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HomeMy WebLinkAboutThe Citizen, 2012-12-20, Page 36PAGE 36. THE CITIZEN, THURSDAY, DECEMBER 20, 2012.Modern Christmas finds Vodden agreeing with ScroogeContinued from page 31drawer in his father’s bakery, lettingthe cat out of the bag.When raising his own children,Vodden said that kind of situation wouldn’t occur. “It was different when children were small, we had gifts, that sort of thing,” he said. “We felt it was wrong, however, to fool the children about Santa Claus. That was unusual for that time because Santa was a big thing. Our kids knew that the gifts under the tree, even if it said it was from Santa Claus, were from Dad. “It sort of backfired on us once though,” he said. “John had a playmate next door, he would have been four or five years old at that time. We had our Christmas parcelson Christmas morning then Johnwent to play with his friend. After afew hours, his friend’s dad broughthim home and John stomped around saying that the real Santa Clause went to his friend’s house and he got wonderful gifts.” Vodden said that he and Janis were always afraid that their children would let the cat out of the bag for others, but they really didn’t talk about it all that much and that the children had their own way of looking at things. However, that never happened, and he said Christmas has been, since then, a time of family. While, as a young family, the Voddens moved around quite a bitand were far from Blyth, they didreturn to the area to celebrate.“After we were married, Jan and Ilived in all different parts of Ontario,” he said. “At times we would fly back here to visit, since both Jan’s family and mine were around here. Those were nice. It was a really nice time.” Some years, weather permitted travel and others it didn’t, or prevented flying, however, they visited. More recently, Vodden feels that people have gotten away from that and even likens himself to a pre- ghostly visit Ebenezer Scrooge in A Christmas Carol. “I have to admit that, I sort ofconnect with Scrooge before he wentsoft in the head in terms of theshopping business,” he said. “I’venever been pleased about that part.” He said that, aside from people getting swept up in the shopping, most of the holiday season was getting too big, including the music, and that played a part in why they kept their celebration simple. “We tend not to take part in things, even a lot of the musical things,” hesaid. “The pop songs drive me up thewall and I really like things like theclassical cantatas, I’m not crazyabout the words, but I like the music, I really enjoy them. “Most of the other things are overdone, so now the big things are the telephone calls with the kids, and that’s pretty much it, we don’t usually go out. 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Wishing You a Merry Christmas We’d like to join you and your family, in singing His praises, as we share the spirit of this holy season. BORRMANN'S GARAGE 86924 Brussels Line RR #1 Bluevale 519-335-3857 Continued from page 29 know that there is plenty to do and they take the family interaction wherever they can get it. Alvin says when the children were small there was a lot of travelling involved and by the time Christmas was over, they had visited several sets of grandparents and other family members and everyone was ready to turn in for the night. Looking back now they can appreciate the relaxation that can come with Christmas and spending time with their immediate family around the Christmas tree, rather than dashing from one household to the other all day. When Alvin was younger, he said he remembers not having stockings, but that small gifts would be piled at the family’s dinner table. The gifts would be placed at their intended recipient’s place setting at the table. Presents at the dinner table were usually things like socks or underwear or mittens, Alvin says, and then other presents were always found under the Christmas tree, in a more traditional manner. Alvin’s grandparents lived in Brussels and would come over for the day on Christmas Day when he was young. Pam also spent Christmas Day with her grandparents when she was younger. She said that while it was always a busy time around the house, it was always a fun time as well. When it comes to gift-giving now, one other tradition that may be linked to their Scottish heritage, they joke, is wrapping presents in newspaper. The pair has always done it this way and this year already there were several presents sitting under the tree, wrapped in newspaper waiting for someone to open them. Continued from page 24 could been quite severe rather quickly. Travel has become has become easier the last number of years and it hasn’t become quite as much of a concern. In the past we were homebound often and weren’t able to pick up and travel as easily as you can now since people aren’t too fearful of it. I can’t remember the last time we had a very stormy Christmas season.” Gowing said that, in reflection, Christmas is a very important time of the year for people to remember to spend time not only with their friends and families, but on their own as well. “Everyone has busy, busy lives,” he said. “Christmas is when you should stop and take some time off. Enjoy the season, enjoy the time with friends, families and neighbours and do not let the business of your life use up your Christmas season.” Christmas a time to slow down: Gowing McLellan appreciates relaxing during the holiday season Continued from page 32 those gifts under the tree, everyone gets a number and, in order of the number you go to the tree and pick a gift or steal a gift,” he explained. “ We get a really wide range of stuff right from Tim Horton’s gift certificates to some really, really silly but funny gifts. It’s a great time.” While the gifts are fun and the game is exciting, Riach said that the holidays are really a time to reflect on who you’re with and how lucky you are and to remember those who aren’t so lucky. “Christmas, really, is a time to celebrate family and remember the real meaning of Christmas and also to remember that there are other people in the world who are less fortunate and to support them,” he said. Riach says the holidays are about family