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HomeMy WebLinkAboutThe Citizen, 2017-03-02, Page 19THE CITIZEN, THURSDAY, MARCH 2, 2017. PAGE 19. 2017 Bridal Showcase Second weddings can celebrate with vigor Second time around A second or third wedding doesn't have to be a subdued affair with trends shifting all the time. Tying the knot a second time can call for a celebrate that would rival the first time. (MS photo) MS — Couples are returning to the altar in increasing numbers, as second and third weddings are becoming ever more popular. Pew Research Center indicates that, as of 2014, 64 per cent of divorced or widowed men have remarried, compared with 52 per cent of previously married women. Lavish second weddings were once uncommon, but that trend is also shifting. Couples who are taking another crack at marriage are tying the knot with renewed vigor and with weddings that may rival the celebrations of some first -timers. Men and women who are remarrying after divorce or being widowed may not know how to approach planning their upcoming nuptials. The following are some guidelines to making the wedding sequel a success. • Wardrobe: Couples who have been married before often find that they have more leeway with regard to their wedding wardrobes than they did when tying the knot for the first time. Brides may choose something less traditional than a long, white dress. In fact, this can be a time to let loose and select something that is festive or even funky. This also may provide a great opportunity to choose clothing styles from different cultures or ties into one's heritage. This freedom also allows brides to broaden their horizons with regard to where to buy their wedding wardrobes. Grooms may opt for something more casual than a tuxedo or co- ordinate with their brides-to-be so they are on the same creative page. Coloured tuxedos and vintage suits are acceptable, even though such attire might have raised a few eyebrows the first time around. • Guest list: The guest list doesn't have to be a source of anxiety. Others will understand that there may be a melange of people at a second wedding. Children from previous marriages as well as divorced spouses or former parents- in-law are not out of the question. Even if exes will not be included, make sure they know about the nuptials in advance of others. It's common courtesy, and it can help head off feelings of ill -will. Some couples choosing to tie the knot again scale back the size of the wedding this time around, feeling something smaller and more intimate — with only the closest of friends and family — is more suitable. • Registries and wedding gifts: Considering couples who have been married previously likely have many of the housewares and items for daily living that first -timers may not, registering for these gifts is not necessary. What's more, some of the same guests may have been present at first marriages and gifted then. In lieu of gifts, couples may ask guests to donate to a specific charity or forgo gifts altogether. • Vows: Couples can use experience to draft vows that have personal meaning to their unique situations and make the wedding Begion Ideal for smaller gatherings - fully licensed - catering available - hardwood dance floor - full kitchen - air conditioned - seats 150-175 comfortably 519-887-6562 Give Your Wedding Guests A Taste of Country Charm... atering Anything from hors d'oeuvres, customized trays, salads, delicious dessert to full meals & specializing in Buffets. Your location or ours Berry Farm Wedding Favours Homemade preserves to scrumptious baked goods! Contact Us: 519-482-1666 77697 Orchard Line, Bayfield, Ontario berryfarm@tcc.on.ca • www.bayfieldberryfarm.on.ca B ayfield Farms mFind us on Facebook ceremony even more special. People getting married again can impart their own personalities into the ceremony and party to follow. VJ Coma:unit* eerie Rentals for all occasions Contact: Jonathan Van Camp 519-357-8259 There are no hard rules governing second weddings, so couples can plan their weddings with good times in mind. .E'od c�ocvt 6eAt on coo -wt Sp cia t • manicures — try shellac nails • pedicures • facials • reflexology • waxing • tinting • paraffin wax therapy HEIDI'S ESTHETICS 42043 Blyth Rd., Walton Open Tues., Thurs., Fri., Sat. 519-887-9348 Limousine Brussels, ON Service 1-519-887-8773 rasions Wedding Specialists '?47t Receptiono LfeCtia-lZ Call today for booking and rates for weddings, buck & does, anniversaries, banquets, meetings, or any other special event. Township of ORO N North Huron Facilities HURON Blyth Community Centre Hall - 519-357-1208 Accommodates 360 people. Air-conditioned with full kitchen facilities. Arena floor available during summer for up to 1000 people. North Huron Wescast Community Complex Wingham 519-357-1208 Hot Stove Lounge accommodates up to 80 people. Arena floor available during summer for up to 1000 people.