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2012 Wedding ShowcaseKeep bridal party couples together at receptionMS –Weddings are filled withmany emotions: happiness, excite-ment and anticipation, to name a
few. With all of the positive emo-
tions a wedding may drum up, in the
mix there may be a few negative
ones, including feelings of being
overwhelmed at all the details that
need to be completed on a deadline.
One aspect of wedding planning
that tends to send people into panic
is wedding reception seating
arrangements. The thought of having
200 friends and family members
together under one roof – and then
attempting to seat them next to anacceptable group of people -- cancause some couples to hyperventi-
late.
Every family has its ups and
downs, and there are certain people
who get along well and a few who
clash. Ensuring that a wedding is
memorable for all the right reasons
(and not for the brawl at table three)
is why seating arrangements are so
important. Many couples can use a
little advice when seating guests,
while others would love another per-
son to handle the seating arrange-
ments for them.Here are some guidelines for set-ting up reception seating arrange-
ments.
• Place yourselves, as well as the
bridal party, at a separate table that is
in a prime location in the room. Be
sure to allow the spouses or dates of
bridal party members at the
same table so couples remain togeth-
er.
• Some couples choose to seat both
sets of parents at one table together –
the parents’ table. Grandparents may
also be seated at this table, depend-
ing on the number of people eachtable can accommodate.• If children under the age of seven
are invited, they should be seated
with their parents. Children between
ages seven and 14 can be seated at a
separate kids’ table.
• Be mindful of guests with dis-
abilities or mobility issues. Seat
them close to the door, bathrooms or
food station.
• Instead of separating the bride
and the groom’s family to separate
sides, intermingle the tables to pro-
mote conversation.
• Consider arranging guests by
common interests at each table, seat-ing business associates or parents’friends together.
• Take into consideration people
who have relationship rifts and try to
seat them separately. But don’t stress
about this too much because it won’t
be possible to accommodate every-
one.
• It’s not unheard of to let guests
seat themselves. This takes the pres-
sure of finding a seat for everyone
off of you as a couple and enables
you to think about the other tasks at
hand. This can take place at a buffet
wedding or a smaller affair.
MS –Couples often fret over what
to serve their guests at the reception,
and rightfully so. Reception costs
can comprise a majority of the wed-
ding-day budget. When spending
$100 or more per guest, you want to
ensure you’re getting what you paid
for and that guests enjoy what
they’re eating.
Filet mignon may be a good
choice, but steak tartare is probably
best avoided. Find out which foods
to avoid serving your wedding
guests.
• Exotic cuisine: You may be a
risk taker when it comes to cuisine,
but others may not share your zeal
for exotic foods. Now is not the time
to introduce guests to the wild and
wacky. If you’ve seen an exotic dish
on The Food Network or The Travel
Channel, give it a try another time.
• Anything on fire: Why risk an
accident for a spectacle? Baked alas-
ka, cherries jubilee, apples flambe...
these are foods that might provide a
show, but the cost of that show may
not be worth it in the end.
• Raw food: Clams on the half-
shell or sushi-grade tuna may seem
like good ideas, but keep in mind
that it is hard to ensure quality when
feeding 200 people at the same time.
Foods that require special refrigera-
tion or immediate service for fresh-
ness are best left for other occasions.
Don’t risk food poisoning on a room
full of people unless you want your
wedding to be remembered for
stomach cramps.
• A long, sit-down meal: Two or
three courses is fine, but if guests
have to sit through a never-ending
parade of courses, that limits their
ability to mingle and have a good
time.
• Anything too elaborate: The
faster servers can get food out to
guests the better.
• Fast food:This is your wedding
and you want the food to fit with the
scale of the day. A formal wedding
generally includes a formal meal.
Although it may be alright to include
some fast food inspired dishes at the
cocktail buffet, steer clear of burgers
and fries for the main meal.
• Themed food:Don’t dye that
baked potato purple because you
want the wedding to be a plum-
coloured affair. Also, it’s best to
avoid themed food, unless it is part
of a cultural wedding or can be
pulled off with class. It’s much easi-
er to pass off crepes and croissants
for a Parisian wedding than giant
turkey legs and tankards of ale for a
Renaissance-themed one.
• No food at all: Whether your
wedding is small or grand in scale,
guests will expect some sort of food.
Be sure to have some hors d’oeuvres
or some well-placed pickings for
guests to grab while mingling. After
all, they will need something to pro-
vide the energy to mingle and dance,
and food can help buffer the effects
of too many cocktails.
What not to serve your guests
MS –Many brides-to-be look for-
ward to the day when they visit a
bridal salon and are able to try on
gowns for the first time. There are
certain tips that can make the day go
much more smoothly and potentially
reduce the amount of time it may
take to find the perfect gown.
• Wear a supportive, well con-
structed strapless bra or corset in
your correct size. If you will be
wearing a petticoat, also have the
right size available.
• Go without face makeup when
trying on gowns so they remain
clean.
• Try to wear your hair similar to
the style you have in mind for your
wedding.
• Note that the size of the wedding
gown you will wear is typically one
to two sizes larger than your day-to-
day clothes. Proper measurements
can be matched to designers’ size
charts.
• It’s best to limit the number of
people with whom you shop to one
or two trusted friends or family
members. An entourage can be con-
fusing.
• It’s always better to order a
slightly larger gown and leave
room for alterations if you are
between sizes.
Tips for gown fittings
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