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HomeMy WebLinkAboutThe Citizen, 2015-10-15, Page 5THE CITIZEN, THURSDAY, OCTOBER 15, 2015. PAGE 5. As a certified old guy, I‘ve had the mixed blessing of living through a cascading cornucopia of male coiffures. In my teenage years, there was the D.A. – short for Duck’s, um, Behind. This style was achieved by growing one’s hair long on the sides, lacquering it down with copious splodges of Brylcreem, then sweeping the soggy strands to the back of the skull, where they amalgamated like the feathers on a duck’s posterior. The D.A. was crowned with a tsunami of hair stacked into an ocean breaker above the brow. Think Elvis Presley. For an example of a D.A. gone hideously awry, think Donald Trump. The D.A. spawned at least one exotic offshoot: the Boogy Cut. The plastered, swept- back side panels remained the same, but the rococo pompadour was dropped in favour of a brush cut. So. Matching waves of greasy hair to port and starboard, topped by a field of stubble. The Boogy Cut enjoyed limited appeal, being adopted primarily by juvenile delinquents, recidivist felons and tattooed adherents of White Power gangs. Other hairstyles waxed and waned through their 15 minutes of fashion fame –the mop top shag popularized by The Beatles, the Iroquois Wedge popularized by First Nations wannabes, the Afro, for those who cherished the look of a gangly dandelion gone to seed.... And Canada’s chief contribution to male hirsuteness – the Mullet, AKA Hockey Hair. You can see classic mullets on WWE wrestlers, Yonge Street bouncers and on Mel Gibson in his early movies – cascading curtains of hair waterfalling down the back of the neck. For reasons unknown, journeymen hockey players adopted the style (hence the name). So did sundry B list country singers like Billy Ray Cyrus (which accounts for one of Hockey Hair’s synonyms – Kentucky Landslide). There are other aliases – Beaver Paddle, Ape Drape, Missouri Compromise and Tennessee Top Hat to name a few. Which brings us to yet another, more recent male hair style: the Man Bun. That’s where a guy gathers his longish hair into a clump or cluster on the top of the head, kneads it into a giant hairball and ties it off like a sheaf of wheat. Does it look good? No. It looks like a ponytail with an erection. Some Man Bun fans claim the style is utilitarian in that it keeps the long hair out of the wearer’s eyes and mouth. Here’s a suggestion: get a buzzcut. Or wear a shower cap. Anything – just lose the ugly Man Bun. Fortunately, the Man Bun seems to be dying out of its own accord. Yesterday I saw an intense TSE broker type dude, striding purposefully through downtown Toronto in regulation pinstripes, shiny black shoes, blue tie, attache case – and a Man Bun on his head. When a male fashion fad hits Bay Street you know it’s officially on life support. And not a moment too soon. Trust me – the only man who can possibly look good in a Man Bun is a samurai warrior. And that’s because any guy who wears a kimono, carries a three-foot sword and knows how to use it can look any damn way he pleases. For the rest of us its a non-starter, the Man Bun. Or, as it should be known – the Dork Knob. Arthur Black Shawn Loughlin Shawn’s Sense This is probably going to be one of the least popular columns I write (which I honestly hope is at the top of a short list) but, Toronto Maple Leaf fans, you have really got to get that chip removed from your shoulder. Just because I don’t have room to say “some but not all fans” every other sentence throughout this piece, I’ll just say this now. I’m not talking about all Toronto Maple Leaf fans. I’m talking about (and you probably all know a few of them) the Maple Leaf fans who make themselves look like those hardest-done by in the sports world. Last week I took to Facebook to poke a little fun at the Maple Leafs since my team, the Montreal Canadiens (Les Habitants, or the Habs), were able to best them 3-1. All I said, and this is literally verbatim, was, “Did anyone catch the Montreal game last night? I had to work.” Of course, it was a tongue-in-cheek comment. I knew exactly how the game went (though I did actually have plans and missed the entire game). It was just the kind of thing that my non-Maple Leaf fan friends and family members say to each other to joke around with each other. A friend of mine, also a Canadiens fan, suggested that I “tag” the post to include all my friends who happen to cheer for the Maple Leafs. I explained to him that I would like to, but Maple Leaf fans can’t really take the kind of ribbing I was dishing out. They’re so danged sensitive to anyone saying a cross word about their favourite team. No sooner had I said that, then a certain someone in the community told me to ‘tread safely’ because he knows where I live. I know he was joking, so I, also jokingly, pointed to him as a perfect example. Not long after that, however, a family member of a really good friend of mine went on an unabashed diatribe regarding how Montreal should not have won the game in question and talked about how poor the Habs were with the exception of their goalie and how the analysts say Toronto played better and... you know what, I think you get the gist. That kind of reaction was exactly what I was talking about when I said, then half-jokingly, that Maple Leaf fans really can’t stand jokes. The people who react like this are like school in the summer. (No class, if that was a stumper). Obviously, I pointed out the comment as a second example and referred to how “damned sensitive” some Maple Leaf fans are. Maybe some of you over-zealous Leaf fans just don’t know how these exchanges are supposed to go, so I’ll give you a quick demonstration. My father (and don’t worry Dad, this isn’t going to be anything embarrassing... well, except for the fact that you cheer for the Bruins) and I are often ribbing each other given that our teams, the Habs and the Boston Bruins, are perennial rivals. I’m pretty sure that, right now, I owe him two or three coffees and a decent bottle of spirits because lately Boston seems to keep besting Montreal in important games. Every single time our teams play each other, whoever is cheering for the winning team will be sure to call the other person to make sure they aren’t missing their team lose. We laugh, we agree that there are a lot of missed opportunities, we rib back and forth about bad calls and we keep an unwritten, unofficial tally of who owes whom which beverages. Neither of is going to call the other on the owed coffees (unless we’re actually going through a coffee shop drive-thru). It’s more about being able to talk to someone about a good game of hockey and having a laugh. It’s always a fun exchange. You don’t get into analyzing the game, you don’t get into who deserved the win, you laugh, smile and say, “we got you last time,” or “we’ll get you next time,” or “well the Cup is still ours.” That’s how those exchanges are supposed to go. Some Maple Leaf fans, however, feel like they are the most ostracized people in the world. I could make some pretty dark references here, but let’s just say that the way some Leaf fans react to ribbing makes you think they must be stoned and persecuted when walking the streets because of their choice in hockey teams. The way these few fans act, you would think that they are in northern Quebec and the minority group of fans. My experience is the opposite: Most people around here are Toronto fans. As a matter of fact, if I had to rank them, I would say Toronto has the most fans in this corner of the province, followed by the Detroit Red Wings, Montreal and then maybe the Ottawa Senators. That’s been my experience anyway. We’re so close to Toronto that, it just makes sense that many of the people around here are fans. We’re also close to Detroit, so that makes sense. But you don’t see people who cheer for Detroit acting this way and the rest of us (the Blackhawk fans, the Montreal fans, the Bruins fans, the Canucks fans, the Jets fans, the Colorado fans...) are just happy to have some people to talk about the game with. It seems to be a disease that affects only fans of the Maple Leafs. I know it isn’t easy being a Leafs fan and we all feel for you. You cheer for a team that hasn’t held Lord Stanley’s Cup in so long and that has to sting, but you can’t go around freaking out every time someone verbally (or digitally) elbows you in the side and tells a joke. You also have some of the most ridiculous expenses to see a game. A quick search shows that single tickets left for one of Toronto’s first games are $100 minimum while Montreal’s tickets are as low as $51. So don’t misunderstand me, I know it’s rough being a Leafs fan. That said, it’s not like it’s something you can’t change. If cheering for this team makes you so angry, so bitter that you have to react like someone insulted your mother when they rib you about your team losing, then maybe it’s time to trade in the blue hat for a Sens hat or a Habs hat. Either that, or maybe switch sports. I hear the Raptors always need a few more fans. Denny Scott Denny’s Den Shut out The offices of The Citizen can feel like a bit of a bubble sometimes. I’m sure all workplaces can give employees that bubbly feeling at times. Especially when it comes to a job involving creation, operating in a bubble is a legitimate concern. Take the Blyth Festival, for example. Most people involved with the Blyth Festival have been around the world of theatre their whole lives, so when they view a play, they view it from the perspective of those who have been around theatre their whole lives. It’s natural, of course, because you can’t simply invent a new perspective for yourself. But, again, using the Blyth Festival as an example, the kind souls there always need to remember their audience and how they will respond to a play the Festival produces, not just what people who have been around theatre their whole lives will think. Back to our office, things are the same. We “create” content here (not to say we create it out of thin air, but you know what I mean) and then send it away to you, the reader, to do with what you will. And we must remember that. What’s important to a room full of writers is, perhaps, not always important to our readers. For example, when preparing questions for local federal candidates for this week’s issue, we proposed a question about the future of the CBC, but we wondered if that was maybe something we cared about, but the general public didn’t, so we dropped the question. So, when I read last week about Premier Kathleen Wynne banning journalists from a number of events involving the province and a high-ranking Chinese official, as a journalist, I was disgusted – and I hoped this wasn’t one of those things that only mattered to journalists and no one else. In reporting done by The Globe and Mail, it was discovered that Luo Zhijun, party secretary for China’s Jiangsu province, was in Ontario for a trio of events with Wynne, all of which were held behind closed doors. A decision like this made by the woman running the province is, of course, going to infuriate a journalist – someone who has dedicated his life to the concept of the freedom of the press in a country as great as Canada. But why should the general public care? The same has been done by Prime Minister Stephen Harper. As reported by Vice, reporters have been banned from a number of Harper’s events. This comes after Harper restricted reporters to five questions per day in 2011. Perhaps those daily five tuckered him out, so he decided to nix media inquiries altogether. When asked why media was banned from the events, apparently at the request of the Chinese side of the equation, Wynne said she hadn’t been part of those conversations. If not the woman running the province, then who exactly is involved in those conversations? It’s sad that the exclusion of media is becoming more widespread and more accepted than ever. Members of the media are the window into your government, among other things, so if we’re banned from events, so too then, by extension, are you. So if the person running our country and the person running our province are not allowing the media to report from events, then I’ll have to have this whole freedom of the Canadian press thing explained to me over again. With Wynne’s (and her party’s) already- shoddy transparency record, she doesn’t seem to be keeping that “open government” promise of hers. 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