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SEAFORTH, ONTARIO, March 29;1973
Basics are necessary
From My Window
By Shirley J. Keller
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In the Years' Agone
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Ontario Liberal Leader
Robert Nixon was on sound
ground when he said in
the legislature that
schools in Ontario offer
a "cafeteria of curricu-
lum pablum ".
Suggesting that today's
curriculum choices allow
students to avoid basic
subjects Mr. Nixon, a
former science teacher,
said the province should
insist that students study
English, conversational
French and Canadian His-
tory.
Anyone who has had the
problem of attempting to
make sense of some of the
reports of meetings which
reach the average news-
paper office will agree
with Mr. Nixon. It long
has been a conundrum to
many'of us how a student
can spend a year o.r two
or more in secondary
school and still be at a
loss when faced with the
necessity of ,writing a
sentence or punctuating
a paragraph.
S a-c1,efi i n g
subjects,Atch are at
WIFE SWAPPING?
IT'S NOT FOR 'ME
Hereby a few notes of observation,
condemnation and celebration.
What is there to celebrate? Why,
man, it's Spring. Not only by the calen-
dar, -which happens every year, but by
the signs, which happen about once a
decade.
The grass is green
And birds are seen
The cat wants out
And I've lost my gout
The snow is gone
I can see my lawn
No mounds of ice
How awfully nice
I want to sing,
It must be spring. ti
There. A Canadian who does not
celebrate the actual as well as official
arrival of the vernal equinox should be
run out of the country as a base-born
traitor.
Each time winter comes around, which
it seems to do about every four months, I
think we all have a little secret dread
that this time it might never end, that
winter will go on and on and on until we
have shrivelled into arthritic, gnome-like
creatures with permanently dripping noses
and a perpetual cough. •
Maybe I'd feel differently if I Were
a farmer, but I could have kissed that
first crow I saw, drifting over the drifts
IV February.
That much-maligned creature, the
crow, is to Canadian winter-haters what
the warm breath of a maiden is to a
juvenile just before his first kiss.
This year, the whole dream seems
real, so crack open that crock of vintage
stuff, do a little soft-shoe shuffle, and
go out and kiss the mud in your back
yard. It may be the last time you can
celebrate such a miracle for the next
fifteen Marches.
That's the celebration part. Now
for some condemnation. with the disap-
pearance of the snow, we can see what
Nature so gracefully covered for a few
Months - all the filth that man has been
sweeping under the white carpet.
It's a junk-man's paradise: rags, bones
and bottles. A few companies who appear
to have some semblance of conscience
are announcing plans for recycling of
cans and bottles bit the great majority
of canners and bottlers are rolling right
ahead with their apparent project of cover-
the beck and call of the
students today can make
contributions to his well
being but only if he first
has learned the basics.
What good a course in
communication if he can't
spell or doesn't recognize
a sentence when he sees
it.
This generation is no .
different than other gen-
erations and students
will in most cases be
quite happy to select
what appears to be the
easier courses and avoid-
those that require some
concentration or special
effort. The only differ-
ence between today and
perhaps twenty years ago
is that today they get
away with it.
Certainly there is no
glamor in studying Mathe-
matics as there may be
in courses such as Instru-
mental Music or onsumer
Education. But the student
who is required to master
Math and the other basic
subjects in the years to
Come Will apprdciate the
fact he was not- permitted
to,, take the easy way out.
ing Canada to a depth of one foot, from
coast to coast, with empty cans and non-
returnable bottles.
Congratulations are due to those who
are making an effort, and the utmost
contempt must be awarded to those who
show their contempt for everything except
the bucks by defecating their cans and,
bottles in our living room - Canada.
Strange, isn't it, how governmentg
respond? Let a little guy burn some
leaves in his back yard and the law is
right on his back. He's broken the by-
law, he's a rotten polluter, he's a disgrace
to the community, and he shall be punished,
promptly and ruthlessly.
But when it comes to taking on a big
guy, a vast corporation, government stands
by, deploring and wringing its hands, and
occasionally administering a slap on the
wrist with a velvet glove, in the form of
a tiny fine that makes the company's
directors roar with laughter before they
go happily back to pouring their poisons
into the environment.
In the matter of bottles, government
could show a lead that would not imperil
a single politician, which seems to be the
Canadian Dream. It could insist that
liquor and wine bottles be returned for
use over and over again.
I'm sure the distillers and vintners
wouldn't quarrel with such a practice,
as long as it didn't cost them. In fact,
they'd be ahead. Some of those fancy
bottles must cost as much as it does
to produce the poison that goes into
them.
That's my condemnation bit for this
week. Now, some observations on these
peculiar days in which we live.
A couple of big-league American base
ball pitchers decided, according to the
news , to swap not only wives but families.
Then one of them tried to back out. The
other was indignant. thought he was
my buddy." he wailed.
Wife-swapping, particularly in
suburbia, is no new phenomenon. These
chaps merely extended the custom.
It's one that has never appealed much
to me. There have bden occasions, and
I know it's mutual, when I would have
swapped my wife for a second-hand pair
of hip waders.
But for another woman? Well, I look
around at the wives of all my men friends.
They're lovely girls, the wives, every
one of them. However, I'm one of those
old-fashioned chaps who can see little
advantage to deserting the frying-pan for
the fire.
And you know what? I'll bet my wife
won't understand that as a compliment.
•As a working mother, I don't like to
meet up with people who feel that working
mothers produce unhappy, unproductive
and neurotic kids. In my humble opinion,
whether or not a mother works outside the
home has very little to do with a child's
ultimate worth. Everything depends,I
believe, on a woman's natural ability to be
a good mother. I believe there are some
very bad mothering attempts by women
who are at home all the time.
Heaven knows, though, I'm hardly an
authority on mothering. Perfect mother-
hood is not my claim to fame. Although
I truly believe my three children like me
as much as any kids like their mother,
I doubt that they would recommend me
for any mothering awards.
Maybe that's because I have this ter-
rible habit of doing things my own way
as far as mothering is concerned. Take
today, for instance. I did something
today which is absolutely forbidden as
far as most child care books are concerned.
In fact, I'd be banned from any respect-
able mothers' club for my actions . . .
but then, it's the way I've been doing
things for my children for over 17 years
and they really don't seem to be much
worse than the average yougsters I've
met.
Just this noonhour, my daughter ar-
rived home from school with a kind of
jubilant look on her teenage face. She
had a right to be happy, I found. She
was announcing her, mid-term' examin-
ation marks . . . and I Was quite pleased
with her efforts in the scholastic de-
partment4
I was so pleased, in fact, that I
promised her that perhaps this weekend
we'd take that 4ip to the city we'd
been talking about for a month or so. I '
told her we might even look for that
new spring. coat and those shoes she'd
been asking about.
Ac
to everything I've
read
acboorudti According
gchild rearing, one must never
bribe a child to study at school. 'What's
more, one must not give monetary or
tangible rewards for good report cards.
It just isn't good for the child, the books
say, to teach that effort in the class-
room will produce financial gains of
any sort. It is taboo, say the experts.
As you will readily see, I don't go
by what the experts suggest, particu-
larly in this case.
I believe that fitting rewards at, the
proper time are quite acceptable to the
kids . . . and often bring more lasting
joy such as satisfaction, good mother-
child relationships, a sense of duty,etc.
I wonder how many of us would try to
do a good job at our place of work if
it wasn't for the pay check at the end of
the week - or the possibility of a raise
in salary when the proper time
arrived.
I wonder why the child raising ex-
perts are so reluctant to reward youngs-•
ters whD.put foith a good effort at
school, -on the playground, anywhere.
Vhat's So wrong with parents and their
children just being good friends and doing
nice things for each other on impulse,
because they are happy and in tune?
I've noticed that the schools are tak-
ing this competitive quality out of the
system. ,I wonder why little people in
the primary grades get' such colorless
report cards - just a generalized A, or
B and not a pin-pointed 65 or 73 or 89.
I wonder why there's this all-out effort
being made to fit children into neat little
graded slots with no compulsion put on
them to do better than the kid across the
aisle or in the back seat.
I've always rewarded my children for
a great effort. I've even rewarded them
for an honest effort, eve though there was
no top-notch result realized. I ' just
plainly and simply love my' kids and
when they've done their best in anything,
I like to show my appreciation for those
efforts with some reward they can actually
touch or feel or taste.
The rewards I give may not
necessarily be • what they've always
dreamed about. It may be nothing more
than an unexpected visit to the hamburger
stand . . . or_an,extra'ticket for the local
movie "house . . . or an early shopping
spree to pick up those necessities which
might have been left until later.
But my kids know that I appreciate
them and their efforts to do well. And
I 'do it because I love them and because
they deserve my love. If that's wrong,
sue mel
APRIL 1st, 1898.
Mr. Waldron, London Road, Stanley
Township, is going into the dairy business
extensively; he intends having 22 cows
and will have a separator and sell cream
to Mr. Boblers Creamery, Exeter,
J. P. Brine, the veteran auctioneer,
Is still to the front. He has a license
again this year, which makes his 42nd
year as an auctioneer in this neighbor-
hood.
I. V. Fear has purchased, from Wm.
Gray the building lot at the head of
John Street adjoining Mr. Gray's resi-
dence.
A little daughter of Wesley Beattie,
' of town, had her hands badly burned by
falling against the stove.
W. R. Counter of town, has the con-
tract for putting In a handsome large
oak clock in the Commercial Hotel.
Postmaster Dickson of town is having
the interior of the post office papered
and has had an electric light chandelier
placed in the waiting room.
The Wm. Martin farm of 90 acres in
Hullett Township was sold by auction
and realized $6,000 or $1,800 more than
the upset price.
Wm. Fairservice of Constance has
started gathering eggs for Messrs. Mc-
Mullen & Stuart of Blyth and now calls
weekly for the hen fruit.
Lou Farnham of Constance\ had a
plowing bee. He said this is a good way
to get rough sod turned over quickly.
Wm. Jowett of Hayfield has brought
his steam yacht from winter, quarters
at Goderich.
James Ferguson, Alex Ferguson and
Arthur Peck of Hayfield left to board
the steamer Hayfield at Owen Sound, hav-
ing been engaged for the summer.
Three of D. D. Wilson's egg wagons
of Seaforth, stood at the Market Square
at Kippen, during dinner hour. Surely
it begins to look like olden times with
Mr. Wilson.
John Drown of the Mill Road sewed
six acres of peas on the 24th of March.
Robert Snowden of Stanley, Sauble
Line, has had the misfortune to lase
four of his cattle.
A great many of the farmers ' at
Cromarty are making maple syrup and
the season proves to be a very good one.
Frank Hamilton, assistant blacksmith
at Cromarty, had the misfortune to have ,
his hand severely burned with the
consequence that he was laid off work
for a few days.
Wheeling iS now pretty good at
Hensell and considerable grain is being
brought into market.
----v MAR OM 'T3'01th r°112 3 P's- 't •,,
The neighbors and friends Of H.Jacobi
of Chiselhurst did a kindly act when they
gathered at his bush and cut his winter's
wood.
Mr. and Mrs. Leo Murray of Manley
moved to their new home in Hibbert and
their many friends and associates wish
them many years of happiness.
Owing, to the severe weather, cottage
prayer meetings are held in the dif-
fernt homes in Cromarty and adjoining
homes in the neighborhood.
The splendid neW garage and stable
on the Presbyterian Church property,
Walton, was destroyed by fire.
Mat. Armstrong of Hullett, shipped
a car load of fin e cattle to Toronto from
Walton.
John McIntosh brought to the Expositor
some beautiful Russet apples. " They had
been kept all winter 'in his cellar, and
were as firm and fresh as the day they
were picked.
J. H. Best has purchased the cottage
of Robert Smith on Goderich St. West.
wm. Duggan 'left for Detroit where
he has secured a good position.
Mrs. Robert McKenzie and Miss
Rena McKenzie left for Hamilton where
they will joins. party of Ontario teachers
who will make a tour of Washington,
New York and other eastern Cities dur-
ing the Easter holidays.
Mr. and Mrs. Isaac Hudson and family
have got comfortably settled in their' new
home on High Street which they purchased
'from Mr. Barber.
Peter Gingerich Of Blake has taken a
position with Cook Bros. in Hensall.
The Spring Show at Hensall, is looked
forward to with great interest and with
good weather, promises to be one of the
best ever held here. ;
The milliners, Mrs. Bertha Bell and
Miss Beryl Ashton, the latter for E.
Rennie, report splendid attendance at their
openings "and better still, good sales.
J. Leslie Kerr, Principal of the High
School at Hensall, spent the week end
with his parents at Seaforth.
Mrs. Chas. Holmes was the hostess
of a very enjoyable shower held at the
apartment in the Beattie Block in honor
of Miss Margaret Edge.
A special meeting of the Seaforth Town
Council was held when Robert Smith,
who sat on the Board for the past two
years, was presented with an address
by the Mayor, Reeve and his fellow coun-
cillors, prior to his departure for Chesley
where he has purchased a business.
APRIL 2, 1948
Mr. and Mrs. Thos. M . Grieve, well
known Egmondville residents marked the
fifty-eighth anniversary of their marriage.
They both enjoy good health.
The Highway East Farm Forum con-
cluded seven years of meetings with a
pot luck supper at the home of Mr. and
Mrs. Wm. Oldfield, when 34 members
attended. Dale Nixon extended a vote of
thanks, seconded by Mrs. Albert Harrison
to the host and hostess.
Lawrence P. PIumsteel, for the past
five years Principal of NeW Hamburg
High School, has been appointed Prin-
cipal of Seaforth District High School.
Mr. Plumsteel is a native of Clinton.
An enjoyable dance was held by the
Edelweis Rebekah Lodge in Cardno's Hall
and the music was furnished by. Graydon
Hopkins. Several dances were featured,„...---
Wilma Dinnin and Albert Dinnin winning —
the railroad dance. A spot dance was
won by Terry Loiselle and Max Peachy
and a second one by P.' D. l McConnel7,
and Mrs. Harold Jackson.
Prior to her marriage, Miss Marian
Meagher of Dublin was presented with a•
miscellaneous shower at the home of her
parents, Mr. and Mrs. John Meagher. An
address was read by Bessie Cronin.
Mr. and Mrs. Nelson Lear of Hullett
celebrated their 25th anniversary of their
wedding when 20 friends and relatives
gathered to mark the event. During the
evening, they were made the recipients
of a purse of money. Harry sturdy
read an address and Art Colson made
the presentation.
Ol 159 While eating "low - at hrs farm in
John1; Wane suffered seylous„.. ,
5Vn,jury
,.
became calleht
between two logs. While not broken, his
thumb and a finger were badly crushed.
An enjoyable evening was spent at -
the home of Mr. and Mrs. Arthur Finlay-
son, Tuckersmith, when friends and
neighbors gathered to honor Mr. and
Mrs. James Finlayson prior to their
moving to Egmondville . Progressive
euchre was played with the following
winners: Ladies 1st. Mrs, Harvey Mc-
Larnon; Consolation) Mrs."woods; Men's
first, Geo. Varley; Consolation, Robert
Upshall, Mr. and Mrs. Finlayson were
seated in two big chairs and wm. Broad-
foot read, an address and Roy Consitt
made the presentation.
Mrs. J. M. Govenlock sang a solo
"Christ will be Conqueror", at' the
W.M.S.meeting, the words of which were
composed by Miss H. I. Graham.
The school at Winthrop is closed
owing to the outbreak of scarlet fever.
Mr . Archie Campbell and Hiram
Blanchard of Winthrop are busy haul-
ing gravel for A.A.Cuthill for the
erection of a new barn this spring.
Thornton Howard has returned from
Buffalo and has taken his old position
in J. F. Daly's store.
All the departments in the public
school were opened, some of them having
been closed for several weeks owing to
the fuel shortage,
Rev. Fr., Goetz has returned from
London where t he spent some, time in
the hospital.
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