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HomeMy WebLinkAboutThe Citizen, 2017-05-25, Page 5THE CITIZEN, THURSDAY, MAY 25, 2017. PAGE 5. Other Views The reality is words do hurt people From the number of people who have damaged their careers in the last week or so because of loose lips, maybe we need Walt Disney to reissue the movie Bambi — you know the one where Thumper the rabbit's father advises him: "If you can't say something nice, don't say nothin' at all!" People have lost jobs or potential jobs lately because of things they said or wrote. Not, of course, Kevin Pillar, the Blue Jays star outfielder who was caught shouting a homophobic slur at an opposing pitcher in a moment of frustration after striking out during a game when Toronto was getting hammered. He was suspended for two games but you don't get fired when you have the singular talent of a Major League star. But others have paid a higher price, often for facetious quips they made on social media, which are the equivalent for ordinary people of the open mike that catches an off -hand comment of a politician. Three political hopefuls in Nova Scotia's upcoming provincial election have resigned or been dropped by their parties (all three of the Liberals, Progressive Conservatives and New Democrats) after people sniffed out inappropriate things they'd said online, often years ago. Political parties spend a lot of time investigating the backgrounds of their candidates trying to prevent providing ammunition for their opponents. A candidate who proves to be an embarrassment might not only lose the local riding but can damage the party's brand across an entire province or country. One party insider said that checking into a candidate's background used to mean looking at their bank records and things that they might have written that were on the public record but now it means patiently reading through reems and reems of things they've posted on Facebook, Twitter accounts and websites, Roulston From the cluttered desk trying not to nod off as you read stories about their kids or cats while looking for the one incendiary comment that might blow up. But you must do it, he said, because you know your opponents will or some casual reader may find something and blow the whistle. The reality is that things you might have said in the past over coffee that would have been forgotten, or at least undocumented, are out there forever when you tweet something you thought was funny, or you react in anger. In Nova Scotia, the candidates often got in trouble for things they'd written years ago. One, a woman, made a joke about a date rape drug. Another, in an ancient post had angrily struck out at someone and made reference to Down Syndrome. The third, an NDP candidate no less, made comments he himself termed "misogynistic". Meanwhile the whole "cultural appropriation" debate has cost editors of two Canadian magazines their jobs. Hal Niedzviecki, editor of Write, the quarterly magazine put out by the Writers' Union of Canada, set off the explosion in an editorial for an issue focused on the work of Indigenous authors. He said he did not believe in cultural appropriation but thought "anyone, anywhere, should be encouraged to imagine other peoples, other cultures, other identities." He really set off the land mine when he suggested there might even be an "appropriation" prize for "for best book by an author who writes about people who aren't even remotely like her or him." The Writers' Union immediately apologized for the pain and offence caused by the editorial and Niedzviecki was fired. He apologized but others came to his defence, including Jonathan Kay, editor of The Walrus magazine who used an online column on the National Post website to defend what he felt was a freedom of speech issue. When the backlash hit, he quit. The dominant story line right now, in a time of reconciliation toward Indigenous people, has become the hurt caused when their stories are told by outsiders who don't understand what it's like to be Indigenous. Here, as in the case of Pillar and the things said by the discarded political candidates, the emphasis is on the hurt these careless comments cause. Things have changed a lot that way over the years. I was teased relentlessly, even by my best friends, for most of my public school years. When I'd come home in tears my mother would repeat the old saying of the time: "Sticks and stones will break my bones but names will never hurt me". It didn't help. The words hurt. My mother would then turn to her back-up strategy which was to advise me not to let my schoolmates see that what they were saying hurt me. It was a good theory based in the reality that the kids wouldn't change so I had to. The problem was I couldn't appear invulnerable. These days we know words do hurt, with a growing number of young people choosing to end their lives to escape taunting. The emphasis is now on the elimination of the cruel use of words to hurt others. The effort to prevent the use of hurtful remarks and taunts is proper, but in reality humans will never be perfected. For our own good those of us who are sensitive also need to develop our ability not to become the victims of bullies. I know from experience that's not easy but it's self preservation in a world where you can't make everyone change. NH Councillors are missing the point For years I have listened to members of North Huron Council complain about how no alternatives are presented by people complaining about high taxes. Council members (a couple in particular) have said on more than one occasion they are tired of hearing about how high the taxes are in North Huron because no one presents them with a way to reduce the taxes. They aren't looking for ratepayers to do the extensive research behind such an undertaking, but looking for them to point out which services could be cut to reduce the taxes. It's an admirable request. Criticism without actionable alternatives is just noise, after all, that's why, when it comes to writing about taxes, I have a slightly -more -even-handed way of looking at the issue: I know that, without giving up some of the services we use, we can't expect taxes to decrease. That said, when the community -at -large does provide you with direction, you can't ignore it so you can try and cut taxes. Twice now, ratepayers have, through surveys implemented by the township, said they prefer weekly pick-up in the urban area. In the first survey, which was created early this year, it was made pretty clear that of the near -400 respondents, an overwhelming number of them create at least one clear garbage bag of solid waste weekly. Of the 380 respondents, 302, or 81.62 per cent, say they produce one bag of garbage a week. The rest said they produce two, three, four or more bags of garbage per week. That first survey also stated that the majority of respondents (365) produce at least blue box of recyclable materials per week. Of that majority, most (220) produce more than two blue boxes. So here we have the majority of people 11.1% Denny Scott rianigh Denny's Den saying that they produce at least one bag of garbage per week and at least one, likely more, blue box per week. In that same survey, more than 80 per cent of people said they wanted weekly garbage collection. North Huron produced a second survey, one that claimed more context. Now, I could dispute that. As someone well trained in communications, I could point out how misleading the survey was (including a dollar amount for garbage collection but not including a reference to the overall budget or other services is definitely what we in the communications community call a red herring, for example). I could do that, but that would take an entire other column. Heck, I may do that, but not today. That second survey, despite the misleading questions, resulted in a majority of respondents saying they did not support reducing collection services to lower taxes. So, for those keeping score, we have a majority of people, even when presented with incomplete context, saying "maintain urban collection". What's council's suggestion? Make people sit on at least one bag of garbage and probably two boxes of recycling for an extra week. Hold on, that doesn't track. While people not wanting to provide solutions to their council is a considerable concern, councillors not listening to the people who elect them is an even greater concern. The only logical argument against weekly pick-up came from Deputy -Reeve James Campbell and Councillor Ray Hallahan who pointed out that East Wawanosh already had bi-weekly collection. Of course, people living in a rural setting do typically have more space to store garbage, more options to get rid of it (open fires are only permitted in non -urban areas to eliminate acceptable burn materials) and likely have, again, more room for composting. I've spoken to some folks about this issue and they wonder why I'm so hot under the collar about the issue. Allow me to explain. I don't have a backyard. My property was severed, once upon a time, with maybe a dozen feet between my backdoor and my property line and most of that is deck. I also don't have a functioning basement. I have nowhere to keep garbage aside from in my house and, between pets, baby diapers and all the regular garbage a family generates, I'm at a loss as to where I would keep excess garbage for as much as 13 days. Beyond that, however, is the fact that the people have spoken and our representatives just aren't listening, so let me spell it out, Steve Harvey style (you'll have to imagine me wearing a double-breasted suit): How many people want to keep weekly garbaging? Survey says more than half. That means, to represent the people who put you in office, North Huron council members, you have to maintain weekly garbage collection and not just for two years, but until a majority says they don't want it. Stop asking for feedback if you aren't willing to listen to it. Shawn Loughlin Ajliggi Shawn's Sense A day that will live on Friday was a great day in Blyth. Everyone said so. In the early morning hours of Friday, May 19, I walked around town and everyone I spoke with would exclaim that it was a "big day" for the village. It just so happened to be my 35th birthday. Once I got over the childish notion that everyone was talking about me and how splendid it was to celebrate the anniversary of that 1982 day in May when I was brought into the world, it got me thinking about just how important Blyth Memorial Community Hall is to this patch of land we call Blyth. The hall is right in the centre of town, so there's that. Geographically it's hard for much to go on within Blyth without the hall playing at least some part in the festivities. But it really is a psychological thing for those who live in or frequent the village. When the hall is busy, the village is busy. And when the village is busy, life is just a little bit more exciting for everyone here. Politicians were buzzing about and preparations were being made throughout the day. It was clear it was a big day on the Blyth calendar. And not just the 2017 calendar, but that historic calendar that people will look back on years from now and remember. Millions of dollars were put into the renovations at the hall. Whether it was for new seats, technological advancements in parts of the hall most of us will never notice (like lighting, sound, the kitchen and general ease of use), the new courtyard or even the Phillips Studio, plenty has been done to make the hall beautiful and historic, yet modern. And while Blyth residents, business owners and stakeholders have been told to expect a boom as a result of numerous investments like the Goderich-to-Guelph Rail Trail, Blyth Cowbell Brewing Company and the Canadian Centre for Rural Creativity, it's hard to imagine the Blyth Festival and Memorial Hall being dethroned as the focal point of the village anytime soon. Those things will be great, but Blyth has built its reputation on the success of the Festival over the last 42 seasons and its name has become synonymous with the great Canadian work being done on the hall's stage. What then comes next? It's easy to say that Memorial Hall and the Blyth Festival are important to Blyth. That's not exactly a "hot take" as they say in the biz. But what comes next for the Blyth Festival and the building it calls home? Well, you don't pay a few million dollars to renovate your home if you don't plan on throwing a few parties — if that makes sense. What I mean is that the village now needs to bring people in. Not to heap pressure on the shoulders of Festival Artistic Director Gil Garratt — I'm sure there's enough there already; likely mostly of the self-imposed variety. But it's up to him and the team at the Festival to put fannies in the seats, as they say. It will be the Festival's rising tide that will lift all boats. If the Festival is successful, everything else comes along for the ride. More people eat and drink at Cowbell and Blyth's other fine restaurants. More people become aware of the Canadian Centre for Rural Creativity (when it's built) and what's being done there (once it's finalized) and maybe more people even hop on the G2G trail and take in this lovely landscape of ours on a bicycle or even on foot. To steal (and adapt) the immortal quote from Field of Dreams: Blyth has built it, now we have to get them to come.