was not anywhere else in Mike's body, he was finally sent home. A week later, Mike returned to London for his first chemothreapy treatment. “By the end of the month we found out how bad it was,” said Jen. Mike was diagnosed with Rhabdomyosarcoma, a skeletal muscular cancer which was found in the muscles from his chin, around his voice box and down to his mid- chest. The surgeon has since told Mike that if he has to operate, they may have to remove his voice box and he would be on a breathing tube for the rest of his life. Mike said the doctors in London have been video-conferencing with physicians across North America, and none have seen a case like his. He added that he was also told this type of cancer is normally found in infants in their arms or legs, in which case doctors have to amputate. The doctors told Mike they had no idea how the cancer would react to the chemotherapy treatments but they were hopeful that it would shrink so they would not have to operate. Mike has gone for two inpatient chemotherapy treatments, where he has to stay in the hospital for five days straight, and he has done two outpatient chemotherapy treatments, where he is in and out of the hospital the same day. "I feel worse after the outpatient treatments, I don't get that time to stay and get medication to help with the pain," he said. Jen said she tries to go to London to be with Mike as much as possible to help him and ensure appointments are being made and medications are being prescribed correctly. She said she can also stay with an aunt inLondon. Yet the couple is strugglingfinancially because neither one canwork at this time and they have topay for gas, food and parking while travelling back and forth to London. “We are very lucky to have the support of my parents with them being so close by to help take care of the kids,” said Jen. She said Mike's employer and relative, Donna and Stuart Alton, also help care for their children, Brett, six, and Jake, two. After every treatment, Jen has to give Mike a shot to help bring his white blood cells up and strengthen his immune system again. Mike said he also has to take two different types of pills after each treatment, mostly to help with the nausea. Jen adds they are fortunate that the medication is covered by their drug plan as the needles, one a day for 10 days, would cost a total of $3,000. She also said they have a health nurse visit after the treatments to help Mike cope. Mike said he feels weak and sometimes he has trouble breathing or it hurts when he coughs, but he can eat, although he has lost his sense of taste and he some times has trouble swallowing. Jen added that the lump now looks like it has flattened down and is more defined. “I never went to the doctor in over 10 years before this happened. I was never seriously sick. Now I am seeing lots of doctors and getting my fair share of blood work done,” said Mike, adding that he also knows more about the body system, especially the muscles in the neck, than he ever knew before. Mike said he had planned to renovate his home this past winter but he began to "see his plans go down the toilet." A local contractor offered to help the Altons install a new window in their home during the winter. “I was told I would feel a lot worse before I would start getting better, even after the chemo,” said Mike, explaining that was why he and Jendecided to move their weddingahead from this summer to March 27at the Goderich Legion.“It wasn't how we planned on getting married but it was perfect,” said Jen, who has been with Mike for the past 10 years. “There were just so many unknowns and we haven't been given much hope but we wanted to get married.” The couple honeymooned in Niagara Falls for three days and on their way back they stopped in London for another CT appointment. Since Mike's last consultation with his doctors in London on April 8, he has learned that the mass in his chest has grown two centimetres and therefore, the chemothearpy did not help. For the next six weeks, Mike will undergo radiation treatments and if the mass does not shrink down, he will have to have the surgery. Despite all this, the couple is trying to stay positive. “Whether we want to or not, we can't just be moping around,” said Jen. “It's really hard for Mike just to be sitting around. He has always worked so hard, non-stop.” Members in the community have also offered to help the family any way they can. Most recently a group in Dungannon brought the family 25 cords of wood to help heat the home next winter. “We are so grateful for this even though it's so hard for us to accept. We have tried to do everything on our own and worked hard for it,” said Jen. “The community has been amazing. The support here is overwhelming, to say the least.” Jen also said they were surprised when they learned about a benefit being held to help them. “I don't think of myself as sick, I see others in the hospital who are a lot worse off than me, so I don't feel like I should be the one getting this help. It's just hard to accept, but we really do appreciate everything,” said Mike. Fundraiser in Dungannon for young family NOTICE TO DOG OWNERS IN THE MUNICIPALITY OF MORRIS-TURNBERRY 2010 Dog Tags and licences are now available (Monday to Friday 9 am to 5 pm) at the Municipality of Morris-Turnberry Municipal Office, 41342 Morris Rd. R.R. 4, Brussels, ON N0G 1H0 *** Tags can be picked up in person or ordered by telephone*** All dogs must be licensed in compliance with By-law No. 63-2004. A copy of the complete By-law is available for review at the Municipal Office. All dogs must be identified by means of a tag and licence, issued for a (1) one year period by: Friday, April 30, 2010 The fee schedule shall be as follows: 1/All Dogs (except those listed in #2) - males, females, and spayed females $20.00 per dog 2/Pit bulls, Pit bull crosses, Staffordshire terriers $100.00 per dog 3/Kennel Licence Fee $75.00 (for a kennel of dogs that are registered or eligible for registration under the Animal Pedigree Act) 4/Late Payment Charge $20.00 per dog (Shall be assessed in addition to the licence fee, if the licence and/or tag is not purchased by April 30th) Excrement: The By-law requires dog owners to forthwith remove excrement left by a dog, from property other than the premises of the owner of the dog. Any person contravening this provision is subject to a $50.00 fee. For further information contact: The Municipality of Morris-Turnberry Telephone: 519-887-6137 Fax: 519-887-6424 E-mail: morris@scsinternet.com A good cause A fundraiser is being held this weekend for Mike Alton, pictured with his wife Jen and his six-year-old son Brett. Mike was diagnosed with a rare form of cancer and his friends and neighbours in the Dungannon area are chipping in to help with medical and travel costs. (Photo submitted) By Sara Bender The Lucknow Sentinel Locks to lop Sarah Strome sits nervously as sister Emma tries to even out the cut she made on the other side. The sisters raised $1,500 for the Buzz Off Cancer event, held last Friday on the sidewalk in front of Turning Heads and Making Waves in Brussels. Sarah cut off approximately six inches of her hair as part of the Relay for Life fundraiser.(Denny Scott photo)